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Intimacy in marriage

9 segments in 8 recordings · 2019 to 2021 · 0 verified · 3 checked positions · relationships/marriage/intimacy · Feed

Most recent statement · 13 Apr 2021Are many people's frustrations really about unmet sexual needs?Older segments link here so no earlier explanation is read as the last word.

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Latest answer · 13 Apr 2021

13 Apr 2021Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth LatestAre many people's frustrations really about unmet sexual needs? Mufti Abu Layth says much bitterness comes from unmet sexual needs, that Islam itself does not see sex negatively, and that Freud should be judged on his ideas, not his character. Lessonposition checkedSigmund FreudCharles Darwin machine9 min 11 s2:43:47on YouTube

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2021 · 4

6 Apr 2021Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth Are disgusting sexual fetishes between spouses haram? Such fetishes are not haram, however disgusting most people find them: contact with impurity is unclean but not forbidden, and what a consenting couple do in private is their own business. Nobody is obliged to do them. Question from live chatposition checkedTariq RamadanharamHanafi schoolno one may declare haram what Allah has not declared haram machine8 min 30 s1:04:21on YouTube
26 Jan 2021Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth Dawah Man on intimacy positions, citing Ibn al-Qayyim, played and mocked Mufti Abu Layth plays and mocks a preacher's advice, attributed to Ibn al-Qayyim, against the woman-on-top position as encouraging femininity in men. Otherguest speechDawah ManIbn al-Qayyim machine6 min 33 s2:59:20on YouTube
19 Jan 2021Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth Reaction to a niqabi's clip using driving as a metaphor for sex A clip of a woman in niqab using a driving metaphor for intimacy, in which Mufti Abu Layth sees nothing wrong. Otherguest speech machine2 min 04 s3:07:46on YouTube
5 Jan 2021Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth Is anal intercourse with my wife haram? Mufti Abu Layth says no sahih hadith makes anal intercourse with one's wife haram, and that preachers should stop guilt-tripping people over private matters. Lessonguest speechreport: whoever has intercourse with his wife in her anus allah will not look at him on the day of judgement (unresolved)Abu Ibraheem HusnaynZakir NaikImam Malik machine7 min 28 s2:23:10on YouTube

2020 · 3

27 Oct 2020Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth Mufti Abu Layth mocks a critic's clip on intimacy and slit bedsheets Mufti Abu Layth ridicules a critic's story that intimacy was once seen as so foul that couples used slit bedsheets. Otherguest speech machine4 min 39 s3:11:27on YouTube
19 Apr 2020MindTrap with Mufti Abu Layth Is it haram for a husband to drink his wife's breast milk? The guest says classical jurists allowed a husband to drink his wife's milk, and Mufti Abu Layth says the Maliki school considers it pure and not haram, unlike a stricter Hanafi view. Discussionquoted view, not his positionguest speechShaykh Kashif Khan (guest)rada' (breastfeeding)Maliki schoolHanafi school machine9 min 08 s55:16on YouTube
19 Apr 2020MindTrap with Mufti Abu Layth Is oral sex between spouses haram because the private parts are impure? The guest says the arguments against oral sex within marriage, from the right-hand prohibition and from impurity, do not hold, since one's own body is not impure; Mufti Abu Layth says he agrees. Discussionmay contain a quoted viewguest speechShaykh Kashif Khan (guest)Jamia Abi Bakr (Karachi)report: the prophet forbade touching the private part with the right handreport: it is only a part of you machine2 min 32 s2:21:08on YouTube

2019 · 1

18 Jul 2019From the Mind of a Mufti What is al-Suyuti's book about sex? Al-Suyuti wrote about sex, including a section on names for the penis, and endorsed a saying that the two greatest worldly pleasures are horse riding and sex. Mufti Abu Layth agrees with al-Ghazali that orgasm is the closest worldly pleasure to those of paradise. Question from live chatposition checkedal-Suyutial-Ghazalijannah (Paradise) machine2 min 32 s0:00on YouTube