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11 segments in 9 recordings · 2019 to 2023 · 0 verified · 10 checked positions · relationships/parents-and-children/raising-children · Feed

Most recent statement · 10 Mar 2023How did Imam Malik come to study religion?Older segments link here so no earlier explanation is read as the last word.

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Latest answer · 10 Mar 2023

10 Mar 2023video LatestHow did Imam Malik come to study religion? His mother gently steered him from singing to study, and that choice made him one of the most influential figures in Islamic history. LessonImam Malikal-Nadr, Imam Malik's brotherQuran 2:282 (be mindful of God and God will teach you), alluded to [?] machine4 min 32 s17:40on YouTube

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2023 · 2

22 Feb 2023video LatestIs there an LGBTQ push in media and schools? Mufti Abu Layth agrees there is a disproportionate LGBTQ push in media and objects to sexualising young children, calling it hypocritical that polygamy cannot be described the same way. Discussionposition checkedpolygamy machine4 min 27 s20:23on YouTube
22 Feb 2023video Is it okay for adults or children to change gender? Mufti Abu Layth says gender transition is an adult's own choice after professional advice, but children should not be put through it until they can decide for themselves. Discussionposition checked machine6 min 27 s28:41on YouTube

2021 · 3

16 Feb 2021Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth Are children held accountable in Islam for bullying or hurting others? Children are accountable, he says, in a way suited to their age: the laws for them are lighter, but a child who harms another does not get a free pass. Question from live chatposition checkedImam Malikshahadat al-sibyan (testimony of children) machine1 min 49 s2:38:10on YouTube
9 Feb 2021Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth Is it haram to hit someone in the face in boxing or MMA training? Mufti Abu Layth says hitting the face in sparring is fine; the hadith against striking the face concerned discipline, not fighting practice. Question from live chatposition checkedreport: when one of you strikes he should avoid the face machine3 min 43 s2:10:39on YouTube
26 Jan 2021Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth At what age should children start learning about Islam, and what should they learn? Keep early religious education basic and natural, such as reading the Quran, the prayer and the stories of the prophets, with deeper study when children are older; he admits it depends on the child. Question from live chatposition checked machine3 min 55 s36:00on YouTube

2020 · 3

27 Oct 2020Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth LatestHow do I heal my inner child, and how should I raise my children? Mufti Abu Layth says we are an extension of our inner child and that reconnecting with it can be unnerving but healing; with children, go with your heart and build a qualitative bond. Question from live chatposition checked machine13 min 51 s12:51on YouTube
24 Aug 2020Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth Is it OK for Quran teachers to beat students? Beating students is categorically haram; he says even a classical manual for teachers forbade forceful discipline of children. Question from live chatposition checkedMuhammad ibn Sahnun [?]Adab al-Mu'allimin [?]hifzJahannam machine5 min 08 s42:20on YouTube
24 Aug 2020Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth Can I hit my children if they don't pray? Yes: he says hitting children over prayer misreads the hadith, and that children should be drawn to prayer by example and love, not fear. Question from live chatposition checkedreport: command your children to pray at seven discipline them at ten and separate them in their bedssalah machine1 min 59 s46:48on YouTube

2019 · 2

6 Nov 2019From the Mind of a Mufti What should I think about when choosing a name for my child? Mufti Abu Layth says parents should think carefully about the names they give their children, especially names that will be mocked in the West. Discussionposition checked machine4 min 31 s0:03on YouTube
14 Aug 2019On Current Events Does Islam allow gender transition for someone diagnosed with gender dysphoria? Where there are legitimate biological concerns and medical input, he believes it is permissible, but he opposes sowing doubt about gender in children. Question source not recordedposition checked machine5 min 11 s0:00on YouTube