What is the iddah after divorce and why does the Quran require it?

just saying the vibe I get generally and I don't I haven't don't follow him that closely but the vibe I get whenever I do see some posts from Abdullah Samir are usually that he's trying to be feared this is what I I feel usually now so ok so he's put this post so the reason why am I saying this is I'm against any like I want to respond to this I want to show that that's not true the Quran does not permit pedophilia and I will show that in a moment but I want to also highlight this is not about like what I don't want to see is people attacking him as a

person attack the argument but not the person okay so that's really important and that is from the adapt that is from the the character of the Prophet as well you know this if you if we claim to be Muslim then we ought to be showing a good example you know we if we we are saying that the Messenger of Allah was rahmatan lil odd I mean he was a paragon of mercy for the whole world then we ought to be demonstrating that the onus is on us not on non-muslims to prove that we ought to

be championing that kind of behavior so okay now right so this is the verse of the Quran so we've got surah Tauba lakh which is in the 28th juice now it begins bismillah r-rahman r-rahim yeah you know be you is that the lock to Manisa okay so it's speaking it's addressing the Prophet but by extension people that when you divorce women for political who Nellie I did in that divorced them for

the aid that in line with an it is a kind of it's a post marital cycle so it's like a so it's usually it can be one menstrual cycle to three menstrual cycles it's a certain period of time ranging from one month to three months in which usually it was to see if that if the woman was still pregnant if she was then this and certain rites and these kind of things especially as you can imagine it was like a system set up for that there were other many other wisdoms to it as well it also prevented

a lot of suspicion it prevented a lot of social unrest because sometimes when relationships broke up people would feel that oh you know was so in so trying to have an affair with with my wife or is she like this and and sometimes when people divorce when they if they immediately remarried it may have led to some kind of fighting and things like this in the past I mean even now but especially in in that kind of a society a warrior society so there was an ADA that was placed there that had many social benefits in

addition to it allowed to verify whether there was a pregnancy or not and stuff like this so okay so Allah mentions that if that give that the lock for the ADA right and then this verse goes on now right we move on to it's speaking about their ID they're so sorry just to explain Allah says well I so like that and take the idea into consideration enumerate as in keep measure it like be precise with as precise as possible with the idea now

and then Allah mentions laterally juhu numbing beauty now Alea hardener that but let they are entitled to lodging they entitled to live in that house as long as they have their aid there so imagine a relationship was over now so the let's say it's over now so the woman who's gonna move on but she doesn't have to get up and leave straight away she's entitled to stay just saw her stuff out at least during the ADA now and if and it will go on and speak about well what if she was pregnant but so it's trying to say that you let or read your numbing beauty don't don't throw them out of the

homes okay let them stay there and then it mentions if there's certain other issues fight their beloved Nigella whenever I'm sick or but when they reach the time that the ADA has finished for MC corner either reconcile be ma roof with kindness over if you wanna be my roof Oh leave them separate with kindness this is the verse of the Quran right well as she do the way idly minkum but get witnesses as well that you have decided to separate or you've decided to reconcile let people be witnesses to