Shake The Tree!

assalamu alaikum folks here's an ayah to add meaning to your daily lives allah does not change what is with the people until they do not change themselves okay so you have to affect the change and allah will make it happen how often have we been stuck in a rut of moaning and whining that i'm just complaining discontentful unhappy oh my startup isn't taking off my business isn't bringing profits my relationship ain't working or i can't seem to find a

really all the good people are taken oh i'm so out of shape check this in psychology you have something known as the fundamental attribution error fae this is when something happens to us we often put the blame on the circumstances around us the situation it's situational when it's somebody else it's their disposition it's them dispositional so why am i late oh it's because there were roadworks there's traffic my car why are you later well you simply can't be bothered oh you're too lazy same thing relation why mine you know a struggling world is all of these things

my health this i don't know why yours well you just can't seem to put the effort in you see now we have to really question ourselves is that the is it always the situation we have to kind of introspect look within when it's your startup have you thought out of the box have you thought about expanding your network base advertisement showcasing your work pro bono to people surprising them what about relationships what have you actually done is it just dua i mean the person isn't going to land from the sky we have to actually take those steps check this

uh verse out you're gonna you're gonna love this right surah maryam now you've got the story of maryam salam she's gone off to a remote location she was heavily pregnant now all the distress the anxiety the isolation she she goes through the pangs of labor she gives birth and in amidst all of this what would have been an overwhelming experience and you know causing a lot of anxiety she's hungry and what does allah say who's

the fruit or the dates they will then fall upon you in abundance and then eat you see you have to shake the tree allah could have said mariam is a prophetess according to many people allah could have said here's the risk it's coming to you it's descending all these various dishes shake the tree the abundance will come we have to ask ourselves people what are we actually doing okay the the person at the top of the mountain didn't just fool the maybe in another parallel universe with different gravitational forces

but not here they had the person had to make their way up there right what are we actually you know is it oh i'm so out of shape oh you know well it's because of the lockdown it's because of the gyms weren't open well what are you doing about it i mean you could take up a membership you could take a pt you could do something effect change or you could just sit back and just blame other people and it's your life you know you can do that okay you can say well it's because of him it's because of her it's because of this it's because of somebody's done magic on me somebody's done this to me it's just

you know it's the lockdown and otherwise you know what i would have been fantastic [Laughter] he says it's love you know let's blame it on love this time love has made you useless

otherwise you would have been something amazing today people i'll leave you with that have a blessed day alaikum is