Recordings › Shaykh Kashif Khan | Policing thought, Pornography & Pandora's box | MindTrap with Mufti #15 · 19 Apr 2020 › Segment 27 of 35
Is oral sex between spouses haram because the private parts are impure?
hadeeth ahadith ahaadeeth hadis hadees ahaadith al-bukhari sahih al-bukhari sahih bukhari saheeh al-bukhari saheeh bukhari imam al-bukhari imaam imams prayer leader muftis haraam forbidden riba ribaa sood usury jahannam jahanam jahannum aya ayat ayaat aayah aayat verse sahabah sahabi sahabiyyah sahabiyat companions deen al-din ad-deen ad-dinA student debate on oral sex at Jamia Abi Bakr: the right hand and impurity
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machinesummary, machine-writtenThe guest says the arguments against oral sex within marriage, from the right-hand prohibition and from impurity, do not hold, since one's own body is not impure; Mufti Abu Layth says he agrees.
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The guest describes a debate among students at Jamia Abi Bakr about oral sex. He says those who opposed it argued that the Prophet forbade touching the private part with the right hand, to which he replied that one can use the left; and that it is impure, to which he replied that one's own body parts are not impure. He cites the statement that a person's private part is only a part of him, asking why anyone would carry something impure. He says these people have no logic. Mufti Abu Layth says he agrees with everything the guest is saying, and then puts a question to him.
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he brought a narration from the from Moscow hadith where a Sahaba she goes to the Prophet and ask about her menstruation cycle directly Prophet SAW Imam Bukhari he is trying to prove in kitab incapable ill that there is no shyness there is no you don't have to be shy you don't have to you know ayah when you ask learning the religion this is what religion is so so it's people they are shy in learning in Jami ABI bakr once we had a menorah we had a debate in the in the between the students about
oral sex so anyway in Jeremiah B Burchell I did we got that virus they were somewhere over there we had yes are you saying you're discussing this topic with them about debate going on in the students in Sami butter and those who
say you cannot have oral sex is because the Prophet forbade touching the penis with the right hand so I said there is no problem we can touch it from the left hand left hand it anyway another reason they state it because it's not just impure I said
impure then in October - is there seeing your own body powers impure and like how can you live within here in fact isn't that the statement of signal you rode along on you know the masala of muscle thicker if you touch it you will do break then I said in Canon adjacent [ __ ] Tahu he said if it's you adjust then what do you cut it off like why are
you carrying something so these people they have no logic I mean okay but a question because I agree with everything you're saying but a question here that people will always ask me and just to be fair to raise the question would you say that look all of this coming up all this kind of talk all this kind of discussion and I mentioned the reason why you know I think this topic is important is
because it's so real and nobody has I'm gonna be honest with you nobody has the courage they just don't have the cojones to kind of like really talk about these you know if I got a Madonna on here or a ship that believed in some of this stuff to be true he would never in public say say that he would just in public line and behind closed doors he'll tell me that yeah it's okay tomorrow him yeah I I don't that's why I don't have you know financial conflict of interest I exist I
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Mufti Abu Layth. (2020, April 19). Is oral sex between spouses haram because the private parts are impure? [Video, segment 2020-04-19b-S27, auto-transcribed, may contain errors]. Mufti Abu Layth Archive. Retrieved November 1, 2026, from https://muftiabulayth.org/r/housirokbvu/s/27/
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@misc{abulayth-2020-04-19b-S27, author = {Mufti Abu Layth}, title = {{Is oral sex between spouses haram because the private parts are impure?}}, year = {2020}, month = {4}, date = {2020-04-19}, howpublished = {\url{https://muftiabulayth.org/r/housirokbvu/s/27/}}, url = {https://muftiabulayth.org/r/housirokbvu/s/27/}, organization = {Mufti Abu Layth Archive}, urldate = {2026-11-01}, note = {Segment 2020-04-19b-S27, auto-transcribed, may contain errors} }
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