Falling in Love | Mufti Abu Layth

that's one of these do girls even fall in love au revoir ski blessed are the night oh yes they fall in love so do guys fall in love of course of course people fall in but you see actually it's interesting let me tell you no psychologic our fellow Traverse key over here hasn't had a girl fall in

love with him ish come McCarthy were not to be admitted Allah I'll leave this issue this love has made you useless otherwise you two had great potential that's Trotsky saying even though I look handsome though Trotsky shall we say shall we set you up right here send a

photo we're gonna set you up right yes right travesty going going yep send a photo we're gonna rake you all for it first of all we're gonna all rate you out of ten and then we're gonna gonna have to make it a sale for obviously it's going to a good cause to listen the positive side is it's going to a good cause it's going to me so the money it's it's going to a great cause let you know that it will bring great happiness to my

luxurious adventures right no-win going yep got sold to the new copy in the back there you go well it'll be a little surprise so yeah you know I was gonna actually say about this falling in love thing it's interesting in psychology it goes you know there's been a lot of research done on love and research seems to demonstrate that men actually when they fall in love do so romantically and women like men do so emotionally more often not always but more often and

women do so rationally check that out people but doesn't mean everyone but more so than mature generally speaking that we mean psychological research has shown that when it's like the plane wants is land right here that when they do fall in love they do so rationally like they calculate it and think about it in and then just fall face-first [Laughter] emotionally this is when they do of course and that's what psychological

research seems to show so Trotsky my dear friend soon soon I'm sure well can we go too it will happen it will come Billy said no and this is interesting you know why this is interesting because there's the general stereotype that women are generally emotional more emotional than men and men it's a stereotype that men are more rational than women and this is the kind of stereotype that pervades in society

and whatever the background research to it but I would definitely agree that women are more in touch with their emotions than men now however when it comes to this romance thing men women do so detached from the remote like they do emotionally get involved but they will before getting involved research shows that before they kind of allow themselves to free fall in love there's a lot of reasoning behind it but with men they'll just like a lot of the time crazily but they'll just stupidly fall in love so as

sure a few of the men on here some of the adventures from the past will tell Billy I'm sure you're watching yeah so there you go so that's an interesting thing so next time when people say may say these stereotypes you've got that - for what reasons though but what reasons for reasons my friend that you will not quite fathom for reasons that only a few have mastered don't worry so you need to

humble yourself and we will teach you say teach me sensei and we will say humble yourself all right so I'll be allowed to fall in love though of course of course these things you see religion seems to take a very like a kind of dictatorial stance almost a very controlling stunt but in essence Islam isn't like that you know these things there's nothing to say that Islam it isn't saying hey people go out there fall in love and things like that it's not saying that

but it's not condemning these things either so these things are absolutely fine they're not to be condemned