Guilt Is Poison - Journeying Through Grief - #3MinuteThoughts | Mufti Abu Layth

folks killed now this is one that troubles most people who've encountered profound loss that we weren't there perhaps enough that we slacked that we didn't answer the call we think and and these thoughts can begin to eat

you up from within I wanna share with you the words of Allah that sees hold on to a forgiving compassion

and guide or command with kindness with what is known and avoid talk of ignorance or those of ignorance and the meaning we can take from that verse for those who are experiencing this is that kind that compassionate forgiveness begin with yourself don't be so hard on yourself that's not

the way to look at these things that we could always have been better there's always margin for improvement that you know I could have done this better I could have spent more time there I could have don't look at it like that look at it from the perspective that you did have these moments and the fact that you you're having that reflectionary that reflective voice is in and of itself a symbol of appreciation and blessing that

firstly turn with compassion to yourself and this that turn away from this talk of ignorance here you can take it's a beautiful meaning see Allah he loves you love this compassionate forgiveness so that's something we as humans ought to reflect and we begin with shining The Light Within and then without don't take those thoughts as a loss but they are a huge huge win that

you know there's a a poem I think that as a success Allah bless you all starting to rain a sign of blessing speak soon