Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth: Session 78

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oh right yes L am I've forgotten my you know I've jotted down some notes to make sure I cover these topics one momento momento coming right back to the multi cave well zoom by can I just make sure I haven't forgotten my because there's some topics I've said I'd cover so I'll keep them in front of me so I don't forget ha ha ha ants are people all right well

how are you all how is it being what's been going down folks what's been going down let me get the Red Bull open uh let's start the each style the each tell people that I should get this one set by my Red Bull and then people will say he's probably promoting some kind of god deity the bull deity people what a week on what a week as always fun and games

fun and games this alcohol you know people nah how else do we see ya gon combust with Oscar niggly we're tired this is it's it's by the drink that we

Allah as abou Noir said the uncle OMA for in Aloma ever our own he said forget all these cuts are all these blaming and trying to act all you know they were trying to tell him off for his for his drink he said stop all this trying to tell me off and act all holy whatever we need bility cannot tear down Allah Allah he said I'm medicate me with that which is my illness that in this that is my Shiva

that's that's there and he finishes that poem off quite interestingly I mean some of the next lines are very interesting but if I say them scandal you know they'll be the scandal you know the next lines he speaks about that the you don't you know like the barmaid the the woman that serves the alcohol we used to go he says oh this is a classical obviously a boon of ours from the time of the ad versus the Mamun Amin kunafa from their time so you know any is to go that he

says he says it's served by a barmaid a woman who dresses as a man what does he say says mean that he cafe I mean that he cafe Haren he's a he's a caring Allah says from the hand of a woman in the dress of a man l'homme hey Bonnie Ruthenian was a now he says everybody loves her the guy who straight and the

guy who's says everybody's in love with her but he finishes off that poem by saying to one of the scholars who picked on him in his time he says cool element yet day I feel me falsa fatin says tell this person who thinks who makes a claim that he has this knowledge he says I limped a shaken Robert Anka oh Allah Allah he says you may have learnt something but many things still remain

hidden from Allah huh what a hero one of my heroes in poetry of uno mas right so where are we people what's coming down how see this is what this see that's an opening with all of us huh out of the blue I don't even huh well anyway how are you all doing people with fast approaching fast play on words fast approaching Ramadan so there's gonna be a bit of talk about that I will be releasing all together with an index

hopefully my Fast & Furious Fast and Furious people questions alright I gotta come back to that cutter now did you remind me I'm gonna come back to that right so my fast and freakiest will be released you should drink with the left hand brother but I got it in the both hands now what do I do with one what if what if on are what if I'm Dyslexic you know it's not my fault like I'm like left right left right left Freddie what

am I supposed to do are you telling me God has purposely challenged me and then he's gonna punish me for being dyslexic you know it is interesting if I'm gonna be honest because I'm ambidextrous I can write with both hands and I do write with both hands right so but I'm in essence left-handed so I mean I'd learn to write with my right hand probably from the age of about 1920 like that onwards and then so first I focused only in Arabic and in the last few years maybe just a year and a half I started to focus the English

with my right hand as well so when you start using both hands you actually get confused between left and right I don't know if it's just me my handicap nature but I genuinely because I used to you see I used to tell directions by thinking of my hand the hand I write with so what I used to think left I used to think the left they write with I don't know why that is to some people is self straightforward they just think left I always thought left like because of my hand and since I started to write with my right hand that just messed

everything up yeah how do I do East India yellow takis Hudson relax people relax it's only humor humor so what's going on man you take some questions oh no flat earthers are here all I hope not God flat earthers what a joke so what's going on got a few things to discuss but let's take some questions our Sufi silsila is authentic your

thoughts on Danielle happy cats do you know I commented on his page but let me come to the Sufi thing first Sufi 30 silsila are they authentic you see my understanding they they're not but that's not to see Sufism in my understanding is kind of and that's not to mean spirituality but the formation that it's taken is it my understanding more a folklore need it's like people

need religion to be like that so it is for people I guess I mean I wouldn't many of my teachers not all but many of them many of my friends not all are Sufis and involved with Sufi tariqas so I don't condemn it by any means but I don't I don't believe it was the other thing I think it's more that kind of folkloric Islam or religion that people need because they can identify easier with that than they can with the true concepts of Islam because they're a bit remote the truer concepts of Islam

sometimes our - you see people need that kind of they need stories they need staff they need this kind of stuff you see to fill the gaps so this is like what atheists will call the god of the gaps not that this is but these are the gaps that people have so they filled them up with folklore ah well each to their own these to their own somebody asked about Daniel or Daniel haqiqa the Jew I mean I don't really know too much about Daniel hockey got Jew I first I thought he was a shade I don't know because I thought he was a

share and then somebody saying no he isn't I don't know some people online are saying he's he's an academic like him studied physics or something and done some Islamic studies at a university but I thought he was traditionally trained as in he studied all the major books of Sharia Quran hadith you know everything the whole classical works the breadth so when people study they study Quran and it's Sciences which is the recitation but the actual tough seed and the actual whether that will include tap into language which will come separately but also Sula

tafseer and hadeeth and also hadith the actual books of hadith require time what the ayats and Jenna what a deal they'll study felt Sharia which is surah Furqan felt and the meth helps all of these to it like an at least an intermediate and beyond advanced level they'll study language nacho sort of below ha but the you know money these kind of Sciences add up they'll study those sorry other they'll study up either history all of these things will be covered from a very from your foundational to intermediate to advanced that and then you would specialize in

certain so I thought he was but then I don't know so I don't know maybe he is I don't know I didn't the impression I'm getting he isn't but I came across this post which I commented on you see maybe I read it wrong so I could be you know it could be my misunderstanding but I've ready as him saying that takfeer we need more takfeer in our day and age so I pray to God I've read that wrong because I commented by saying you know the logic Witek read more is less is is absurd like this is nothing to do with Islam

that fear means calling people kaffir calling Muslims car feels like I mean that just makes no sense like so I don't know maybe he was speaking about something and he worded it in a way that he's not very clear to people because I wasn't the only person on the other people on his poster so we're taking a similar understanding but I was shocked by how many people were all for it like yeah check out these characters from Islam and I thought correct me if I'm wrong or start Danielle but you yourself are a convert to Islam are you not I mean that's curry isn't it you come into Islam and check us out

check the Muslims out John made their amendment one of those this is so I don't know maybe that's not what he meant and I miss him stir me and all those other people on the post misunderstood but takfeer is not the way of Islam declaring Muslims kaffir we don't do that okay generally the method is anybody who prays to our pillar is a Muslim and then we could say certain things are Kufa but we shouldn't and definitely we shouldn't

get obsessed in actually trying to Chuck people out if some councils and some things and boards that got together in a particular time and wanted to do something about a crucial issue that's fine but this is one of those issues that's radioactive you do not touch this seriously this was the trait of the Huaraz in Islam to declare people to be careful you know Allah this Deen the prophet of God said he said Bashir who bring people in invite them what I do not fear do not frighten them away from this name and to declare people care fear is one of the in this state because the way people are declaring

to caffeine it's not over it's not over these oh he said these three gods it's over these tiny little things like oh you don't accept that you can feel you don't eat chicken and chips you can feel it's like you know like I told you about that I think I mentioned once before the anecdote of once when I was in a chip shop and some salafi was ordering and he was getting all upset and they had a confusion over the the order and he said no I ordered chicken and the guy said no no you just sorted you ordered this and chips and he said no no he said I did

not order that chicken and he said I I tell you what made the curse of Allah be on me if I ordered chicken and then he said I want you to say that made the curse of God be on you if you wanted to do that you know the medieval mubahala right there in a chip shop in small heath in Birmingham may the curse of Allah be on that chicken in the chickens like what the hell guys it's nothing you've already slaughtered me now at

least let me be in peace that's some of the fun in games you get mine allo Salim become a no silence 7 Mustafar for him all of you those of you tuning in click like click share let's get this out me so that's my point also I did respond to this so I that's not to be I just wanted to say about some comments of certain shares that I commented about the Creed look it's not

that's not to necessarily attack him but to attack an understanding I think these understandings are dangerous choking people out of Islam is a dangerous dangerous dangerous game right so what else is going down people who had an awesome by the way meet up what Eider for 50-year old widowed women right okay Allahu Akbar you see the ADA generally that's mentioned in the Quran

well latina to a phenom incommoded Aruna is virgin that they wait for therapists nabi emphysema arba hurum washa that those women who whose husbands have died their widows then they have an idea of four months and ten days there is some esta laughs amongst the seller going right down to the fact some people transmitting only three days of an editor for a widow and things like this that has is part of the you know the the this the discourse although that's been generally rejected but it does simply

means generally it's a state of prohibition of nikka you don't get married in this case there's that element of mourning and I think really in my understanding I think these in the past were more safeguarding measures for a society which still actually carry through today and it wasn't really just about pregnancy but also the fact that when people have died I think a lot of sometimes hatred boils over and a lot of emotions are running high so let's say and this is why this dad

which is that the woman doesn't adorn herself during that it and and according to the Maliki and the Schaffer yeah that is the this absence of adornment is only for the widow not for the divorcee I know the Hanafi I disagree in that but the point the reason being because that you see sometimes emotions are high and people and this is a time with inheritance is going on and division of assets and money and this triggers people's greed you know Allah says well there are till emphasis show and and people you know went money is being discussed people they agreed

kind of comes into it and you know like let's say for example somebody son's wife or somebody's mother or somebody's brother's wife has become a widow or even a friend's wife has become a widow lets us say or in a tribe now let's say it's day four and she's sitting there she's all done up or beautified and now technically you could say well what's the big deal but you see because society is a very complex and people find

excuses to kind of tap people and they might seek out vulnerable people now these women especially being a widow at that time may be at a heightened state of vulnerability so people might start saying oh check her out she just can't wait she just couldn't wait for him to die so she's just looking for another guy basically and these kind of things you can see this happening and this does unfortunately happen and it's remove utterly wrong but in my understanding I think that this eight then the dad was a

safeguarding against that that look for months just over the four month period because that was known was the morning time that looked let it be and even for her to go through this kind of morning obviously she's lost a partner and and to go through this grieving process and get over it so so that's what I hope right so that's my understanding of why the aid of the widow was the way it isn't and for the divorcee I think a similar the strategy applies for not being able to get

married straight away because it would lead not some because of the pregnancy as well potential pregnancy but also because it would lead to this that people would say oh so the only reason you messed up the marriage was because you were planning to marry this guy and I'm just giving an example in general all right so that's my general understanding of this is something narrated by is somebody saying is there any Shia wah is there any I don't know what that means okay people let's move on next question

next question all right those of you that were away well you know I still might as well get this out the way some interesting discussions last week I spoke about a troll and it openly made these challenges off certain a hadith to do with Issa because somebody's asking about essa aleihsalaam and the return and the person had openly made a claim saying that this is transmitted by omar bin al-khattab and even on Amara and I said that these two

narrations I said I really look forward to these two made a car not a Jew novice a miracle Arjuna a miracle in Urdu but what was hilarious is that you know these kind of trolls they were actually a group of them and many of them are actually Imams and including molvi Arsenal Hanafi and they're actually part of a particular group by the way they've got chat groups with people who are privy to have told me about I've been like this water how miserable is that but anyway so the next very next day I

guess who gets a message guess who gets a message from one VSNL Hannity Oh me so I get a private message from multinational Hanafi telling me that you are again or you you know blah blah blah blah blah and act so confident you're gonna get schooled now because there are hadith by ignore Mar and Omar on this chapter and this layman you know this regular Muslim knows more than you about hadith so next time you try to act so confident you ignorant

blah blah blah and he said that there's so many of them but I'm just gonna let you get to them so I said so I said to him you see because this is the difference I've actually studied this whole chapter and this is the thing that they haven't actually studied it so I said okay my John Melissa I said can you bring them to me please so what they had done was run some searches on ignore Mar and the term Jesus but what they hadn't realized is

they hadn't bothered to read the content of the hadith it was nothing to do with this it was nothing to do with this it was just about a dream about the Prophet seeing Jesus in a dream so one week later and I'm still waiting a minute Karen but no huh yeah but then this is one of those pierrick abundant right but now they're obviously now they like well

hmm just completely anyway but it's amazing how people getting so obsessed Wow I'm this you know what is disappointing though is how these people oh these ain't your regular people these are your people with Yannick the reality we got black beards up to here the Imams in mosques like Morpheus and mom in Bradford here they've got hamsa McCool and here Imam does his own thing in America naive and Imam in Michigan Imams

of mustards all part you know they wasting it I mean investing their precious time plotting backbiting on groups that's a meal from here and you know once again an imam for them amazing Wow subhanAllah and they Risa and this is the the thing that oh why does he bring up these things so God wants us to expose him so what we're going to do now check this out we're going to find old jokes he shared with us privately let's say well

he's used swear words or in a joke where he spoken about sex I'm a joke let's say and we want to expose this I'd be like seriously and you don't moldy acid is the first person who then messages me this and tells me that this entity Gonzalez he goes to me oh you use the swear word who I was like what are we

eight so I was like seriously is that the best you can do get a get some some messages from me that are about three years old and you want to share these to say that this guy isn't pious I've never acted to be pious my friends and check this out you think well okay fine I mean apart from the fact that I've been asked on these topics and discussed them at length before when mallanna's like had

him Husain rizvi sob who I disagree with passionately on many things but one of the things I was asked earlier this year when he had his sitting was about his swearing on on TV and I said that although these things are not necessarily Haram per se but in public like that is probably not the best thing to do so you'd think well Mawlana is trying to say well look oh you know a swear word let's make this let's put this in public I mean Imams are is that the best you could do are you putting this in public

as an imam as he moms like is that Wow how dumb is that like he does he doesn't believe in Jesus coming back home why did he question mallanna chef Elite on Wii for using offensive words about the Prophet I know let's do you think now they would be happy you think they would be happy now but now they're more upset that while entire offended wow I'm just seriously this is so amazing this this is what

we've we've got to so this is the kind of things that people these are Imams by the way Imams Wow people who lead communities act all holy I've said to people look guys this is what and and this is - see how by the way to all students of knowledge you know this just this weekend we met up with some great people came round had an awesome discussion right vampire session right through the night Sheriff Imran from Leicester there was a smile on brother Hanif a doctor Jamil or

something some awesome discussions of start Missouri right throughout the night and one thing I mentioned this came up quite a bit about orlimar scholars scholars really need to be independent they really need to be independent and this is a perfect example you see - these people - Karan Arjun you see the thing is nothing of mine like everything of mine is independent everything like I don't rely on your audience's on your promotions on your mashed cheese I don't have anything to do with any mustards you know today

these mustards are unfortunately nothing but hubs of sectarianism what does Allah say and they'll massage he that Leela the Masjid czar gods Allah today they've turned them into dens dens of hate and stuff like this I don't have anything to do with these mustards right my money my finances my lifestyle my sir called everything is independent so this is what hurts them even more that like why does it that why can't we get to him so you need to be independent if you want to think you know if you want to have your own views if you don't want to

be bullied now look at this seriously this is how they would intimidate normal people so you can imagine if I was a normal movie now I would have been heavily intimidated now I would have been bullied because they would have already boycotted me they've made these groups they're trying to say oh you know here's a personal joke you made three years ago let's put it in the public let's do this let's do that let's share messages of use in the public list let's tell him you know three years ago you mentioned him in a comment last year you know less this is their attempt if I was

a regular let's say Maury I would have been probably doomed probably but I is not regular misura and every time cow you know I'm a bit different you know this one so and that they getting frustrated even more and and this is the thing you know they openly check this out they openly will attack me okay look I was asked a question about Mawlana Charlatans we right son I actually am against calling him a kaffir

I've defended not calling McAfee oh but I have said for anybody who compares the knowledge of the Prophet to an animal or a madman that comparison this is utterly unacceptable that in itself is Kufa but i would think i will try to make a nice excuse and say maybe he did it by mistake these guys are actively defending this you know this year said Hanafy even this ham some bull knife all these people even though they will say you know we we don't they will not condemn this aspect right they will justify now they're getting they got offended because I was asked I answered but I actually

don't call him I'm against cooling in MacArthur I'm against calling people can feel however that is bang out of order right and you can ask TV so they get upset I'll make it up so and what they go out there one of them's publicly calling my mom a calling you know they're setup pages to insult my dad this is what seriously this is Imams Imams are doing this they're behind everybody on these pages and memes is is like almost and Harlem or maybe a one odd exception isn't but most of them are all allama cussing my dad insulting my dad when

chef Adam Alcoa even Admiral co3 from Leicester said to them look guys you know this is out of order this kind of liebe they started turning on him saying oh god tells us it's okay to condemn to insult deviants a law says it's okay this is what extremism is people this is what this hulu takes people to Allah is telling us we came in so look you don't even know my mom and dad fine dust them you know is that is that the best you can do what am I like nine years old you know like this is the best you can do make memes about my dad

Oh like this is I bet you know his dad is like this he who wants to be his dad who wants to be what is this guy it's not the best you can do I'm saying have an academic you know like refute me disagree with me refute me you know say that he's made a mistake and here here's the correct versions make your videos present him to people you think I'm misguided don't follow me simple as simple as so but yet this this and all publicly they will say we've got nothing to do with these pages and yet

privately they are the ones behind these very pages Wow honestly these big names like these people go on life supporting and these people who openly swearing to my mom and my dad openly in public these people will all go on their broadcasts and support them Wow Wow just because they disagree with me on an Islamic understanding because God wants them to do it you see this is why this is why hatred when I read out of that book the other day religious hatred is of its worst kind worst kind people it's it's it's one of the worst kinds of hatred this disease in the

hearts of people because because people say God wants me to do it why am i insulting is that and mump because God wants me to why am i obsessed with him because God wants these people remember me seriously I would guarantee you they remember me more on a daily basis than they do remember Allah and that is tried and tested you just need to go to their pages is full of somebody shot they're blocked with me somebody showed me a page of one of these people for four months every day almost you're just

talking about me I mean you see wow I'm come come food yo you don't confuse I don't know whether to be flattered or to be freaked out grown grown men then they say why this move this way this is why I is independent carry on do whatever the

hell you want right so hey I thought I mentioned that few people had asked me I thought how petty and dumb is this even with Ramadan coming but yeah yeah this guy is for real did God email those people yeah this is what I'm saying yeah I mean I do to be honest with you I see some of the stuff and I just laughs I showed it to some other people who are not even part of the religious seem at all like family members I said hey check this out well people are trying to share about me and they just we just we just all burst out laughing

then they get upset white why is he not hurt I'm like well but at the end of the day you know that what is it that a little samba get they are the retailer Kalia there's only one of me and there's so many of these so many it's only one baby you gotta say you have this that dialogue in in one of those movies the guy says he goes mom nobody God let her

go he says you gotta say the kid the guys he's a proper match though anyway let's get back to some questions people we got to discuss as well I'm gonna come to the topic a very serious topic later on in a moment about marital rape I'll come to that what are the issues have we got going on let's take some questions going in here then we'll let's take some questions and then we'll go back forth anything else

Rama Vaughn is well what's going down can you explain oh that's gonna be such a long why are miracles not literal since God can t allow the prophets imam ghazali x' yeah right you know this miracle things i'm getting a bit bored of it i'm gonna do a whole i'm gonna ensure lost some point do a whole dedicated lecture to it the understanding is not look everybody's you've gotta understand it's not about denying miracles nobody's denying miracles per se but it's do these miracles have causes like do they have

natural explanations or not are they just like for example one day there was no chicken here next day there's a chicken here that's some people want to take that the quran generally mostly mentions means sometimes they alludes because it cuts stories short so one could take the understanding by saying oh maybe this was without any means whatsoever but to me that will then go against the general message of Islam that Allah does not work in that way he doesn't go against his own own laws

so when you read several of these verses you can understand them in both ways if you throw if you start going down the road of saying well we don't need consistency it's ok things can just happen in a vacuum like so normally everybody follows there's always laws and means but for prophets sometimes not anything so one day a prophet is going and something can just appear out of thin air and it just stays there like so these kind of things the problem with accepting that line of thought is then you have to accept it for everybody you have to accept it for

Hinduism too you have to accept that Ganesh can have an elephant's head you you know that you you have to accept that then you know that Shiva kind of chopped his head off and then put a an elephant's head on instead you have to accept the Hanuman could have kind of flown across as a monkey and saved Sita and then done all these sorry flown back and you know done all of these things you have to accept the possibility of these you have to accept the possibility of people like in or in the last century Satya Sai Baba from India and the miracles he's performed you have to entertain them you can't just be dismissive that's double standards you

can't say for them we're gonna act all scientific and for us it doesn't matter that's called double standards so to me Islam is all about one set of standards and consistency if you want to believe in like as double set of standards that's up to you you can do that I mean but then that's just easier to break down your faith when atheists and other people will break down your version of Islam it will just be much easier to do because you yourself will argue against it when it comes to all other religions so you will argue against it in Hinduism in Christianity why couldn't God

Jesus wide it could be a miracle why can't three be one it could be a miracle why can't you know Hanuman have been deputed deputized with all these powers could have been a miracle why did you know so you got a you've got to make up your mind do I want consistency or not so that's my understanding right yes sir called the chef yourself are these really good oh of course of course I've got nothing generally against Jackie Hisle father I think you know he's doing a good job I wish he would just be more challenged some of the issues even more see the

problem is that even with people the challenges that even people like Chevy I said Oh father you will face and other people it doesn't matter how popular they are they're very popular but that then because the audiences are still very fickle minded they never built up their audiences by being challenging you see like I'm very like I will challenge ideas people who like me will like me knowing my attitude so you have a kind of personality that people are familiar with but if I try to build an audience

by acting all like really strict or very pious and holy and then ten years down the line ice try to challenge things I've run the risk of being boycotted by my own audience so even people like Cher settle called the or even great Allah man not just him they won't they won't be able to speak their mind entirely in fact I wouldn't be surprised if they maybe even half the things that they actually believe half of them they refuse to kind of share because they feel that if they share it people will either reject them or they will reject so they can't really do that because

they're not 100% independent and then they work for organizations so if they become controversial the organization will tell them off so let's say if you work for marketing or one of these other Institute's if you become highly controversial then the Institute will tell you off and your bread and butter and money depends on them so this is but I think chef Yasir Qadhi is an amazing gifted talented you know young young young scholar that we've got on hamdulillah I just wish he would be even more challenging of some of the issues that's all right so what

else is going on what else is going on somebody asked me was I always independent no I wasn't always independent I grew up from a really kind of background but I studied with all Institute's I stood in a bravery madrasah in the Abunda mother assign hadeeth madrasah I studied in Damascus in the late 90s when it was an amazing beautiful and peaceful place you know I studied with many diverse shoe with Maliki shoe Schaffer issue an official I studied with Lahiri scholars believe it or not people who had a passion for a school that isn't even in pretty much in

existence and I learnt a lot I learned a lot from diverse people I came back to this country after having graduated and completing my complete in the Quran memorizing the Quran gaining each other with a chain going back to the Prophet completing my scholar studies with all those diverse Sciences completing my Musti course you know somebody said by the way why do you act if you're not holy why do you act why do you call yourself a Mufti that's okay that's a decent question well first of all Mufti is a functional title it's not an honorific okay like a Lama or Che or

beer sob it's not like that Mufti is a title a function of skill okay Mufti in Arabic means somebody who is trained and skilled to be able to issue Islamic rulings which I am right so you can so that is the truth I am skilled to do that and I'm trained and I've been tested and I've passed the qualifications it's like saying if you're a neurosurgeon you are a surgeon like it doesn't mean so that's not the same as trying to act as a holy man I've said very clearly before by the way I've never pretended to act holy and I'm

not and I don't consider myself in that sense holy and I don't I've never when I've been asked the question I've been asked before would you say you're a religious person I've said that's an interesting question because of course I'm involved in religion so from that aspect yes but from you know here's a holy man always doing this be always like this always very you know I've never said I never want to claim to be like that I am simply a regular person who by the grace of Allah fell in love with the legacy of Islam and then Allah guided me and he gave me the ability to study this legacy

I fell in love with this tradition I fell in love with the character of The Messenger of God salallahu alayhi wasalam and I will continue to defend the honor of God and His Messenger against these misrepresentations that people present that's what I do and I do my own study I issue rulings when people want rulings I teach people that this Deen is a Dean of ease and that's what doesn't come from me came from the messenger of God himself he said in Nevada Deena come ASA who the best of your Deen is is the most easiest he said yes sir ooh well add to us it'll

make ease do not make difficulty invite do not frighten away I will till my dying breath God willing defend the messenger of Allah's honor and defend Allah as they are being presented as irrational and count of reason forces so people are saying The Messenger of Allah is unreasonable they are saying Allah is unreasonable so I will defend that along the way I may upset people doesn't bother me so as to being holy or pious or I've never claimed to be these things and I don't want to and I don't want to be any mom in a message it none of those things they don't interest me in this

life I'll never make it on time anyway so that would be pathetic for me to do so but this is my simple kind of thing that I just put out there right so and these science wallahi for people who can study them they are amazing they are amazing if you can study them but you have to become at the end if you want to share your views you have to be independent okay so that that that's my only kind of naseeha to you guys so yes I mean I was so that so that's when people ask oh you're a mostly so this is how that you know you when you've qualified you can give a

ruling and stuff like this but uh yeah lost my train of thought on that but I was saying that look I studied yes sorry my background and when I came back to the UK after finishing my studies I studied with non-muslims some of my I studied religion the philosophy of religion at Birmingham University with non Muslim professors some of the most amazing people when they came to religion they had so much respect I shocked me shook my world I'm gonna be honest I couldn't Wow like I thought how did these people have so much other to religion I studied

that I studied psychology when I came and these things showed me you know by the grace of a lot that to become independent but yeah so when you laughing your own website when you launching is that what it's meant to say right when if you launching your website my website is is under construction in Sharla be a vanilla be a vanilla I'm Claire even Clara went to Damascus free or did you pay no I depends some of the Institute's we paid some were free I went to Damascus

in a long time ago now I think was in 97 it's something like that and I was there for about under two years and so it's a long time ago and then I went again ever I freaked I went about on about three occasions to Damascus I think I went again in 2001 again in 2003 stayed several months each time stuff like that got you jaw saying the Quran is amazing amazing back then it was very peaceful but yeah alright let's move on to other questions people what are we looking at what's going on what's going on right

okay I've been asked on this how is it double standards the miracle thing look I've explained that I will it's double standards in saying that we don't need consistency that's all but then saying other people need consistency or either they don't need consistency either because that's that's the angle but anyway I'll leave that to then risk after fudger I'm not sure what that means risk after fajar right so ok whilst you're putting up some questions there those of you just tuning in click like click share

people and by the way do also subscribe to my youtube channel which is mostly a belief and Malachy RI that's I do subscribe to that I'm always getting snippets posted on there separately so you can always benefit from them as well is there such thing as being too reasonable I think that question says it all the sleeping in the morning lead to Bieber Kathy of course not this is cultural because look in culture in culture especially in know even here not

even just in the hot countries even here a lot of people work in the early hours so even in our day and age you go to office you go to the office you go wherever you go you go to work you go to your shop you go to it's usually in the morning in the Arab world in the time of the Prophet it wasn't no different even today in most parts of the Muslim world in hot countries people go out to work early morning because then it gets too hot then they take a break from pre you know noon right till late afternoon and then they do a bit of work from the late

to noon till nightfall so that's because it's really hot so you can imagine in those cultures why it would be seen as this is you know sleeping in the daytime or sleeping through the morning would be seen as a lack of burqa in risk from a practical perspective like because if you're sleeping when everybody's working but today we live in a different world people work at night some people do night shift some people work online some people work over the phone some people work from home some people work from some people just work as projects that

reality has changed okay so you know in a law saying that Alan Ihara mascha that we made the day a source of working and we made the night a source of rest he didn't mean it was Haram he just meant generally for mankind but obviously if if you work at night like we do in this day and age that's fine okay how much you bench pressing not enough not enough man I'm just trying you know what I'm trying to get back into the the whole bulking mode now and but Ramadan Ramadan so I don't know what's gonna happen

there right okay whilst you're loading up some questions they had been a question on this beast of the end of times which I will clarify you see look this beast at the end of time some people this in a lot of deity the books it speaks of a beast at the end of time now none of the epatha books are actually clear about what this means and even the scholars today when they speak about they're not actually to show what it means like if you ask them for the details they don't actually know in a previous video I had read how even our shirred stated that that was on the day

of judgment so some people wrote an article against me saying that he's misquoting if not sure and that's not true Ignacio doesn't say that and I did say on my thing that look you this is somebody could say I understand something different from what if not sure is saying but to say I'm misquoting is a stretch it's not even a stretch it's just wrong right you can't say I'm misquoting because I'm not and I'm four I mean so people got involved unfortunately also I think people unnecessarily got involved amongst the

most odd so hey Sayeed who I do respect and love as a friend now he got in touch I mean he got involved he also wrote an article supporting that statement that I'm misquoting then I got in touch with or started so hip and we had a lengthy discussion and he reread his his stance and understood and and actually made it very clear that he that it's incorrect to say I'm misquoting and he actually said that I see what you're saying if not I should could be saying that although he would still like to take the understanding that even Marshall is not

saying that but it's plausible definitely from what I'm not actually saying that that's what he is saying I will actually clarify it by reading it in a moment and show you that he is actually saying that nevertheless the reason I mentioned that about start so habeas because he put an article out there in the public domain so people had asked me about it so I responded that look as far as I'm aware he's very clear that I'm not misquoting now at that stage he said that he felt he rushed into his may be decision and he

shouldn't have so I'm doing love but I you know although I I didn't like the fact that you know why put an article why not just contact me first and have a discussion why put an article against me but still nevertheless I appreciate and liked the the civil discussion that followed you know we got in touch it's agreed in fact it was a whole day's discussion back forth back forth voice note messages rechecking I've rechecked maybe I've made a mistake here II checked we and then at the end he said well you know what coming to think about it I rushed in to that I can see why you're saying he's

saying this although I would still like to disagree but you definitely to say that you're misquoting is wrong that that's that to say attribute miss quotations to you is wrong you're not misquoting so I mean I I appreciate that and this kind of it's a shame we can't have this civil discussion with people you know there was Mawlana a nice of Leicester who had a similar discussion with me he felt I was Miss quoting him now shoot we took out the tough seed we ready ready together at the end he said the same thing you're not misquoting he said okay maybe he'd still like to disagree he said that you know give me this point that point but I you know

you're definitely not misquoting and I and I appreciate I don't want them necessarily to agree with me but that civil respect if only we can return to more and more of this I'm alone I say right so may Allah bless these all amount and their efforts I mean right so but because I was asked I will kind of read the the actual translation because people said I missed out part which I didn't but I'll read it to you right so this by the way before I read this we've got to understand that these verses of the Quran in surah normal that are what

are they speaking about they begin with verse 80 where Allah says in the collectors male motor well that was my Asuma do either one long would be mean that you do not make the dead here so he's speaking about the people who are dead and those who are misguided and he says wa ma anti be hard on me humble Allah to him into smell 11 you may not be a attina for Muslim moon you can simply only you can't guide those who are kind of blinded by their misguidance only those whom Allah wills they are Muslim celesteville's then so the first verse verse 80 is

speaking about the grave okay and he speaks about you can't make them you can't benefit them you can't make them be guided neither those who are misguided then first 82 is this verse why they walk I'll follow I leave him a fridge in Allah Home tab but terminal or they took a limo and the NASA can will be ayat inna my opinon verse 82 so 8180 about the grave 81 is talking about even if they were misguided only Allah guides them 82 is when the matter has been established and we will take out for

them a creature that will address them that they used to deny our verses they didn't believe in offices okay then 83 what saw a t28 is 82 apparently what I had said was talking about the day of judgment the grave the day of judgment and then 83 and 84 say were Yaman a showroom in coolio muttonfudge am in may you cut the movie ayat enough amuse our own and on the day when we've taken each group of people who disbelieved they spread apart hot dogger opala occurred up to me IIT went on to hate to be her almond and mother kuntum damn

alone and Allah says did you deny my verses and what was it that you you know we're doing so 83 and 84 are clearly speaking about the day of judgment so the grave the the judgment and then the afterlife about about what there is what the result and so on about these groups so the other thing to ask people is you ask them well okay let's put this all aside for a moment I want you to tell me what do you want us to believe in about this beast so they say we want you to

believe that at the end of times there will be a beast so he said well first of all what do you mean by end of times do you mean when the time has ended or do you mean it hasn't ended there's still plenty of time to come yet like when this let's say an antichrist and people are still running around doing anything with daily business do you mean then and what is the purpose of this beast so because this beast is not a fitness not a trial for people it's from the usher artists from the signs of the hour so most people will say we don't know they will say well once the beast appears then a man can't be accepted from anyone

he said well okay so when the beast appears and it talks because it says it will talk to people so the people is talking to must be able to comprehend what the Beast is saying true say yeah so he said well is there just one beast because if the beast appears here let's say in Birmingham UK and he's talking to me and now Iman is no longer valid anything no good deeds are valid anymore so in that case what about the people in China if a person in China becomes Muslim can he still not become Muslim because the Beast is talking to me is that what we're saying or are we saying what are we saying so then are you saying there's multiple beasts or are

you saying that everybody will see the Beast at the same time are we saying so and is the Beast gonna stay with so people are still so can people still do bad things like can somebody still murder somebody he can still do crimes he just so people can still do bad things and that will count against them but if they do good things Allah won't accept that from them is that what we say I mean either what exactly are we saying so now my point is and then they say yeah then he said but I thought when the Sun rises from the West then Iman is no longer accepted so they say yeah that

to say well is the Sun rising from the west towards the beast like what's going on so this is why everything to do with the end of times people is really something to be taken just as Islamic information as Ignacio said in a static art one thought this is just Islamic information is to be taken with a pinch of salt it's like stories they give you some understanding but they're not to be taken as like literal events like that like we're going to so now let's another confusion by the way is when we say something is from the sign of the hour

does that mean it has to have happen before the hour or could it happen with the hour so a TB and even a Hodja quotes him as well and for Adina Rosina stuff she'd say that the ash righto sir are can occur before the sir or and aha Oh with the hour they can occur so as the world is ending the world is ending so right now let's say the world is ending in the new world is being born this happening that's happening is that part of this world or the next world that I accept is a valid difference of opinion so you could say

the actual sir and what's happening right now and the new world being made and people appearing is that still part of this world or the next world and will that because time will cease to exist so all of a sudden you can't say well time because time ceases in that sense so what are we talking is this all still the end of time because the end of time is at the same point the birth of a new realm which is timeless so in that sense I accept the syste laughs in saying the signs of the hour they because they can happen with the

hour and is the outer part of this world or the next world I would say it's part of the next world if people wanted to say that's part of this world it's not a big deal so now let's take a look at even our shoe so if nourisher says in his verse right so after beginning this he says well harder into : elliptic irritability mo medaka de l'homme you know worried this is now going back to what was speaking about the AMA about death about reminding them and what has been stored for them for hadi I'll miss out the grammar parts because that doesn't make [Music]

you know how the aluminum r2 file of German table ha at focus on a pizza this is attached to the sentence before he all manasa Bertuzzi kareha matter cut them in holy he he says and this is then related to the verse in nicoletto small motor that you do not guide you do not make the dead here one pole what is meant by a pole is a walk alcohol he says or either be of moral either Latika the boo ha this is meant that which they denied the promise which they denied the threat motuhake mean you know in a state of arrogance mystic part who in her because they said is taking forever to

happen when they would say much rather what I do in kuntum saw the thing when will this hour come this promise come if it was truthful one who must are only hello Lee bhakti he was early coming worked it I hate you in Harlem little fauna ill and yet full of an illusion little general Allen are now now listen he says the fact a lie saying what kaha it has happened he says this is Muslim he says this is it's borrowed for its occurrence of that time now listen to this he says it's from the time that the world begins its destruction till the point that they intogen

that this is all one kind of time zone which is timeless and he's saying that this is all one realm you see so you can understand what I was talking about when I said whether that's part of this dunya the Akira is up to people to disagree with well aya - shiro Allah Sheikh Ayman ashraddha halal and white and the worst points to a matter of the signs of the occurrence of this great threat this great promise I'll let the under Ruby he and what they had been warned about what worldwide o Akbar and that was the greatest threat and promise Yanni wider

bath and that is the resurrection Fatah Toshiro Elijah I mean a schrott ISA and it points to a matter of the ash righto sir a woman Hawara tell her that so and it is from that which goes against people's habits that they are that it's it's a non supernatural event so here what is the supernatural event it could be speaking about this beast sure it could be speaking about the resurrection because it's a supernatural event either ways and he says then he's gonna go into grandma whatta barón rojo a civet al-mahdi little crib is nominal Halman

al mahdi a.s father who and then he says that look and this saying well old daddy and when he has happened why because of its closeness now they trying to say by this he means that it has it won't happen on the day of judgment it'll happen close to they could take that but he's not I don't you know he's not saying that in my understanding but they're saying when Allah saying is there what I'll hold and when it has happened why is he saying it when he has happened like this because of the closeness to when it's gonna happen they're saying no so this

means the closeness to the hour they can take that but it doesn't in my understanding mean that then he explains that by what creature means in Arabic we can miss that part out if nothing interesting then he says what God Ruby a tree was Fahad a dhaba and there's a lot of narrations about this creature when it's gone to come out the time it's going to come out of our own body but Rhonda Eva week turbulent relations die fertile as I need they are weak you can find them in subset of Bihari sorry of core to be lateral official be have enough day there's not even point in bringing them and criticizing them here then he says

why Hodja DARPA terminal or lyrium so bringing out the DARPA from the earth is to show them k4 you're here loud motor how Allah brings back the dead if cannot cut Ankara birth because they have denied the resurrection voilá Shekinah kalamaja lon little Mahalaleel ha sure that there is no doubt that the creature speaking is a sign that the hasher has occurred the gathering the day of judgment has occurred in namaha local all kalamaja Malala sunny debate after in Lahore Multan demon Allah around him in Kabul illogical army Helaman were oka him an

extra fee in Sun in Waxahachie now why Allah made a creature addressed them because when the best of creation address them when the best of creation addressed them they rejected best of creation was who The Messenger of God The Messenger of God has already addressed them and they denied it they dead no creature has actually emerged yet so right now liya Khun Ella home Elysium Fiat Eric diary or a euro Nabil Masha now here this caused a bit of confusion for some people because they said look

he's saying so it's an embarrassment for them a shame at the end of time at the end of time but read on you ie Runa be he film a sure at the end of time you ie Runa be he right this is obviously fear FEMA highly nos right you are your own abhi he film Asha that this is something that they are embarrassed with at the end of time an embarrassment for them in the hasha so some people said well this is at the end of time well that comes back to end of time being that nakta that is that a part of this world

or the next world you can disagree for you Aloha Hula are abou Uncle ami wrastling Kareem these people turned away from the words of a messenger tell me is the messenger gonna be at the end of time he's the messenger gonna come before qiyamah right they've already gone the kuffar of Correggio denied the messenger of god for who Tebow Al Ali Sami hire one even by him so they were made to be addressed by an animal that normally doesn't speak how can the Kafar of Quraish be addressed by an animal The

Messenger of God is not speaking to people today is he so so this has already happened and he says Allah Almighty Allah is the father told Kabul mineral map that the work of a lot Manasseh but venema so that's just the point is saying and then he says as to this verse in the NASA Kenobi ayat in LA ok known tar literally is harder harder harder harder hey thula meu canal mushrikuna be ayats in Quran fragile Italica is on the Himalayan farm look because this is from an article ala they said this is a supernatural event so they said also it must happen in this

world hey thula meu canal mushrikuna the mushrik who's the mushrikun work today in his time even our suits on 20th century who would mushrikuna mushrikuna of the time of the prophet that they denied the quran so this they were forced to hear the as an embarrassment they heard that they the denial was in vain and it was stupid of them on the tongue war the speech of a creature on the day of judgement so look and then he says as two people saying

that the Iman doesn't benefit lion fairness and Amano Harlem Taccone hominem in Kabul in surat al-an'am he says wa ham lahardee l-jamaa allah and takuna he keratin limit to kalamoon madaba by eat he says the fact that the creature is gonna say this in this world is by right so there you go people you can judge for yourselves did there was no cut and paste there was nothing I wasn't kind of like doing one of those sly ones it's very clear now you could say look I'm still not convinced fine but to say I'm misquoting is just poor scholarship that shows two things it shows one the level

of Arabic of these people is very poor right they themselves and two if the Arabic is good then they're too clouded to judge objectively because the people who I spoke to that said if not I should couldn't say that the reason why they said that is because they said if now should can say that because that doesn't make sense because there's a hadith in Sahih Muslim saying it see that this shows ah so you're not reading it objectively you're reading it with a mindset that oh he couldn't have said this well that's your mindset and I contacted by the way

shift led a reason I contacted him is because his father Abdullah TV has one of the most most compound collections of the UH shock of the sir are the signs of the hour put together before his death and I visited him a few years back as well in when I went to sunja in Morocco and so where you know and and hamdulillah that was a great blessing meeting I spoke of at that time but because his father compiled one of the most comprehensive collections and and whether he agrees with that or not that his understanding so I messaged this to chef the lady I'm having it Olivia and I

said look here's the pages can you read this do you do you feel on misquoting and he actually confirmed as well in addition to other scholars I also message they confirmed he confirmed very clearly regardless of his understanding he said even our shul is saying this will happen on the hasha on the day of judgement to show those who denied the resurrection there you go case closed so that's no misquote that's the point and it just goes to show these people having a song-and-dance over this it's poor scholarship right people take one two questions then we'll get to

this discussion on marital rape and the understanding in Islam what does it mean the parable of the grain oh this about the grain is just to show that the way or the way a seed has exponential growth that you know you drop a seed and it grows grains and then they have multiple seeds and and this is how good deeds work in this world okay so your one good deed you never know where it may where it may benefit somebody you have no idea sometimes you know it's amazing you think sometimes our good

deeds I don't know you know sometimes I think back to myself and I think like maybe like you never know like maybe like there was some good deed that you did that Allah blessed you because of I don't know you know like sometimes I think back you know this this incident occurs to me that uh you see like I mentioned before I I wasn't really I never grew up in a religious family at all family still like really religious in that sense and I never used to pray

or anything all of us used to pray but I remember when I was about 16 just before going into 17 like that my mom won't wanted to go on Omar and there was a group of people that were going on homra and and they said let's take me so I was like yeah alright whatever it's like a holiday you know we had respect obviously for Islam and Makkah and Madinah and I had as a kid being too much it had the kind of I was gonna say had the he'll be a beaten out of me like

everybody else memorized all the stuff and then all of that not with the juries and stuff but but my point was I I knew the basic stuff I knew what's a lies I didn't know how to pray and stuff but I never used to so I I went the end and I remember that you know I was in Modena and obviously you're just chilling going around you know like my things I'll just a kid as well and and I remember there's this guy Pakistani kind of a bit it must have I don't know like maybe late teen 20 most something like that

you're all mine and I saw him then he was just and really kind of bothered and and yet like shalwar kameez and so I could speak basic kind of all those I spoke to him and I said life is everything okay and he just said that you know like he said like he'd heard that to recite ayatul kursi in front of the in the roba of the Prophet was like a really great deed so I said I said okay yeah like I don't really know much so and he said I don't know it though he

said I don't know a little Chrissy so I actually knew it I mean I wasn't religious or anything but I knew because obviously we memorized there's kids because like I said they's to beat the crud the hell out of us so we had to memorize stuff so I said to him well I could see like is it like Allah Allah Allah hallo alle and he said yeah I said well I know that I said I can read it for you if you want you know you can read it after me so he said we you and I said yeah yeah yeah and so we went and we just sat being that robot by it with the prophets gravy's and I just read it

to him just me my dad we'd of a proper messed up to read back then and he ready after me and he was so chuffed by I mean I didn't really I don't think too much of it but you know sometimes you think we just sat thee by you know I'm not too far from where the prophets gravy's and just read there and and sometimes I think you know when I came back from Umrah in the in the weeks that followed that's when I started to get this interest to learn Arabic and my whole life really changed from that point and it just makes you think

maybe sometimes in life you've done like a little deed you know just made somebody's day somewhere and I think that may have made the difference to everything never really know but I I don't know like I sometimes like that that memory kind of occurs to me that I think barking and I suppose a blessed place the prophet's mosque it may Allah accept from eating home I mean right so let's take some questions and we'll

we'll move on to that topic then right how do you reconcile how Allah speaks about these features with the facts we are supposed up right with the facts supposed to believe a lies outside of our cognition um you see a lot rise to address humans in a capacity that we can make some meaning out of it if you can't let's say whatever meaning

you take is I think in a way fine the problem is when you try to impose your what you're taking on other people that's a problem so Allah does sometimes speak about look like Allah would say his hand was above their hand and so on and so forth but we generally understand that to mean support and stuff like this I think most Muslims understand that to be support but in other verses they might disagree it's a heavy 3 a.m.

or 1 okay so we've got Ramadan coming up this is a good point now well I think right now look um you know in the UK the fasts are going to be incredibly long and lengthy this has been happening for a few years now and will probably go on for a few years now at least 18 hours and plus in certain places and and plus in certain place in some European countries even

more now what is the ruling on these generally I would advise all people who can keep the fast to keep it inshaallah days great height in in these fasts not just spiritual not just Islamic not from a faith perspective alone even physical health endurance all of these things Allah is merciful you know and and there is a great wisdom in a hadith so motorcycle fast you will you will develop good health that is a hadith of

The Messenger of Allah I do believe that that these kind of things are a benefit for us a however you're struggling if however you're struggling with the fast due to health reasons you can miss them and make them up later on that is fine Allah gives you that option you know himself that those people who cannot refute God certain health conditions D have certain issues some people have you know especially with the lengthy things I know some people have

kidney issues they need to be hydrated I've been asked by people like that I've been asked by people who've got like really severe skin disorders where they need a certain amount of moisture in their liquid by drinking on a daily basis if they don't it gets really bad like they've actually been hospitalized things like anything like this all some people they start fainting if you've it's your call it's not the mallanna subs cool it's your call if you feel you can't do it this is your Deen Allah is your God you know he's just Aziz the Mawlana sobs it's not his

call to make it's up to you you can do that but I would say if you can fast a nun hamdu lillah or maybe try it if it starts becoming too much then just break it that's probably what I would say that's the first point the second point is people have asked about examinations I have said that look if you're going to struggle or this is going to affect you you can miss that fast and make it up later on in the year that is fine you don't have to I myself I would argue that I have been through Ramadan in some parts of the world at some points in

very hot temperatures I have kept my fast generally I mean as far as I know so as an individual I would probably try to do it but then I'm not you you know you're not me you might do something which I might be like what the hell I can't do that and I might do something which you might think you know I can't do that so it's your call imam shot to be saved every intern is on nerves you it's your call right so but don't take a does having a tooth removed break the fast no it doesn removing a tooth does not break the fast

swallowing remnants between your teeth does not break the fast swallowing a bit of blood for example if your tooth or your teeth started bleeding during the day and does not break the fast for the love of God brush your teeth people when your fasting does not break your fast use mouth sprays it does not break your fast for the love of God and for Humanity unless you want to gas them there is a few things in this world there are worse and more abhorrent than bad breath honestly one thing I totally can not

stand is bad breath so use by all means use mouthwash use toothpaste use mouth sprays use any of these things use those kind of you get those things as melt on your tongue you can use them it does not even if they've got a taste it is not food people it is not food okay you use a miswak if you want to use a SC wok use whatever you want to use but keep your mouth smelling fresh okay that's for the love of God that one I'll plead on behalf of every all the other

victims all right so what else if you accidentally drink eat it doesn't break you fast if you wake up late you can still keep the fast so these things I just want to get some of these questions straight out there if you've had a wet dream it doesn't break the fast sexual foreplay does not break the fast actual sexual intercourse does break the fast if you're gonna just to clear clarify that people then they're gonna say must be saying this now but just sexual foreplay does not break the

fast I'm just trying to think vomiting does not break the fast not that the question of vomiting should follow foreplay when people say mostly doesn't do himself any favors busy with this humor then somebody's gonna turn that into like and they're gonna put that out Lee say look what movies so

right so anyway what else I'm trying to think vomiting doesn't break the fast bleeding doesn't break the fast Oh Billy Boy hey all right Billy's in the house man that's what we're talking about bleeding doesn't break the fast what else rinsing your mouth mmm gargling doesn't break the fast even if remnants of water did like if I kept rinsing my mouth naturally some remnants will get swallowed they all get will get absorbed that does not break

the fast okay accidental eating drinking many people in the maliki method have gone to the fact in saying that it breaks but some people like good to be another people have questioned that and I go with that understanding that it doesn't break the fast okay so what else just trying to think of any what else is there that's controversial ear drops don't that's not controversial I don't why I said that after me I'm

gonna get done but I don't know that but ear drops are not come true controversial and they don't break the fast nasal drops hmm nasal drops but eyedrops do not break the fast I would say anything that's not food and does not break the fast if somebody just swallowed dust or swallowed some swallowed a fly or swallowed something by Exynos or even smoke does not break the fast these things wearing a patch for smoking does not break the fast taking injections does not break the fast I had been asked

previously and I'm not encouraging this just in case people say but I had been asked does masturbation break the fast I have got a video and I will release that I mean we released it part of my tips I've said according to many of those orlimar alberni and all these people show Kearny and those which are quote in the video clip it does not break the fast so I'm not encouraging me clarify try just in case people misquote me so much man but yeah so what else mmm sleeping does not break you know some people say what if you slept the whole

day doesn't break the fast so these are some questions I hope that's of some help right okay moving on to some somebody said what whatever the right hand possesses huh whatever the left hand possesses is that what you're trying to say all right Soho but I mean look I'm just giving these opinions there are many people there are other opinions I've not said no other opinions exist in Islam many opinions that may have said everything I've just said

breaks the fast fine if you want to take that you can but this is and I have got detailed short clips called in my series which is on YouTube called fast and vicious and I answer these in there with a lot of banter and these questions in short I think five-minute clips each somebody said Maliki mother accidentally breaks fast liar look at this see this is what I mean by exactly the misquoting I actually just said a moment ago most of the Maliki Adu say it breaks the fast but some like cool to be and others have problematized that and said that no because there's a Saudis and that's what

I go with I actually just said that like three minutes ago for God's sake stop focusing on the masturbate in question and listen to the other ones this is what hey this is what this is exactly what I have to put up with and then they say move these swings up girl what do you expect me to do right so the verse in surah Baqarah right how did I li Wow ever since Ally

watchman he's been in the bathroom right so okay let's write okay another question I want to mention this is an important one with Ramadan people have said this many time tables are gonna come out some are going to say I have to start the fast at 1:30 in the morning some are going to say it's 3:30 which one should I follow I've said before follow whichever one you like to me you you have that freedom Islam gives you the freedom in fact I'm going to add another opinion somebody told me share a

topic I said this as well I've not seen share her topics clip on this but if if he has said it then I'll handle alarm really glad about that but I've said since last year that look there is an understanding within Islam there are some a hadith which are sound that demonstrate that one can continue to eat salud that means you can continue to eat right up until a short period before sunrise so with enough time to basically

pray now I would say for that and that was the default opinion but that was an opinion and it's transmitted in several hadith many of the chains are being problematized but two of them have been deemed sound and it goes back to the companions it goes back to earth man these narrations going back to our bucker about him eating when there was sunlight there was I believe it's are they familiar man and other companions who have said da cunha that we would not call ownership what one ha sorry Coonan at the Sahara Arsenal I won a Kelowna sure we used to eat and drink

with the messenger of allah for us ahora and it was daylight broad daylight IRA and Nash and slim Tata except the Sun had not risen and and this narration from Earth man and so on so I would say if that was indeed a image then given our circumstances of the irregular lengthy hours of fast that we have and the hardship and the principle in Islam is a method labeled a seed so based on all of these I gave my fatwa in saying that you can eat and drink up until sunrise with enough time

to pray before you don't have to follow that don't freak out you can close your fast at 1:30 if you want by all means but those who want to use that Islam in my understanding allow Z so let's say sunrise is that I don't know let's just say sunrise is a quarter to five so you could eat and drink with enough time before quarter to five for you to just be able to pray okay and yourself you'll and that would give you inshallah maybe another two hours or an hour and a half of time and it will make that fast easier for you okay so if that's going

to work then by all means al hamdulillah I'd give that fatwa I've heard that Chef atomic I said that I don't want to attribute it to him somebody told me they've read him saying that son hamdulillah that's great news as well if he has said it even if he hasn't it's transmitted from the self and it's there cool so eating after Salah I would say if you're going to do that then you do it in that order you don't eat after salat you eat and then pray that's how I would say okay so that's my fat while visually you can disagree with it you can go with somebody that varies the order does

something but my ruling is like this this is how I when you see the white lining right okay you're talking about obviously the the verse that's explained like that that's generally how people would start they would start the faster but this there's a whole discussion on why couldn't it be so clear because even that hadith look even that hadith if you think about it the hadith is that the Prophet said kouachi Abu Hatter eat and drink until they you hear the Adhan of ignominy Maktoum because he's a blind

man he's does not do the event until he is told as bafta as matter so just think about it rationally that means at least few minutes must have passed from when that let's say dawn appears for somebody to go to him to his house and say ah slaughter a swatter and then he as a blind man must go and do the events of some moments at the very least have occurred after that so that means it couldn't have been an on/off switch it couldn't have been right the moment it happened it's Haram because otherwise the Prophet wouldn't have left it to a blind man

although that would be the main way the general way of keeping fasts would be like that that would be the general Sunnah in my understanding but the validity can be extended especially with harsh circumstances that's my Fatah okay the word Ramadan comes from like testing like heat things like this Rambam the word rambha some people have tried to say the name of Allah that's being rejected but generally that's the understanding like testing and heat and stuff like this okay cool let's let's take a look at

this hadith people and by the way look I'm not saying you're not going people have to agree with my understanding but I'm just trying to create ease for people yes there will be people will disagree with me but if that will allow people to keep the fast then by all means you know it's it's gonna be hot as it is just as this journey you know there's a this because for saying this I'll probably get heat you know I'll probably get heat for saying this but if it can

make life easy for people if it can make this deal work for people then by all means and even if I face heat I am saying that there's a poem that suffer made group to hoagie Chelle Sacco that you know you know that this they will be heat in this journey of us meaning like obviously Sun heat but do the Hokey don't be jel circle touch alone you know that if you can take it as well then by all means that savvy he'll again him here man don't be Michael sakura-chan know that everybody is in this queue

this kind of if you two can be the patients then by all means suffer me do the Hokey don't be jel Sokoto cello now he says it's a very beautiful poem actually by NIDA Fazli he says kisi que vas Tara he kaha modality that when you just for like for who does their path itself change path is always set it doesn't change for you kisi ke

rustic humble cuz he gave us the wrong Inka Hamid LT Tom apne up caboodle Saku the channel and if you can change yourself then by all means young kisi Kukui rust inhibitor honky Zico queerest Anita Mucha gear RK hood Tom sam'l socata cello he says here nobody gives anybody way it's a dog-eat-dog world nobody

gives anybody way if by tripping me over you can make it than by all means do I he says Kaena he has sewerage Duan Duan visa that we can't see sunlight anyway that everything is just clouded to map me up say barnacles a cottage a lot if you can get out of yourself then by all means and he has this line in this hustle of his where he says yeah he has in the

ghee couch and he says yeah he has in the kitchen table couch on me ahahahaha yeah he has in the kitchen table couch midday in he kilo no Satan be Bajal saku-dono suffer Madhu Pahokee Allah he says that this is life at the end of the day it is just simply some dreams chendo me there's some aspiration

some hope that's what it is if you - if you two can can kind of distract yourself with these toys if you can be amused by these amusements than by all means suffer my dupe talk that's the so that's people that's that's what life is I guess cool let's get to this discussion Allah Allah see this is the fourth at that line really kind of hit me you know the way he says yeah he has in the geek chant

hub couch me there that that is all that life is is some dream some hopes and aspirations now if you can be if you to any kilo no certainly barrel Sakura jello that if you can be amused by these toys or they did this entertainment then by all means that is life I guess isn't it you know this those of you that are into Pahlavi this legend the dawn of qawalli Aziz Mia people really love Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan is amazing but Aziz me I was

Aziz Mia he was a legend and he has this Cavalli where he says the way he's speaking about how difficult life is as as a as a Macomb as a station life is so difficult and he says what are he sucked a nickel I am a comments in the Gunny that this maqam of life really was something and you know there's a way that he does he like he reads these Portland and I was watching this and now that he's dead you see he died and he died in Ramadan and now that he's dead and he's speaking about how difficult

life had been and he says that Kabila Bay are Canali that sometimes the the scream of AA on your tongue on your lips Kabhi dilma hunka charlie sometimes these blisters ripping open in your heart that burrow is at the niccola yama calm is in he says in it was really difficult this this journey of life and the way he does it you know what he's doing he's very animated so he says when

he says Kabila pyaar ke na liya Kebede ill param Holly bara he sucked a nickel and then he goes like this he gets up and he goes because what is a technique love him a calm is in the gurney and he really well mine honestly watching it after he's died is it was just something else man but yeah right people let's move on to something a bit more serious and important that needs to be discussed I've been asked by a few people can you tell me how much you've been giving as

I'm heart patient and can't keep them I don't know what that I don't know what that means diabetic something about fasting and diabetic if you can't keep the fast by all means you can just give Vidya instead that's fine and I forgot to add by the way for Ramadan aside note that people women who are nursing breastfeeding or pregnant they can miss the fast and I do go with the understanding of abner bus and if no ma that they do not need to make up those fasts and they can just give the Vidya

many Oh Lamar will disagree with that and they say they need to make it up but I would say that that is how the apparent reading of the Quran is hua olelo Lavina UT una and those who are actually capable of the fast faith on Tamil miskeen that they give a fidya for the poor people people say this verse we ought to read a little Avenal iota Kuna but Allah didn't say that Allah said Allen Lavina UT who now on those who are capable that they give and even old people even though they are capable but if they're gonna struggle they can choose not to and give video instead that's my understanding may Allah grant

each and all ease I mean right we've had this discussion I've had this question brought in front of me about marital rape in and it's understanding in Islam okay now this is a serious topic very serious and as you can imagine in this day me a lot of the non-muslims maybe X Muslims as well and atheists and Islamophobes have really sometimes and the right wing as well have attacked

Islam on this kind of understanding so let me just clarify beginning with the ruling straight away right marital rape is utterly Haram in Islam okay there is not even one person and allowance for any there is ZERO tolerance towards marital rape okay I just want to put that out there first of all as the ruling there is no such thing and anybody and I feel that it is once again a it is an unfortunate sad representation and misrepresentation of

Allah and His Messenger to say that they allowed marital rape right that is once again a disservice and I would feel I actually treat these things very harshly and I would feel that this is a betrayal of Allah and His Messenger but other people will use less harsh words and say that okay there is it's at the very least a misrepresentation of Allah and His Messenger now just to begin with now what is this misunderstanding so this misunderstanding stems from a hadith people there's a very when I say famous

I mean popularized hadith that has gone around is very popular in English circled in Islamophobic circles even in schools secondary schools people know about this it has come up in many discussions that does the wife have the right in Islam to say no to sex and people say she doesn't and that is nonsense she absolutely does right now I want to clarify what's going on people are basing this understanding on a

hadith this hadith that they are saying is found in Sahih Muslim it is found in Sajadi it is found in of the hold in ad army and in the Muslim of imam ahmed okay it is a hadith that is solely transmitted pretty much by Abu Huraira rhodiola on now this hadith pretty much works around this wording so I'm gonna read one of the wordings obviously they're all pretty much very similar to this wording that is Alberta till Mara that if a woman goes to sleep

or spends the night spends the night can be translated as that hard gelatin fee Raj's OG ha oh ha G letter farish's OG how it can be read in either way right so if she spends the night having abandoned or not sleeping with her husband in another narration he says either da if the husband calls his wife Elif ll Faraj to the bed and she says no so he has that variation in some narrations so laughs I'm not helm Allah

Iike the Angels will curse this woman had tat to spare until it's morning and in and one of the rewire had taught LG until she returns to the bed so he doesn't have to be the morning it could be days later until she returns to having sex with him in one of the rewire it says it doesn't say the Angels it says yes haha lay her that the Lord's wrath will be upon her the Lord Himself Rob Usama or manfist cemaat the one in the heaven the one in the sky above will

be will have his wrath for her and his anger now this hadith right that we're going to take a look at is the is the cause of this problem ok this hadith is problematic and I will demonstrate how this hadith is unreliable and clashes with the clearly established with not only reason the three the golden three with reason the established sources of the Quran and Sunna and the principles within Islam right so first of all let's

just take a look at these these chains okay now well what I'll do is I'll focus pretty much let's take a look at the body rewire because everybody puts Buhari first then we'll take a look at sahi Muslim as well and then this one to others we'll take a look at them so okay like I said this narration mainly comes pretty much only through Abu Hurairah or the alarm from him it centers on some transmitters primer primarily is centers on a mesh and it centers on qatada these

two pretty much this is how it pretty much kind of comes down there are some other issues as well along the way and what else I'll speak about them so let's take a look at the first rewind Buhari like which I've quoted to you now this comes through our mesh that much what do we know about how much how much is saying an Abba has him and a before Ava its transmitted from arena at mesh he was known as a major model is okay motherless that means what he that he would often just omit people and try to make the chain look as though it sound now some people have done at least

sometimes by good intentions but he was known to do to lease from weak narrators a lot mesh abnormal Barack said about him in the mayavada Haditha Adele Kufa abou is hot and a lot mesh that these two have destroyed the hadith of Kufa in terrible command it stated that he did at least from over 20 come 2020 shares from over 20 shares he did to these from one of them in over a hundred narrations Wow I let you said in his gem it tassel and even after born in his tomb Heath that you did Alyssa I need the author

that he would have MIT people knowing like he would try to bring up up sound person to make the chain get by the hobby tries to justify for him a bit by saying rock mama dallisa I need life sometimes he he does at least from a dive narrator but well I had three me you know maybe he didn't know this is what he he tries to other people were very harsh about him more said Natori says he was a kid he was a liar Abhaya a robbery ah ha mumfie Dini he that he's rejected and has an agnostic wanted his life at the very least this person is problematic there is an ANA in this

chain that means he's not saying I heard he is dropping it as just an from Abu Hassan then you might say oh well but there's a require from this a rewire in mihari from Shah Baba on Solomon from Abu Hassan what about the aha no I machine that chain aha but I will say that were nice but here who's transmitting that in Bihari that is transmitted but if not be Adi what do we have to say about if na VI T Omaha

tomorrow Z said la a Jew be in the missin Yamaha resale collab na VI D LAN Lucas diva Lamas a nominal jury in la banda next a law that he was somebody openly admitted later on transmitting certain narrations which were problematic himself and about her Tamara's enemies and says we don't accept from him ok but then you might say but in Bihari there's another narration Mohammed even Hara Hara from Shah Baba from kitada from zarada from Abu Huraira aha Mohammed even our era has some

problems himself but lets us put him aside as I said the these narrations rest mania and our mash and patada Qatada himself was another mushroom motherless at least he would often omit people there be said he was my roof but at least if my band said the Hakim said that all these people abu dawood said he did at least from over 30 people let me ask mom in whom but pretended as though he heard from them even hogr even puts him in the third category of mother listen lie of the Jew be him who

are not reliable right so you might say ok so that's the three narrations found in Bihari what about ad army there Naya is from Qatada again what about in a famine humble once again from katate what about another narration a midden humble from our mesh oh but what about you might say ah but in Ahmed even humble this one narration where Qatada is saying he's saying Akbar Anna that he's saying that I heard and I heard that you know so he's using the word he's not doing hi Nana you think a

charge first of all that would be massively problematized if that was the case why didn't he say in the more authentic narrations why didn't they transmit that from him secondly who's saying that others said this buzz and what does about had to Madrasi say about bajas let you be the juubi so out this one is well out okay let's take a look at the narrations in sahih muslim generation in sahih muslim come from if nabi Ahmad who says I heard from Marwan who says from yes either mimic a son from a bow has in the same narration going back to a before either

this is either been a case on interesante yeah even if Japan says lay some image or a tomato Ali is not reliable about how to Madras he says like Juby we do not take him as an evidence right in Hajj or even says he tries to be good Sasa Duke is trust your stay he makes mistakes not nice this all right so there's another naration in Muslim you might say I'll say indeed there is people indeed there is but who's in that an amish is it man does he do Anana

yes so out out so as you can see all of these narrations that I've quoted they all comes to Abu Hurairah and predominantly just rest on these two at mush and Qatada both with manana the other change where somebody claims that they said III he heard has other problematic people in me or other connected change like this he has either mimic a son which is unacceptable which I mentioned like bajas is they laugh about maahes or even a Vig okay so

that's this particular hadith so now you might say okay well but okay the hadith is problematic and what Mufti and what well and a lot because this is not a small matter first of all I want you know like actually I was showing on my facebook I came back I received this week a lot of books on Jennifer whatta a deal that's what I call textual pathology that's Imam Muslims Tamizh these are books that's you've got Imams ovaries problematic narration in four

volumes this is the problematic what I call passage in naira toriel pathogens Allah I want the credit for that naira toriel pathogens there ll write in textual pathology in a little hadith these are those that were found inside Muslim so that's some awesome kind of reading I've been doing these are the ill hadith but you've got allele Medini but this is an interesting contemporary work as well now look Allah when you reject the

hadith with one of the key things because it's from a well-known everyday ubiquitous matter a woman baloise the Hanna fear were really huge on this and they give examples like things like breaking the wood all by touching your private parts everybody should know this why should it only be transmitted through one person etc and they go through the narrations then you've got other sections like when the photo of the Sahaba himself goes against a like Abu Huraira famous hadith saying that look when the dog licks the bowl you need to wash it seven times but abu huraira own fatwa was no you don't need to wash it seven times three times

is enough so there's an that's about himself going against what he's transmitting that's an example but let's say and then when the narration goes against the tears or the Hawaii in Islam so from the Hanna fear a signal burned body you got booze eight and many of the motifs Irene from the Hanafi and the Baghdadi ins from the Maliki are rejected many Kabbalah had if they went against some people called it chaos but what they refer to as banana said was the power in the principles which I established in Islam remember the three things which I've mentioned

right so you say well what's the problem with this well first of all how could something so well known only be transmitted through one companion above radar of the Allah on when you think about it how marriage and they must be contentions happening every day in married life so people are living with the Prophet a Barrera only comes to the prophet in the last two or three years of his life yet the prophet has spent a decade in medina married families everyday everybody living there why does everybody not know this why is the only coming through these people so that's one key contention but let's go back to the

Quran right what does the Quran say the Quran when it speaks about women wives ah Shiro Nabil Maru that live with them with kindness with known kindness wilma ruth is forcing to have sex is that kindness Gitano Gitano that is utterly unacceptable let's take a look at another verse well I wanna miss early the alley in Nabil model and they have the same rights as they have against

them like same for you same for them there's no hadith saying the man will be cursed if the woman wants sex no such hadith no such narration that the Lord will be upset and so on right what about another verse where a lie saying where things don't go well for him sir come be my roof in ODIs Leung BSN verse of the Quran people surah Baqarah that for himself sir hold on be my roof hold on to that relationship with my roof with kindness also sorry hyung be a son okay it's not working this incompatibility between us

irreconcilable differences fine you go your way I'll go my way that is fun this is what the Quran is highlighting somebody could argue in the Quran this a woman where it's addressing the issue of in that particular example of a woman creating issues in the household so when enamor aim in Ratan Nash's at that when these new shoes the Nashes ax the woman that is an Ashes ax that is stirring up trouble and doing this in the household and many people said no shoes included included they

said refusing sex not having sex and so on Allah doesn't say I lay her lagna to LA she has the curse of Allah on her and stuff like this he doesn't say that and that's a discussion which I addressed in a different in a different talk so I don't want to digress from that what about another verse of the Quran women IRT he and from Allah science and helical a common and physical as watch and that he created for you partners lettuce canoe alaihe so that you may find comfort in them now look at this that you may find comfort now we understand that that may be in many ways

one of the ways physical comfort obviously right Roger ala bein Akuma what the term Rama and he placed between you love compassion that's not compassion marital rape that's no way compassion utterly on accepts the Quran this teaching that now you're gonna say yeah but that's not marital rape if anybody argued that that's not marital rape yes it is it's emotional blackmail you're emotionally blackmailing a woman to say that we'll God is gonna curse you

and distant you from his murse see unless you come here and have sex with me that is emotional blackmail which is abuse which is emotional that is that that is a form of manipulative rape because the other person is not wanting to do it and you are then saying God is gonna be angry with you if you don't get yourself here right now so that is marital rape and that is utterly utterly Haram let me go on

though people there is a hadith now this hadith comes in Buhari it comes in even imagine it comes in necessary that the wife of thigh be hypnotized her name was Jamil a tip in a saloon she jameelah this woman that was a name the meal that doesn't mean beautiful as well but and apparently she was very beautiful so but that's her name the wife of flabby turban apiece she comes to the prophet and complains about being with her husband she'd got married to him and she wasn't happy in this relationship and

she says morality bore a leafy Dean in wallahu look she says I can't criticize not his Deen nor his good character I can't criticize either meaning the guy's got impeccable character good character well-mannered and Dean he's got good Dean Wow okay she's Hara and Nia Crowell cofre Baha'i man I don't want to be somebody who goes to ku for after faith in another rewire she said Vera and Mila OTO who both but I

can't handle him out of despising him in some narrations she said when he comes to me I would rather spit in his face than have sex with him great guy great guy great character right great beam but she said and in some narrations there's narrations in Bazaar and mustard of Ahmed when Matt Maher says she says that you can see what I have in terms of beauty like I'm she was apparently very beautiful and she says that he was known Leda mama for being not to disrespect

him but he was known for being quite not so easy on the eye quite ugly but they people said he was the meme so he was a bit ugly so she just couldn't tolerate that and she's in some narrations like I said she said I'd rather spit in his face than have sex with him but he's a great guy otherwise you know I'm not saying he's a he's a horrible nasty person he's not but she says this brings out the worst in me did the Prophet say I'll a healer at Allah al melodica to tell anouk the angels are cursing you yes Holly Kira book the Lord is is angry

with you Hatter Jie had to stay here until you go back to his bed until you do this until you do that of course not the messenger of allah allah allah allah wa sallam said fine said to him the liquor she had because they marriage relationship was quite new she had recently acquired a part of his asset and so it doesn't look like she's doing this just to con him out of his assets the Prophet asked you know this recently acquired land you took from him you you're happy to give it back she said yeah prophet said take it said to him and and finish this relationship

right now rahmatan lil holla me a mercy for the world that's the messenger of allah now in another rewire allah the prophet himself was married to a woman now there's some debate on the name of this woman some people say her name was Omaima bint shall our heel some people said she was Alcala bia whoever she was the Prophet some people said that here's a woman she's looking to get married the Prophet got married to her and this is transmitted you have this the certain narrations of it

from books um even in Buhari in Asahi hain alluding to it now the profit when he just went into the house and she was there some she said I will be Leahy mink I seek refuge in Allah from you now the Prophet said faqad earth to be nothing you have sought refuge in the mighty and and he said and he left and he said that this this relationship won't work and and he left it and he said - it's a loose aid that gave her such and such thing as a gift and we've I'll finish

this all divorce from this relationship now the scholars did dispute why did she say how's the below him Inc some people say she was set up to say that like some of the wives I told her say this the Prophet likes hearing that some people say she didn't know him who he was the Prophet she would just told hey would you since she was interested in getting married this was an arranged marriage and she did not know that was a prophet but her words to the prophet and the Prophet said that look well she's obviously whatever but she doesn't seem very happy with this relationship let's end this right here you see that is what relationships are the Prophet could have

said oh the Millea Catalan oak the angels curse you this happens that happens no that is not how Islam works okay another and this is one of the most important narrations I want to bring your attention to people the verses of the Quran have said that the women have the same rights as you they usually live with them with kindness you either accept them with kindness or separate great hair gracefully that you that Allah placed love and compassion between you that is the Quran takes precedence then there is a hadith this hadith is inside Aloha D it is inside Muslim it

isn't necessary it is internally it is in a Buddhahood it is in the Muslim Department it is in some another me not the messenger of allah salallahu alayhi wa sallam from rock bottom in our meal that he said oh shoot that the most most desert ring of the conditions and tofu behind that you must be loyal to master Alton be he'll Forge that which you got married by that which you got married that and the actual wording that which you made their private parts hello to

you by now people here say oh that means be kind provide food do this you did not make that condition when you got married what was the condition the shot for the nikah have to be valid the short for the nikah to be valid wasn't is there food in your cabinet that was in the shot was the shot have you got a hole so do you have a vehicle or do you have money that was never the short of a new car to make you know the a woman halal for you the shirt was consent

it was consent was the shot Arriba was the shot a little para thing that she was supposed to say a bill to I accept that condition you must live up to you cannot turn away from that condition that hadith is found in body in Muslim in Dar mean tell me Dean Abu Dawood in Muslim Ahmed how can people justify go away from the clear verses of the Quran Lia teachings of the messenger the the the principles of Islam that although

there is no harm in Islam how could Islam condone harm how could it condone harm like this this wouldn't it would do nothing but breed hatred if you were so these these clearly show in a matter that is so well known how is the only operator of the alarm on transmitted e how is that and that too through mainly at mush and kitada both through mainly tagless and hannah and the chains in the problems which i've already highlighted and it clashes with you see the the wife of

which I submitted in a case his story which I just read to you it clashes with this hadith of operative Muhammad that you must maintain the initial condition for nikah and that condition was consent right so anybody telling you anything different is wrong they're either ignorant they're either misinformed or they are misrepresenting Ilana's messenger and I seriously beseech them I am as plead to them to stop misrepresenting Allah and His Messenger now somebody may say to me look somebody may say to me that yeah

but look in in a relationship naturally there's always some compromise that's a fair statement true there is always compromise in relationship that's the very essence of relationships and you might say well look even with sex one of the two partners it's not always that both partners are always on that mindset equally at the same time one of them might be kind of always a bit of a compromise like okay you think well fine that does may happen and I'm sure that happens right so you might say well so

what's the problem look that is not necessarily the problem the problem is that can you persuade people like an you know if you're in a relationship and a person wants to be intimate and the other person's feeling and you persuade them people are always persuading people hey come on let's do whatever nobody's arguing against persuasion but it should be done one two important factors one through non-abusive means not physical

not emotional not mental psychological abusive means abuse does not enter your persuasion you can persuade people you could be nice to people you could do things you people are always persuaded people are persuaded to do everything you know that's but not through abusive means no way - if you're gonna persuade people don't bring God into it don't bring God Allah and his messenger to justify you having sex that is Haram by all means persuade somebody be good to them

be kind whatever I listen oh you know how about holiday hey whatever you gonna do not holiday every time I'll be like a daily holiday but my point is persuade people not through abusive means any kind of abuse mental physical abuse is psychological emotional religious spiritual and - do not bring God do not drag the name of Allah and His Messenger to just fulfill you'll need to have sex Danny studies that is unacceptable Allah and isn't his messenger are not to be

used as tools for you to manipulate people so you can have sex your by your own means relationships is true they are always kind of compromising balances and you can persuade people that's that's your life it's your business it's between you two but these things are utterly huh so that's something I thought was very important to clarify because look at the end of the day you have to think of it from reason look if you are a woman and there are many women out there even for men just think about

it or if you've got a sister or a daughter or you know it could be anybody just think about it just put your theory of mind is put yourself in the hey you don't like to be emotionally blackmailed into having sex being violated just because God is gonna curse you this that is just loma and then to attribute it back to is the messenger of a loss of allah i leave sonim is even worse so these were some words that I've seen a lot of people misuse I felt that look

they had to be clarified I will clarify that look Islam by all means does teach that a couple men and women have rights in a relationship you have rights upon each other people should not claim unnecessary mind games with each other people should not Aslam does speak about look people should not withhold sex from each other as a kind of a kind of instrument to make the other person suffer and if that is happening then you need to question the relationship you're in if a person let's say there's sexual

incompatibility between a couple if it could be the woman it could be the man if somebody has a greater sexual libido than their partner and it's just not working then they need to question if the other or if the other person is withholding sex to make them suffer then they need to question themselves am I in the right relationship why am i suffering why is this person you know doing this with me or whatever and then if they uncomfortable in a relationship they should just part ways gracefully and that relationship is not for them well maybe they can discuss it and maybe something maybe they can improve on it maybe they can work on it but what I'm

trying to say and obviously through stages of life people's libidos will vary as well sometimes you know rocketing sometimes maybe not so much sometimes rocketing right but the point is that these things are all natural but what you don't do is to get this done let's bring down Allah and His Messenger and yes alhamdulillah so that's very disrespectful and I find it very dishonorable to Allah and his messengers on earth so I hope that makes sense people I think with that it's been two and a half hours you you guys have been

awesome sugar and for really staying on as as the same as last year with it being Ramadan coming up just within the next couple of days I don't do Monday nights with Musti in because one better things to focus on - everybody's got very far and you know a lot of things going on but what I will try to do is sporadic shorter maybe just 20 to 30 minutes just lessons from the Quran so maybe just read a few verses translate them and give some meaning that's all during the month of Ramadan

and people have asked me what should we do during the month of Ramadan I think that look the fast is amazing as it is keep the fast I would like to encourage people to what I'm calling a back-to-basics project it's your personal project I want you to take it up a lot of people have contacted me that look they struggle to pray I want you to begin your Salah even for for those and this is a spectrum those who are you know really struggling then even if you're praying just the fourth pray and even if you're praying it all together at one point before you're

going to sleep or as you wake up whichever way you're just praying all of them together and those who can who can pray maybe you know they they can do better than that maybe they can break them up into two maybe they can pray all the day prays together and the night prays together in one go they obligatory part and maybe there's someone can pray all five in their time then al hamdulillah and there is some who maybe can only just pray the Father hamdulillah do that just the obligatory pot and there's some who might be able to do the Knuffle wherever you are on that spectrum I encourage you to kind of to embark on this back to basics project

and what I would say so do that and even if it's just a few verses of the Quran each day in Ramadan just reading few verses that's all nothing much don't only to burden yourself if you can read more by all means that's beautiful if you can't a few verses maybe you've read half a page having to realize taking you a few minutes that's that's awesome so so that's a key factor and I wanted to focus on three things one the salaah want some connection with the Quran and by extension learning so if you want to learn things learn things people have asked watch are doing

Ramadan learn if you want to learn Arabic learn Arabic if you want to learn about Islam learn about Islam if you want to learn about the amazing character of the Prophet learn about that learn about anything just learn read do what listen whatever is your thing do it and the third thing about human humanizing people okay I'd like us this is the back to basics kind of project the third thing I would like people to really and this can be done in two ways one at a social level and to add a conceptual mental level so at a social level by maybe being charitable

which a lot of Muslims are but to really understand I want this to expand beyond just Muslims to really try to think from an angle of compassion for Humanity as a whole for even non-muslims I don't mean a cross that doesn't have to be across the globe just thinking look like I want you to put yourself in the mind of non-muslims in this country just think how they see the world how do they see us how do they see Islam had just think about that June it's only a thinking project and the other aspect of it is maybe you could do something charitable maybe you could help a lot of

people do give to Muslim charities but maybe you could just give to a local hospice it doesn't have to be Muslim maybe you could give to a local children's kind of home or a children's the children's ward where children are suffering Children's Hospital law or anything just a little it doesn't even have to be Muslim were you giving you could give to Muslim II it doesn't have to but just reconnecting with human beings so the one thing your Salah however you pray to some connection with learning in the Quran and three some connection with human beings on a societal level people I think that's all

I would really I think that'll be awesome insha'Allah will be an amazing journey and don't worry about things like doubts and stuff like this we all have doubts and it's all good and we can discuss these Childline their own time people I'm gonna leave you with that right there's a lot of some people just starting some discussions there I can't really [Music] we've gone into this too much do reach out to me on Facebook Twitter I need to be more active on Twitter Instagram with the Herbalife YouTube most ebolaids subscribe to my channel people are i

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