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Is anal intercourse with my wife haram?

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An 'educational video' on anal intercourse, guilt-tripping, and Abu al-Zinad's uncle

LessonRecorded 5 Jan 2021Monday Nights with Mufti Abu LaythSegment 32 of 35 in the recording2021-01-05-S32

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Mufti Abu Layth says no sahih hadith makes anal intercourse with one's wife haram, and that preachers should stop guilt-tripping people over private matters.

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Mufti Abu Layth plays a second video from the same preacher saying anal intercourse with one's wife is absolutely haram and that, per a hadith, Allah will not look at a man who does it. Mufti asks why God would be angry, and says that, without encouraging the practice, there is not a single sahih hadith or anything in the Quran or Sunnah making it haram, referring to his reply to Abu Ibraheem the exorcist. He mocks the preacher's sense of priorities during lockdown, unemployment and depression, and asks people to stop guilt-tripping, noting that Zakir Naik and others have done a U-turn on masturbation. He tells a story of a teacher of Imam Malik whose nephew, Abu al-Zinad [?], pressed him about intimacy and was told that behind closed doors one may do as one wishes. He concludes that being unable to do something in front of one's parents does not make it haram.

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2:21:15

What kind of next level is this? Like, can you would you do would you do it in front of your mom and dad? This many things I won't do in front of my mom and dad. What kind of a is that? So anyway, that was the first one. Then uh you know the the holy holy brother keeps on giving.

2:21:42

So here's the next my beloved brothers and sisters is watching this but this is an education video inshallah. So learn about your dean. It is no problem and to learn about the stuff it is actually obligatory upon you. With this being said, having intimacy with the wife, sexual intercourse in the anus, it is absolutely haram.

2:22:08

The prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam said in a hadith that Allah would not even look at a man who has sexual intercourse with his wife in the anus. Allah would be angry with you. in other words. AND I mean look, yeah, let me I can understand the the the the person that it's happening to being angry with you.

2:22:34

Why? Why is Allah being angry with you? [Laughter] Why is Allah getting angry? connection. I can't understand. I can understand the other person saying, "Yeah, I'm angry for him." But why why is God getting angry?

2:23:10

Yeah, this is the problem with guilt tripping people. Okay. So, first of all, look, I'm not saying you need to go practice this special special, but it look in all honesty, there isn't a single sahi hadith to say it's haram. There's no such thing like in the Quran or Sunnah. And I've got a video explaining that.

2:23:35

In fact, if you watch my reply to uh Abu Ibraim the exorcist, I explain it in there. I go through the books and demonstrate that there's no such thing. And I go through Shannan's commentary and other things. And I get if you want to warn people against but I find look this is an unhealthy obsession you know like I need to save the world you know I need to save this um the um is suffering I agree you know this corona virus there's lockdowns

2:24:13

businesses have been shut down people are out of work people you know there's domestic violence there's a lot of depression depression going on. There's a lot of, you know, people feel anxiety. They're stuck at home. What the um needs say what what what is the key feature that I can save of this um I know I'll save the anus.

2:24:40

[Laughter] Who what made you think that the anus of the um is in danger? control here control this one too much you're too much so listen I get the fact you want to impart beautiful advice but uh this one not beautiful you know this one this one too beautiful not beautiful this one you give the beautiful advice beautiful so this is the thing so please

2:25:19

stop trying to guilt trip people even who I'll come to in a moment has backtracked and done a U-turn and Zakir Nike have done a U-turn on masturbation and many of the copies look I get it if you don't do it I'm not saying do these things I'm not saying these things are good or bad or whatever but don't guilt trip make people feel just more bad about themselves with all this nasheed music and all this Would you do it in front of your mom?

2:25:52

Huh? What kind of aam question is that? What would I do in front of my mom? What kind of a sicko do you take me to be? You know this reminds me there was u the story once uh Imam Malik's teacher Imam Malik's teacher he was uh he was going with his nephew Abu Zinad his name was going with his nephew and his nephew asks him this question he says he says oh you know tell me he's a great scholar of Medina he says you know

2:26:32

are we allowed to do certain intimacy things. And he says to him, "Look, listen. When you're on your own behind closed doors, do whatever you want. Do whatever you want. Just green light, green light, green light." So he says to him, you know, he says, "Behind closed doors, it's not whatever you want." And the nephew isn't quite content.

2:27:03

Yeah, focus. Yeah, focus. So, the nephew isn't quite content. The nephew says, "No, but can I make can we make erotic sounds? Can we do this? Can we do that?" And he he says, "Look, better." Oh, better. Oh, Babu G says, "Beta control." He said, "Don't worry about it, man." So, he's still not content.

2:27:30

So he says to his uncle, he says, "Look, tell me." He says," says, "Do you do it? Talk to me." He says, "Do you do it?" So this is now one of the great scholars of Medina, the teacher of Imam Malik.

2:27:55

He turns around and he says to him, he says, Yeah. He says," [Laughter] he said, "If you saw your uncle when he's in action in the in the room," he said, "you would think, man, this guy doesn't even believing God

2:28:42

now that now talk about heightening your curiosity. They're thinking what was this guy up to? So look, the point is that it doesn't mean these things don't mean that just because you can't do them in front of your mom and dad, they are haram. Obviously, we have shame. You know, we're not going to do certain things in front of our mom and dad and we're not going to think about our mom and dad at certain times.

2:29:09

Behave you you sickle sickle, you sickle. So people now let's before we close off for the day there was an I wanted to speak about our beloved right so that is from the beloveds it is none other than huh no no it's not our ass we've spoken last week about ass and it's It's uh it's what is what is going

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  title = {{Is anal intercourse with my wife haram?}},
  year = {2021},
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  date = {2021-01-05},
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  organization = {Mufti Abu Layth Archive},
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  note = {Segment 2021-01-05-S32, auto-transcribed, may contain errors}
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