Dr. Imran Khan | Roadman culture, Relationship struggles & Roles of Gender | MindTrap with Mufti #7

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those of you may enter on YouTube and Facebook we've got an awesome and awesome episode lined up of mine trap I've got let me just first of all bring on an intro page people tonight's steamed guest they you see right before you people the part man part myth part machine this is doc aka

stealth aka Imran Khan of Birmingham Metro flicks Metroflex Jim a legend in the world of testosterone research medical and health optimization let me just bring him right on people right just watching the whole circus go right so for those of you that are familiar

this dock is usually based between Birmingham and London involved in a lot of community community work really a lot of very well-known incredibly well-known in the community dealing with a lot of a lot of not only just issues that are from the ground up but also at the mind level a TV level conspiracies so right let me just bring up the facebook chat as well so just to make sure so people as we're

just starting off if there's any right if there's any kind of audio issues or anything like that give us a shout let us know if the audio is all good we can if not we can tweak some of the things somebody said he's a giant years a giant this is why I have to be goober goober kind of coach standing six foot six I think or six foot seven

is it six or sixty that was just a guess yes alone and I seem to like you I'm trying to figure that out as well it's like people know you understand that

before we become disloyal it's best that we just part ways people that was the legend Holub himself and as ellipses that queer sabe o Kekaha lacunae Johnny this is Shire torch IP but number Calvino party birthday me Raj Bahadur

most of our viewers definitely understand pretty sure they all usually I'm always quoting who they seem to you understand it das dropping some we had we've got a comment doc drop in some mood to poetry hell people who are people watching this on youtube about 50 people and currently you know we we disagree on probably ninety nine issue

people we have a right to disagree with each other and as I said that the O Bundy's don't like it when the prairies the sufis the Salafis the mother needs the feminists definitely half the guys taxi drivers chip shop owners nobody seems to like me so you know I'm just gonna share this to my other page as

well just as we're going live those of you that haven't seen Doc's page we're going we'll talk a bit about testosterone later on as well we should start talking if you have interests and you should have interests I've already tagged doc page into my previous post so you can find it from there as well Imran Khan but I'm just gonna share this live stream to my other page and then off we go anybody that does have any interesting questions you can send them through or comments but what we'll do is a Anaya

Dean Mufti your biggest fan shukran shukran shukran energy yeah doc Isis scandals neo jenga you know I'm getting when when I get female people catfishing oh I've had so much of that I'm one of

the world you know for me doesn't make a difference Ayanna J we're not in thugs on James you know what can be said more to me you know they brought the alcohol you

know he had a style of his own actually

it's actually very common people aren't grapes natural grapes are natural so why exactly one of these things they are all natural people so why the animosity

MILCON we obsess cemetery if you are on Facebook or YouTube like share if you're on Facebook you can share share it out right so doc what is going on amidst this mayhem Kolby I mean this comedy is becoming it's a bit is obviously serious and for anyone who's lost the relatives I'm not negating the fact it's it's a tragic loss and the death of any other person through a motorbike accident or a

flu or a fever or cancer but you know this and I don't believe in this 5g [ __ ] the fact is this is a virus it's it's a mutation from SARS a novel virus and it's it's happened from the Cronan happens to be called Corbett 19 because it was discovered in 2019 so that must we know we talked about it being man-made and someone's made it in a petri dish and they've released it out into the world and it's then transferred all over the world now from my knowledge it's easy to replicate a cell or clone a

cell but as of today science cannot make yourself you know you cannot make a new cell so within the viruses of the microorganisms well in the lower sort of structure of the of the animal kingdom viruses mutate all the time and there's a figure between forty million and a hundred million new viruses which appear daily most of them will die by themselves and a virus is not really living thing either it has to basically like a parasite have to come into a host it change the DNA it change the instruction so there's no doubt that this corbett exists it's the fact

however it still ultimately is an extension of a flu now just to give you some data and some figures which anybody is more than happy to go up and check and if they want to google it now and check it out what is it wh off in 2018 four million people died from respiratory sword ER so for minute four million four million people died run of this order and it said so this is what they had this is pre copied remember this is pre coded yeah in 2019 I believe six hundred thousand people died in the

UK majority were old they died from cancer a lot about the murders or the sudden deaths or the Amarok stabbings or small in stabbings or whatever this is people who actually died from illness so that works that has been average of eleven thousand people a month yeah now prior to cope with nineteen you didn't keep data of people who had flu-like symptoms so you went to the doctor you you had a flu and off you went so if you just just to give an example if you were to look at January 2018 155

people died 2,000 February 2009 T news to fifty-five and there was actually a question asked why has this flu sort of increased by moths there were four hundred fifty five people dead last year okay okay so if you figure me for amaz figure looking at thousand people died now this not exception to any any other any other sort of year so and that way it's only down to the flu and other diseases basically lungs were slowed up the lining spells up the bacteria goes did you get mucus and you can't breathe

and you die you get respiratory failure now something like ninety six thousand people a year die of respiratory failure something like this sort of figure they die every year so what would be interesting is to see the April figures the end of April compared to April last year they from the previous year so I'm not denying there's not a virus OMA there's no conspiracy there is a virus it's not it's definitely sphere there's 99.1 percent of the people who died had existing health conditions and they they believe that within that bracket that

ninety percent of those people who did die were unlikely to die anyway because of their age now yesterday a die from small youth passed when he's 86 years old he had cancer he also had kind of the liver he'd also had a bypass and on his death certificate it said Kovac I went to the genomic except co-ed now that call uncle was due to you know he was going to die anyway now as of Tuesday the last three days the figures have gone up because the government has said if you were to die now yeah that's what we tried symptom it would be declared as co-lead these are

the guidelines the National classic Declassified it from a highly contagious disease yeah I didn't get that I actually asked a doctor we had on one of the shows this is simply due to mortality rates so basically if you have to learn fire motors in two percent to be considered to be that disease and it doesn't ever have a mortality of that now today and I can read you this letter out this very minute which I'm not going to put the name on but this is a real genuine letter from a hospital and what it essentially says in

light of the current Cobras 19 pandemic try to you be aware that people with significant life-threatening illnesses such as incurable cancer neurological condition such as motor neuron disease etc untreatable heart or lung condition such as pulmonary fibrosis or severe heart failure risk from are at risk from the virus people with these conditions are also unlikely to be offered hospital administration and they would become unwell and certainly will not be offered a ventilator okay I've got the address of the hospital here but this has been scented confidence for Marshall with these conditions the best objects to remain at home and be careful for the family with ongoing support from

ourselves and the community now because the priority has gone onto Kovac so what you've got people who are going to die regardless they are not giving them the treatment they need this is this is [ __ ] important this is really really important so people who may have survived with a ventilator with heart condition won't get it because it probably decoded why the priorities Kovac you need something smarter than me to answer that I don't know it is a financial mercy the men's there's a glob look at Sweden Sweden of all inputs high-risk people into isolation people are going to work etc Germany on the

19th of April is letting people back on the company you've had it you tested positive you haven't got it again go back to work I mean there's an economic crisis going on so now what we have within the Asian community which I have a message from another agent doctor in back I'm not using name but he's gonna get [ __ ] blasted and I said you know so we had a conversation he said the problem is a lot of the Asian community of fact would be diabetic blood pressure and they don't tend to listen visits our uncles fathers mothers with we pretty much can't do anything about it

but they are going to die because they are already unhealthy so if you turn up the hospital pretty much you're going to die now this is a private conversation it's fairly damning but the fact is we do have a lot of illness within the community we do and this is a fact you know the government and every other health agency around the world is saying to people that you know it has a very small mortality rate then we bring a bill people also in Italy why we got 10% people dying in Italy but why we got point six percent in Germany because Germany isolated it the disease earlier they found the people they put certain groups into isolation and it didn't

spread you know it actually didn't spread so because it didn't didn't spread at the pace and it had in London for example or other people then they've got less cases Italy but a lot of old people then which is a very controversial matter which nobody wants to talk about you do have [ __ ] 30 people that they don't wash their hands they don't wash their faces they certainly don't wash their you know the rest of their organs and parts of the body and diseased friends now if you look at any army barracks for example all the military are washing everything that sets in the hygienic you know because so many people living together

disease can spread now Japan has large aging populations why I'm sorry we're not that many people died in Japan so some of this is cultural traits of countries and it's got to be put into perspective you know but all of us aren't going to die it's not going to be absolute chaos it's not going to work that way right the old and weak maybe you could say stasis election you could argue this is the government wants you to kill off all the people or whatever I don't know I mean I can't comment on that yeah you know these are all conspiracies in the theories I don't know but you've got to look at the facts that four million people a year die of respiratory failure

now we have athletes who died professional athletes highly fit but they get infected they died we've had football players on the pitch running around who I'm telling you I've worked with them a lot of money spent on their fitness testing in their houses but the pork I would end up only the hearts like any toys you know you either live when you die there's no middle ground you know and it is what it is what what about all these conspiracies though this kind of you know is this being caused by radiation is this being caused by is this the government trying to an elite trying to capitalize on the world

it's such a secret society that are lodged 155 lunches across Britain and one in what should he's more than which you drive past everyday we're saying Freemason Lodge on there if it's so secretive and so Ilmenau T ish how the hell do you know cuz you know slowly the details about if it's so secretive so clever how does you know buddy now maybe there is something up here because you create a global panic I mean there's something I mean there's definitely people trying to capitalize from the crisis if you look at the art of battles

and the travel walls and the the other stuff which is going on some people have made a lot of money in this and a lot of people Russell everybody of this now so the take away to do the roaring trade but we're not saying this is a take away conspiracy already to so they can make money the stock market speculators will make a lot of money the Bitcoin guys will make a lot of money there'll be a lot of favor to contracts given there's gonna be a new structure world order people are talking about a vaccine remember we haven't got a vaccine for the flu 30th of November 2019 the office of statistics in Britain and people can check this 30 of November send you the discretion shameful that 50,000 people

died these are the flu vaccine we didn't work this was since when the day to do this we watched here last year's data so bear in mind now that we haven't got a cure for the flu how you doing did you get a cure for co-ed and then people say no but this is the first time ever a animal diseases come into humans we forgot about mad cow disease we've learned about swine flu 700 million people in the world had the swine flu roughly you know how many people died about 18,000 we haven't had a single bird flu case since the 2nd of February 2017 it was estimated 50 million people would die you know a

handful of people so the whu-oh has been wrong before how many mune system our immune system is designed to clear out that give you give me a very simple example you know nowadays what these Turkish Bob Latinos I've actually seen you there was my regular go to yeah why is it there for obvious he's not there for attraction

objectives the things of course go now now people are saying you know they washing your hands washing your face washing the feet and then you've got the Muslim saying look this was a disease to the Chinese the Spanish flu back in 1918

yeah I mean this is a fact this is not some great conspiracy the fact is is nothing more tragically than the flu SARS Corona and this is all it is it's a flu most people would be okay the old Informer will get ill as they do every

year so if you look at January February March this year compared to the figures from last year there's no difference in deaths this is normal this happens about 5g the towers of birds are dead on the road but when 4G came out it happened radiation you keep a phone in your pocket but on this future here microwaves you know soon as Phi G come down we're gonna find you so on who isn't plus many independent kind of what

watchdog agencies having stated 5g not to find and the the things you know the fear element that people are saying is that in the Muslim mindset because we've had all these wars and we've had our resources stolen and and lots of killings from Bosnia in the last 30 years you know I've stocked full of we've got this sort of semi defeatist everything is against us so you know we believe in conspiracies and we love the concern all break conspiracies have a bit of truth in they [ __ ] around with a phone which can be tracked 24 hours as to where we are Google Maps simply example

right you're going to Google Maps if somebody's looking for you they know where you already are I think that you know the new feature that they had added we they can locate I think that led up to I think one of the data showed in a particularly in one year up to 50 percent of the divorce cases but I know somebody who actually made a phone call to Paxton and to top someone off she's finally legal as you know sort of

behavior and that guy had called from Pipestone to the guy in Britain that yeah you know cuz the job's done and the guy in Britain got arrested through the telephone number from Pakistan extensive sentence so this [ __ ] already all known she's been around for about ten years in one form or another so why would now you're talking about birds dying very simple fact of ultras if anybody wants at Google something like 90% over of the world vulture population has been decimated in India pack sir and it was bigger the

fertilizer DDT so the little mice and the insects ate the seeds they've got DDT or the animals died the vultures ate the animals and they they died so if you look in packs and anybody who calls their ugly you don't see vultures anymore like we did 40 years ago now this is not see this is just a you ruin an ecological cycle and now speaking of theories and you know looking at the science behind it and stuff like this doc I know you you've also looked into the interesting phenomenon of demonic possessions jinn possessions you and a lot of people contract you to take their

Jenelle I'm known as the Djinn busting Buster okay I don't believe that possess humans and I'm sure you know I don't believe also widely seem to you know depressant you know what I mean there's lots of questions like this and whatever but in this crota think prison the rookie lawyers have furnished the jinns have vanished and the whole Hazama sort of things seems to have vanished you know now you think uh-oh yeah well the jinns run in the last five six weeks no other God has been

possessed by a jinn the krona I mean you're gonna put things in perspective here now with a lot of the people I've had with Jews we've done blood tests on them and we found every single case we found some quite severe deficiencies and very very to be especially lithium you know these like a mood stabilizer kind of thing it's a very crucial sort of chemically the brain and we've found these things to be wrong we also find hypochondria we find abuse unfortunately and I'll give you one case and it's quite a nasty case it's its core it's a it's a person

reasonably well known and who believed that he was being raped by a male jinn so this is serious now that he's not like something you know you've had a microwave this is not more than a nightmare I mean this is okay yes and to make it worse when he'd wake up the jinn wouldn't even be there and that he's being done brutally okay which is not nice in any way Punk now I'm not even trained enough but what that happened

yeah was that he had some psychotherapy he was put under a very light trance if you like hypnosis and it turns out that he goes to gay clubs gay clubs now again you know I don't know what your [ __ ] are but as far as I'm concerned that's wrong you know that's a no-go they I know you've got nasty act

the those orifices have other purposes now what happened was that doing this sort of psychotherapy hypnosis thing he turned out that he's been going to gay clubs and he's sort of hidden homosexual okay yeah I'm gonna closet hidden later and whether you want to call it that so this is his issue so he's having these issues in the gym it was himself imagine this it's kind of manifesting in this role where he's now fulfilling this fantasy of being penetrated in his

visual put up some images in a moment so he now so afterwards when the recording is played to him that this is what he's been saying and this is what he's talking he starts crying and said listen I've been going to date clubs I feel guilty about a wife of my children I don't want to be like this etc and then the inner turmoil which goes with me and the rest of it is is really irrelevant but this is been on jigna now we have in our community we all know we've got severe trauma we've got child abuse you've got husband abusing wise tremendously we've got you

know nowadays some of these girls as well they you know they're abusing guys and all sorts of girls abusing guys what's got a bit of this dog if you've got toxic master [Laughter] interesting topic you know this is it comes to what is it they talking about

gender roles and displaying anger what the [ __ ] is that [Laughter] okay behavior okay you know you

know I [Laughter] [Music]

mean he wants to meet his friend dumb or berry he goes for a meal want some food double berries dead he wants a meal and then he called his chaos you know the copper gives him grief and you had all of these sort of masculine roles today this is no toxic Muslims it isn't it this is no one like men you were toxic and you know John wick is considered to be this top tick you know this modern toxic you know he kills people he's even killed a bird it's called a woman and he

shoots people he does that what the [ __ ] is all this about okay so if you were saying if a guy beats a woman yeah we've got an issue with yeah some is wrong but I'm just putting it out there as well okay and you don't you don't have to be an 8-footer to be an alpha right but we have alpha man like you have alpha primates to give the example orangutangs

is gonna be disrespected oh you know very intelligent animals they live in families that live in tribes and pack and they move around from one place to another place and they come across another band of Wranglers thanks the two alpha male will fight and whoever wins takes the females but they don't rape is interesting what they just battle acclimatize to it is that is that happens so what happens the male will kill the other male fair enough you know he rings or he wins you know that's not

used to be the old days anyway yeah the female willingly breeds with him she willingly breeds with him willfully huh yes willfully now the beaters the weaker male who rape female around the tents the weaker ones are is to kind of show their strength is this nobody compensated anybody wants it in box me I can show you Studies on these countless studies on this okay so in my view my humble opinion here yeah is that you don't get strong guys oh if you for one word that's what you're hitting women because here why would you hit a woman

well you got to prove I mean for example a big guy like yourself I have to quickly put a t-shirt on when you're coming on I was like yeah okay so why would a big strong guy go hitting a woman and woman smaller weaker now you're gonna get sister sin yeah but I didn't keep function in there and I do boxing than that yeah but you know what you don't animal a fight you can get battered if you find a guy that's a fatso don't even sing but isn't that just like in

relation to even when they have boxers fight they fight be equal to a pound for pound you know maybe what by an average bond the loss of average people so if you anyway boxing champion any if you know if Mike Tyson was fighting the equivalent of a woman you know what my father would beat anybody anyway but I mean just any speak it's not gonna happen so you get like I mean that's very tough women fighters as well of course they're tough fighting women when they fight a bloke know they're gonna get hurt and we've already had two cases this happening in the MMA world where women are for men one was put into a

coma and one had a skull fracture what do you think if they were both of equal weight AG world boxing champion at 70 kg male have you got a 70 kg woman the woman's gonna get hurt badly okay and it would be ridiculous to put that fight on and it would be immoral and it'd be wrong and that's that one will get hurt

[Music] wiping up that she wants to find Menace you want to fight yeah I remember that and then said that he'd beat her up and make him make a sandwich okay so now now now as we all know nowadays we're getting lots of reports of women abating man abusing man slapping them you know I suppose the actor good-looking geezer what's his name who the Caribbean guy

you know I don't know the parts of the Caribbean dude Oh Pirates of the Caribbean yeah I know you're talking about but it's missus was beating him up and hitting him and originally he was a cute of the violence now again I'm not distracting from the fact that more men are vital towards women and they are horribly abusive towards Johnny Depp are we talking about Johnny Depp yeah yes so we know that you know generally speaking men you know some men can be very horrible to I mean they can beat them mentally towards them physically torture

that I'm sure you've met many I mean that just to be clear that is utterly despicable and unacceptable just wrong at the same time some of the behavior of women is also there's no nothing that isn't there beating up many customers I think men some of the behavior some of the language this is this whole laddies and sort of culture came out in the nineties and certain segments of our community took it on quite quite quite

happily so the guild sort of became one ninja I call move the car you old [ __ ] I call okay what you were in your car at the time she could obviously see you yeah the giant that you are I mean had [ __ ] just for the record had she asked nicely prior to that move you could do

what a part they now own or TV I lose the car but when she said I want to see who a man is five hook for tramline Travis halfway down his pants and he's like you know he turns up and then he says he's gonna call his money so there was quite a bunch of us so we just sort of might you know larger yard on you know tap their heads to go home you know play with your dog the point is we are seeing we you

know and I don't like this concept that people are sharing videos on what's happened of you know a little fight and exposing people I don't really like these sort of stuff but we're seeing lots and lots of bad behavior in our community you know we are and you know from shisha bars to when you go to different places I mean I remember going to watch one of the fights at the casino I'll get your pardon but you see sisters in brackets drinking there chilling

there partying there because it's a long way people go so you know they're no angels either let's be totally honest about this and this whole mode now of relationships of risk there that blueprint we had before your parents have get married we got married all these sort of stuff it's all changed everything changed you know high divorce rates abortion rate you go to any any STD clinic you're gonna be seeing a lot of Asians there you know Muslims there you're gonna be seeing ended up turning toward like a gathering these sort of things are happy and this is the fact

you know so all of these sort of stuff it's you know this is all very unsavory things happening in the community but do you feel that this has has actually degraded has become worse or is it just more apparent to the eye now as someone who's older it's considerably worse you know everybody will say my time no kind of thing because you know nostalgia always makes things look better much better than they actually are so now I've been dealing with people a long time some of the stuff we hear we saw I've discussed with you other times as well some day on the marriage counseling on the cycle you know on the therapy

sites and the stuff we haze a pawning stuff you never heard before but they say you know a person is as sometimes as as much of a libertarian if you like as his options as the options available to him like would you are you saying would you feel that this maybe people are doing indulging more in this day and age but because we have a greater opportunity to do so you know humans you know just be like you see Birds

yeah Mike is right as such before the parents give you a slap sent you back home that you've married from the village you came back with a baby you know he's wasn't a good thing but this is what they did do you feel those relationships were more more positive than some of them did work something never worked and I think this was luck of the draw the same way as marriage yeah you know it still look at the draw now people are some people are living in very toxic relationships some people are living happily other people are boyfriend/girlfriend very happy for years and they're moving partners as they go along there's all sorts of [ __ ] happening and we know that we know accepted did you feel that lifelong

relationships in this day and age or a thing of the past or they still find a happily married forever like the Disney stories I think they exceptionally lucky I think they are very fortunate and blessed and I think that tolerances are different I've got this this wonderful microRNA in front of me here and this condition on this the condom that the

guy is only allowed to see his parents once a week for not more than four hours Wow uh-oh I wanna I want to see the kind of control freak property focused concerned because assist a the doctor so she has to have a something which suits herself

due to the husband's provide because this is where manipulation cuz he's a man so he has provided she the wife and as we've been told by Muftis searching yourself and so many other nope is this not you see because if you're having it just that way then oddly not limitations on other let's say because if you're saying well you're a man so mine up and provide then a man may say well you know if I'm the man then I'm for example polygamous by nature and I'm such a chance will come to the minute but the thing is this name

is particular in the car now WA you know I was asked to witness it and I said to the guy you [ __ ] crazy so you parents for more than four hours a week so she's a control freak [ __ ] saying that you I can see my mom and dad my family for a week with your freakin permission I mean she adopting him as a son noise she Marie and this is my

perception and you know I don't mean to anybody secure she's now because we're getting highly ether genic man this is my turn highly easy genic man what do you mean by that like castrated kind of man what do we mean by mentally what's this then what's

the distinction the distinction is quite clear you've got some people who are not aggressive they're not brutal they're very gentle they're very nice and they're nice people the fact it may be somewhat effeminate the night in homosexual it's the sort of guy you'd want to marry your daughter for as such these nice guys the bad boys this is the bad boy you're gonna have to pay the price so you know

for a fact I'm taking money off some it

may be 1000 we don't you know send me the inbox but but for example now that particular McConnell if that guy's willing to sign it it's his own fault the same way as a guy who says to a girl listen sweetheart I really love you I really care about you if you loved me you'd have sex with me and then I'm gonna marry you and then she she does that because she's vulnerable and she's weak except accepting what all she wants to have sex as well yeah well she wants

to have sex and you know I've been told quite clearly today to use a particular term which I'm not going to just because some particular person is gonna get highly offended but if to blow adults meet up in a certain place and they get up to son which is Haram and it's illegal and it's wrong and they pay the price for it then they both guilty of it and then you've got this weird fantasy going wrong that you know I can change this guy this guy's the road because this is one of the things that you know the bad boy kind of complex with it comes this project like I will change I

see goodness now what a lot of girls don't realize and I'm on the girls side here ain't we all now a lot of men are predators by Nature and they're not [ __ ] nasty but men are generally bastards I mean he's a very senior guy very intelligent guy you should say the same and men generally speaking are predatory and we do not agent culture when the boy could do no wrong Oh Mira put her eyes

Oh goody-goody we did nothing so when we're living in this sort of culture where the boy can't do any even one of the you know what are these grooming gang lot I had one of the brothers in and he was saying to me listen brother what was my brother supposed to do she came anywhere she was [ __ ] 14 what do you mean she came by you right she volunteers at in the car so would you expect yeah exactly so the point is that you know we're living in it in a

way time where we don't have that position where our parents that is there and they don't have the marriages or the elders they know you need a family for 50 years or 100 years etc you've got probably the first time the girls of that economic freedom in many cases they're more educated and qualified than the guy so they're urging women seem to be drawn to higher education much more than men yeah some of them it's a lot easier so now you've got this sort of vacuum in between and this vacuum exists and this vacuum is called a problem you see it I see it

therapy seen countless a drug addiction ascendancy abuse center seeds you go to any abuse domestic abuse center it's full of Muslims this is a fact the economy is full of them okay now then you've got bills who've run away from home married guys against parents wishes they might have a kid they've been abused so the whole thing is a mess I mean and then you how many people do you know Oh system I'll be doing your bully those that give this desire in Islamic veneer pretending to be holy or let me let me assume this gin from

you after marrying you know in my soul I didn't you know he sacrificed his own to be gods and tempting the cars and which I know again you give us some dodgy crap you see but doc I've been very clear on condemning secret marriages but saying that okay I have said I don't believe muta to be Haram but I've said that you see mater at least is where people are open and transparent with each other they're not deceiving they're not kind

of saying well like a guy says to a lady look I'm gonna marry you I'm gonna take care of him after the weekend he disappears [Laughter] Wednesday is that okay

if a guy is saying to somebody the advice to the sisters or say oh you know I want to marry you meet his parents you know because once you start the whole dating cycle you know it gets dangerous and you know many of us have been there and you know will not all be the Angels in the past and all sorts of things or you know people it's all gonna end up in tears yeah but a woman could ask and and quite rightly asked that look how do you expect me to get to know this person to some extent okay one could say how could we truly know anyone but to some extent unless I meet up with him and I do these kind of things like like how do you know like

just because you got married okay let's just tell you you're a modern move the argue you better earring when you met your wife what happened I would say you see what I go with is that this is my personal rule forget what you go with this is what I'm saying I go with the fact that some of the best decisions in life are taken impulsively okay so I feel that and this for me as a person works like I would not I mean I I don't mean in on the spot but very soon within

within a few days within a few weeks that's it I've made up my mind I I don't like you know like people feel that all I want to do before you got married me a couple of times yeah okay and you've got kids mashallah you're happy and about about that hit if I blink twice now the fingers of that so you've got guys and

I've seen this in counseling and couple will come to me and you know with the Sharia counseling and all this lock you know they've been dating for two or three years a lot of a lot of people are so indecisive as well like and they don't want to act on conscious they say then then why are they getting married is it in this ice you come off in it I mean this is a life decision like buying a car you can sell it tomorrow or should I get a Samsung or should I get an Apple phone this is marriage kids babies you know [ __ ] important stuff yeah twenty days I mean I was really stressed out

when I bought my car I wanted that over quick I was like I'm getting really stressed up this is as difficult as trying to get into a relationship this whole this whole thing now is you know I don't know but what I'm saying is that we're seeing more and more destruction within our community from prison figures to domestic abuse to rape to child abuse to all sorts of horrible things so what but we're not seeing this in the Sikhs what I see this in the Indians we're not

seeing in the Chinese what makes us distinctive in this and you see that brings me to an interesting question we've discussed this previously and you've got thoughts on it but I see as you do this kind of roadman culture so amplified within the Pakistani community within the UK which I don't see equally reflected in necessarily all the other let's say like the Indian communities or things like this and these are young Pakistani men which do not come from broken homes they do not like usually they've got mom and dad living together in fact they're not even generally speaking poor like they're okay

like usually they've got you know Pakistanis seem to kind of pull together a reasonable amount of money now what is it and then a lot of women struggle with this because they want they don't want to be married to this kind of road man I mean what is it that's going wrong doc yeah well I think I'm gonna get blasted here we turn over a fact so this is an AJK issue partially okay like a mere body thing well I would mean please a very generic term it's okay I'm me as well look what we've got

I mean there's a kid who shot some in the face used to train in our gym and I'm not talking this kid and I said so didn't your dad say anything and he said listen I'll build a goatee for my dad impacts then why would he care I quoted why would he care I thought the Coty so the dads were recording it okay sitting with his mates put the court in I end up my prisoner now the thing is but it's gonna be asked if your isn't working and he's got a 25 grand Carla 30 grand [ __ ] where's the money come from I mean that's surely not unreasonable they'll take a genius to work that out yeah so our community isn't doing it the

same way as our community if something happens if a guy is a if a guy gets divorced it's like ah no big deal you can get married again a girl - guest of what she's tarnished you know we have a lot of you poppies in our community I'm not saying it's the right thing I want to say it's a wrong thing but it is factually right and we do need to look at Aachen look at prison rape anybody who's watching I don't know how many people are watching just google the prison rates of packs any people in prison over the last 15 years it's basically it's gone rocketed there's a massive correlation absolutely look at Violent Crimes and you see us throwing

up look at education figures are going down why why is this social cultural factors come into this you know we've got this the old people work hard as [ __ ] they worked in factories of working shops yeah my dad worked in kids they work too much do they they didn't they didn't under their kids the only holidays you had was going to Pakistan he didn't have any the holiday he was going to Pikes are stuck in the village you know with a bunch of cotton you didn't know so maybe they released this is another massive huge topic but the point is that our community is falling

apart mental health issues now I've never suffered from anxiety or depression so I don't really know what what that is you know again that's a different thing altogether there's sadness and the depression and anxiety they stress you have to have some sort of stretch to function you wouldn't it for you you know you have to look at this whole Corbett thing it's stressful say no more they doing jack there's like this or taking up the offer from the premium offer from pornhub is it [Laughter]

optimize your time hands-on approach to life the thing is that there are lots of things going wrong within our community we're not addressing it from relationships you'd manage it to divorce to all sorts of factors roots are going wrong with it now this this actually started off with toxic masculinity and I think one of the problems is within our community the sons are sinless they cannot do anything wrong mana Patricia's our buyer mara pataga would evil tinea you know cootie was bad

luck up try out what's up the sewer so this is one thing mommy's little soldier mommy's little warrior mommy's little you know he can't do anything wrong so it was always some waste where's the dad in all of this because it's not like Pakistani families generally he's working a party I mean we do have this culture and you see this in a lot it's you know who would you rather upset okay let your mom with your dad they would you roll up say okay my dad would beat

the [ __ ] out of you but the point being that you know moms are sort of ruling to a certainty that they do in Pakistani households moms do and which I call it like a reverse people sort of complex the boys relationship with his mom is very closer there's nothing wrong with that there's nothing wrong with that whatsoever because he's got a wife he's got kids he's gonna do that as well don't you feel of this relationship that you're speaking about now is one of the major causes to destroy relationships

that conflict and the sauce will always win some wise man once said you can always get another wife you can't get another mother but do you feel that people who do marry should even be living at home shouldn't they kind of live separately start their own roost kind of thing yes sir no bro okay me then I will leave them okay but I mean what about setting them up because not living with them doesn't equate to not taking care of them no no it doesn't

at all but what I'm saying there's it's also unreasonable for the girls you know to expect the guy to be totally away from his parents as well you taught me away like that make a certificate of it you can call for four hours is closed out crazies young it has to be four round it can't be more mean I don't know and I'm surprised that's a qualified educated lady lots of these around there are lots of these things around there are lots of things set up you have to buy me a house why does it get so hard to get married nowadays before it's impossible buying a house

for young people anyway a bit of food and you imagine you look back to work the next day if you parented the good old days the same sort of with his wife to sit down together neat look at a thing with a cook shut immunity I mean it was that sort of youth so you've been extremely strict to to something laps but also now financially you know but we really been

extended family then you've got girls will be divorced and they've got previous kids I mean this divorce thing with thinks a high high influx really of kind of like Muslim divorcees maybe from late twenties to late 30s even on maybe into their 40s high divorce rate like a high despite like a spike of these now what is these women often struggle to then get into relationships because many of them have kids from previous and many men ain't really interested in a relationship I mean you know as

unfortunate as that is but that seems to be the reality on the ground or some people say well what about polygamous relationships in these situations what is the solution or is there a solution is there no solution what is the thing is this here I'm gonna light up a cigarette now so you know well the thing is this look if you've got if someone's got kids what what is this show you ruling if a woman has two sons and the father also wants to they get divorced and the father wants two kids what are these ruling and who's about the children okay so generally there's kind of

Islamic guidelines but there's always they can be a case by case scenario but the general guidelines what they call this falls under Habana they call it like audience if and Ivana by default if the children are small is with the mother so she's seen as more apt to kind of like nurture them and bring them up and then as they start to have some maturity there's a difference of opinion amongst the scholars some say let me write the mother some say that okay now they should go with the father especially if they're boys because in that day and age they said the boys could learn a craft they could kind of if they're carpenters they could pick it

up from their dad they also felt a lot of them discussed classically and these big books are classic they discussed that most likely because in that day and age remarriage wasn't that much of a problem you know they said that when the woman remarries the stepfather by generals their studies showed that they were harsh to their stepkids so they said in these circumstances they would be better protected with their own father so so these kind of discussions come into it now now you told me yourself as I learn it mostly apparently I mean you know you've got certificate

and all these sort of stuff I bought it sisters and girls would give up the kids to the father even if he wanted them not many's day but I think regardless of slim even non-muslim women generally by and large I think that kind of maternal instinct with their children is so strong they wouldn't give up the children within certain countries now so if a guy as you take someone else's children on okay it is difficult for him it's not easy for it it's very difficult isn't it like I mean being honest is

you're not my dad exactly okay this is a very very harsh reality and I've seen it a hundred times you know so that that it's you know you know my dad who the F are you tell me what to do and then let's say you've got a dead the children's dad is a bitof nasty beast of a fella let's imagine he's a big six foot six and she's not remarried no kids living with some other man now yeah but this is a problem of him it's not my problem no it's not these children so these are

natural conflicts plus I think this day and age is so sensitive like imagine you know with your own children sometimes they could annoy you for example they could be making a racket making a noise they could break something they could they could be touching something they're not meant to be touched they could be kind of damaging things your work files other things and you could kind of shout at them you might kind of like just as a reaction to stop that or do this or do now imagine that with somebody else's kids it would be a whole different

sometimes when you up but you don't kid you tolerate that these are these are so then if if you have the issue but you've got somebody who for whatever reason may want to marry another wife and that's like what me me become polygamous you know be a cold wife I think other say you know what who's after that guy think he's got to while it's really here you know are there these many numerous times okay I advocate okay you know

Lord the jugular and you know people didn't get upset or whatever it it may even be a necessary evil if you like okay and there's various reasons for it but you know what and I'm this countless academic studies as well you know you can argue if men are polygamists or not but then what do other women say to the co wives you know how can you tolerate this how can you let your man wherever these terms come from your men go up and do that why don't you leave him why don't you do this why don't you do that so you know the sisters can be the

sisters own enemies if you know what I mean you know what she can be a [ __ ] a [ __ ] then a [ __ ] then it's that not the woman projecting her own insecurities onto another woman and they by feeling because she fears that maybe her future husband or whatever might have a polygamous relationship thereby warning off other people who like illogical thing so the polygamist man becomes the hunted man these three wines he's but whatever to know half why had one point eight wives whatever it is right so he'd become the evil count in

that now I want to give you a story you'll remember this do you remember a few years ago impacts on there was that woman where she try this out for the rail tracks and with her two children if it's a horrible tragic story and this would be Lonnie Lonnie was prime minister and basically landlord said give me sex and you know I'm not gonna charge you rent she's an honorable woman and the bizarre he ended up killing herself and her two children she's been to the muscle for helps it reads there's God committee to help everybody needs in poverty and it became a national issue and obviously as you know the automark are reactive there are no fun there

anyway when it's a bit of publish to your let's give us some nice to the homeless or you know oh such crap like this yeah and now even the prime minister the government they set up these funds for these women all these sort of stuff that she ended up killing herself because she couldn't feed herself or her children and she would have gone into profit and the guy had offered a prostitution essentially now if a man was to have married her okay and supported her then it wouldn't have been a problem she would have been supporting the kidron a father but the responses are from the city so you could just give them money as well but you have just

given them money but those kids still need a father they still need a father figure they still need somebody so this whole argument to be honest is get it for me it's very very weak so then you look at for example again I'm gonna use a bad word here prostitution if there was no need for prostitutes if they didn't have the customer base there will always be a need for sex yeah absolutely oh now for whatever reason if somebody

[Laughter] somebody has more needs in one partner if a woman has a right for at a lark if the husband can't satisfy her or is unable to perform she had the right to get a divorce she does yes she has that right and it's no big deal yeah I mean I do I think we had a question on here the other day about a husband having a micropenis and the woman wanting a divorce yes yes I mean that was entitled to that's an absolute short-shorts fraud

situation extension the base in Harley Street cost about fourteen grand but he can take candy I'll put him into the right person people if you're watching if they're eyes watching reach out to doc now what you've got is you do have men who's that low testosterone I've had men come with their wives and the wife is saying you know what I haven't had any interations with my husband for a long time and he's sitting there like a bit of a you know I don't need a red puss up but

he's like a big brother and she's saying you know and she's encouraging the blood test and she's encouraging the testosterone treatment nothing wrong with that a good fruitful relationship this is this is nice pleasant it's all very because testosterone is essential for for men I'm your specialist it is that crucial now at the same time when we have that problem you also got problems where the women may not have the same desire or

the activity levels in compatibility no that's a different thing you've got some people who may have a higher drive than others yeah just started off with a call we didn't it it always ends up now in that situation and we've heard this I've heard this within Pakistan and other places the woman doesn't have an issue if the guy's got a girlfriend but the day he marries

her she's got an issue with that what is that all about I've come across these cases as well by the way I have no idea so she doesn't mind him dings enough she had a problem with that know this absolute crap I had a case in front of me once where there was a couple and they were discussing and and and they said you know and he had a another woman who and he'd been going on for a few years and she had then eventually busted it and she was now aware of it and it was still in existence kind of on/off for about six months and his solution was look okay

how about I just do in my car with her and I I'm there only two days and here let's save four days or five day however ease but her like she wasn't happy with it but she said but even more unhappy ish with the fact that he has any hair with her you know even if he stays like this but he can't sleep there he can kind of go there but he can and I I couldn't fully understand the the kind of thought process is going on the I mean what I mean the thing is because it's some it is cultural you've got families like Yemeni families and Sudanese found either way is traditionally there's

there's polygamous marriages in the found on its it's no big deal okay back home I mean he was at he went to his father's wedding today my my granddad but back then I thought there was the odd person that did do it and it was kind of the norm to some extent not norm but it was an uncommon if I put it like that I think this is where the secret synchrony with lots of guys you know and I know who's got a secret wife on the side okay and then you've got

kids with somebody was to happen you know surely is better for it to come out and then the insecurities okay women possessive you know well freakin lines have prided with me I want my lion I'm looking for my lion all day he's four or five or six female cats go out front

bring it to him and he produces babies and do much that's why the king of a jungle he's not optically faster alright he's got a lot of hair okay it's pretty good but he doesn't really do much so it's this concept you know it's possessiveness but in the society really there's a need for this then it's a definite need because Shirley's weddings enough of cool again you might come up with some [ __ ] things you know a long tomorrow I don't know I mean my thing has always been about avoiding deception avoiding giving people you see whether relationships work out or not

but people shouldn't be kind of trying to con other people into things because what they're doing is they are then damaging the mindset of that individual for any future relationships so many women are very distrustful of a lot of men and maybe rightly so but there is this culture and then sometimes that leads to another culture a subculture of man-hating which I don't which I'm sure you've experienced or come across you've

come across it okay and one day you know they'll get married and you want them to have a good happy happy life okay you want any bring them up to the best of your ability but again I'm saying this but is that the way some of the girls are themselves as the guys are I'm not picking on girls out or not picking on guys here but for example you know you can go out star city or whatever to three o'clock in the morning and you see all of the crap

nowadays this is the future mothers and the future fathers you go you see what I said one could argue isn't that in everybody's life cycle that they you know they go through an eight phase-- of immaturity and then they mature [Laughter] you're nicking the few apples from the shop or buying a single cigarette this is like a bit more serious I mean you know sometimes I've run you up on on some cases we've had and they want an islamic thing and I've rung up other scholars as well on certain issues and

some of them can be quite grim I mean cases of you know swinging parties and all sorts of horrible stuff we've seen absolutely yeah I mean there are whole swinging connection clubs some we're gonna share one of the links since oh it's locked down depravities happening as well and the consequence is a human price smugglers the problem for the girl you know psychological problems with a guy anxiety depression lack of trust all sorts of behaviors going on and you know it's like you got a for a

better word keep it real I mean they say stuff going on there which is causing bigger a lot of fit not a facade a lot of strengthen of tension and mainly what will somebody say yeah the society say what would people say and isn't it sometimes doc don't you feel that people you know with this kind of virtual world that exists this kind of like picture-perfect world that everybody's chasing that you know I'm gonna have an ultimate goal of a marriage and I'm gonna spend eighty thousand pounds on this wedding day and when they do get it now what and then that when the book when the boredom kicks in or the

mundaneness that is highly problematic I mean is that would you feel that's a feature I mean I saw the newspaper was somebody sitting on a tank and forties wedding a tank a military tank thank you okay yeah Oh actually I think I didn't and barely took his weight but he was you know people are spending and putting themselves into debt huge amounts of money for weddings because you know if

Bollywood a very dramatic head down for sixteen hours in the Sun mother fainted and it all got very dramatic and then she was shooed away that she came back through NATO and mother assault which relief she's nowhere from this horrible guy and it took about five years before you even talk to each other no I mean I'll beat your winning which you know with a bride and groom at dancing and all okay it's great you know turns you on it's all very happy and happy clappy DP'd a piece of a share if you think that stuff

this is great I'm happy for you majority of it ends in tears in tears you see for me it's not I mean I I find those some of these practices strange and overdoing it but and that's a personal tasting I get that if people want to do that for me it's more the investment that people because these people struggle to put down as much money as what they could be buying a property for example into a wedding day which is then over and and I you know I deal with so many people they they look into sometimes they you know they're going through relationship

issues and it's just it's been 12 months or under yeah because and you've gone are the days of this yeah I mean the thing of I was gonna say that the simplicity but even from the aspect of here Anika I saw Hamilton that the best of nikka's are the one most simple in the kind of costs in setting them up

would say now the other thing is this is where another problem is you've been going out with each other for example exactly the quartering process three years you've already been into that you've now got married and now he's been two three years you've known each other you already had pre marriage fights yes so if there's nothing what's left for you is a charm charm is that for you now you've been that you seen the t-shirt you you had it all what charm is left so now you're actually married and and before we you had a mask like so when

when you met each other you were looking your best being your best being kind of joyful and then you went away you had your own places to go take a breather now you're in each others face all the time not always in your best moments in many cases sharing under the same roof as other people causing more problems just the dynamics I mean whether the people are causing problems or not but the crowd element is so illicit and again I'm not encouraging any illicit behavior there's a charm to it isn't it it's exciting you're you're

gonna meet up twice a week or you know you're gonna go somewhere it's all mystery the whole charm with the excitement of it you're right now you're married you're seeing that face every freaking you want your full bright in the morning you want your six eggs you want you team up but you forgot now that she can't make it you know there's all there's all these things of the drive and demand as a sort of domesticated wife to a certain degree some of them do but she doesn't like to make a fried egg it's going to be a problem she got made a problem but today now you're seeing it that

charm is gone so for the first couple of weeks is great you go to Bali or wherever you go now adays your people see this are diggity but I mean is there a you see is there a are they some solutions are there are they no solutions are these just indefinite human problems or they you couldn't have

made it slightly more optimistic the paper yeah I have no faith in humanity whatsoever it's all doom and gloom for me yeah I mean I have no faith in humanity well you know we're a vile bunch of people we oppress the weak money's become God every crime and lie to make money you know so remember this pact said with the people we don't let somebody war across our land you know we don't let certain minorities drink water from the

world this is a fact isn't it this is reality so for me if you're asking about faith in humanity no I don't if I've got faith in the younger generation about mercy in a manner guide them it's all doom and gloom to me I think it's if you survive very normal without anxiety or stress or some sort of mental disorder which again is another complex issue personally I don't have that I think it's all doom and gloom and especially growing up in a society like this and over sexualized society and over materialistic society as a society based not upon you as an

individual your values a pound pounds and cars and clothes and how you look and what your images and so should we do destroy all of this well it is I mean I I personally like to take a slightly more optimistic look at life although I can't deny what you're saying the struggle is real it is scary when I think kids growing up not just kids but when I think about teenagers today or younger adults today I think in many ways thank God I'm not at that age now like I feel that like I don't know what I would have done with all this you know because everything is being recorded

everything is being it's like Will Smith said you know he said yeah I was an idiot as well when I was a teenager but you know nobody was there to record it but social media is is now the mob it's a mob mentality yeah so I remember there was a time video raised that woman in her bikini was praying solo you know whoever filmed whoever released it it read global now you know it was absolutely ridiculous so you've got a mob mentality now people sharing all the world slagging that woman down

criticising they're ripping into her you know whatever they're doing rightfully wrong what she's doing so you've got a mob mentality though you make for mistake so it's also so yeah you know we've all done things in the past you know there's been acts of violence and all sorts of you know shenanigans which have gone in the past there was no cameras they recording it now it's been recorded it's been broadcast in your face it's everywhere and the social media has become a mob mentality lest hear that guy apart let's tear that girl apart just think for a minute it was your sister or your daughter or your brother or your father you know where is the mercy rule and again I'm not you know

I'm not the most spiritual ever out on the sand is all Sufi Larkin this whole you know I don't understand it right but the point is is that you know you'll rip in a part somebody I mean there's so many we hear of these stories of especially you know ladies or young girls who will be you know performing let's say some kind of sex act somebody's got around camera at the time on many occasions knowingly like she knows she's being recorded doesn't mind later on that is being released online

and even though there is legislation now about revenge porn and stuff like this but this is ruining the lives of so many say the society we live in that [ __ ] legislation means that girls ruined isn't she yeah she's finished give the guy a 60 pound fine no I didn't tell you a case of somebody who I know who s used to work for me and this happened to her to her daughter and visit was paid to this particular guy by some very nice people it was explained

in a very nice way that you shouldn't do this and then a similar thing was done to him and it was recorded just for the sake of science and for research purposes for research purposes and and said right if this comes out and this is gonna come out for you and nothing ever came out and that guy even what he seemed today from a long distance from far away he put his head down he walks off because he nobody - like that now if I'm not supportive or advocating any type of vigilante Jersey this is my story and god forbid and this this story was narrated to me by

anonymous authentic Salafi thoughts exactly so you know but this is what was said and but the matter was dealt with with a certain matter but you know people do make mistakes y'all make mistakes and boys make mistakes if a girl makes it she has to pay a heavy price for it in our culture she has to pay a heavy price for it if a guy does it his accuser is a lad no big deal okay and this is extremely toxic so if you're talking about toxic masculinity this is the only example I can give up the rest of these men are men men are supposed to break like me you know that's what men do their men

[Music] may Allah make things easy for anybody who has children every day but they come from colleagues or uni you worry more for them than I think I'm period of course I actually do believe that is the case I think our parents in that day and age it was just like this kind of like strange neglectful - what cool it was like yeah they've gone they'll you know when they go school they go much they come they'll be back for no reason for

no apparent reason you just learn you know like people must've been thinking one of these packing kids doing this running around like idiots there's nothing else to do somebody had a know Craig somebody had a past somebody at the ball and you trach Ricky and then you went home and you had your food you went to sleep but these massive issues today with God I mean on social media you know this mob mentality it's like a curse it's this massive global I was sitting in some right in the middle of a pinned bro no way middle of a bid and so it is sitting on the roof and the guy's dad got some new pants oh did he go there so the kids run on the phone

in the middle of pain no way into websites where did you ever have that before we've got this new phenomena or you know 10 15 years old phenomena social media everybody's on their you know selfies this disease and then one of the other things if as someone who's also understand psychology you know when you look at at your pulse and feeds in the morning and when you troll people and give them abuse which is the normal thing social media you put down highly needed a lot I don't need nothing else

now and the predator know the predator picks that up that she's single I just had my children I don't have anybody else you know the people wrong me and I will give them justice and they're putting up these little sad very needy type of posts up and the predator guys are picking this up and it become the game of numbers you send 50 messages now two of them will reply back you know so these are the things I mean this is social medias put people into a position they never way before it's a scary thought I'll be honest with you I've

never felt more freaked out about something when it comes in relation to let's say my own children or their future as things like social media I just think down because it's something that you can't ultimately protect or shelter from it's it's just there and it's a mad world at home in four walls it's a protected world meet people of all types and colors and sizes and all sorts of things horrific situations we hear horrible stories and you never hear

those stories is very rare to hear a good the people come to me so is it you know you're not gonna be perfectly healthy mentally or physically and then come to me why would you come to me for you've got an issue and the issue is always bad and I mean some of the issues we some spoke with you about inform and some of them are appalling issues it's shocking you can't believe it and you just go for me praising younger you know mellow have mercy on this person is suffering but someday they've bought um for isms for themselves they're too stupid to realize that donate you know people are too dumb to realize that the

whole there digging a hole I mean that said dark I mean just to that I I do agree with all of these things and I even highlight my concerns in saying look these kind of things do freak me out but that said this this kind of tying together the entire globe through the these through the internet through this kind of social world has also brought about many magnificent things I mean it's it's kind of also United many people it has also kind of turned many you know people have from rags to riches stories people have from you know the

meeting relatives to making friends to another chapter in human history do you feel it's all great people always got way before I mean we were in Australia countdown this is great and this is for all those roles you've got thorns as well and those thorns I think there's even a point by which I think I can't remember but it was something about I [Music] think the English of it was that

remember friendly beautiful roles when withers away there's only thorns left what a beauty admire you if the utilize that way but a lot of it isn't you twice that weight and you know communication is fantastic you can send an email to anyone around the world and you get results back and studies back and also today I'm like libraries and fantastic things but at the same time they're paying the price for that we're paying a bit I mean you've had suicides of

bullying on the internet if I was you know and Muslims acquitted suicide issue so you've got a horrific bullying yeah I mean this is not restricted to any faith you've just got all kinds of people unfortunately but would would you not still feel that the message of positivity still preponderate and overcomes the negative would you not still feel that Wow you know pipi pipi like look at us we're doing this right now

real big I mean is it well I mean look at the faith in humanity that even pornhub has given free premium memberships out to people hungry and you're giving essentially free

masturbation with a smile on your face it becomes no I mean look I mean I'm now I'm gonna give all the brave a shot at me the sort of shoe you see that 20 years

ago now we see in people's windows but we don't used to see that before did we now know Chinese making them we see it so the kids because of normal for them this is their dad's in it so we're going to do it now with a lot of this crap it's normalizing itself it's all becoming relatively normal and it's only going to get worse you will have that nice box and you have beautiful people in there and very moments and there will be a bit of joy but as a collective I

don't have any any hope for Humanity non resolve seen no lights at the end of the tunnel doc no no it's obvious this darkness the journey and every day to a better life exactly if I see I don't see anything getting better for humans not at all let's quite a few people have been commenting and posting some questions let's take some of the questions stop let's take a look people are saying dark smokes tobacco everyday in this right there yet so

let's take the UK's a pressure cooker commenting on that I mean yeah but I believe all societies would be I kind of pressure cooker in that sense here's a question brought in by Z bar saying are couples in marriages cut are couples in marriages but have been sexless for over six months to three years or more now are they islamically already divorced but not legally so right I mean so there's two I think that's a two-part question the one the Islamic side well it wouldn't constitute at the lock straight away the absence of intimacy

doesn't but the other is the question on the nature of the relationship itself doc what do you think about these kind of done but if they're both happiness excess marriage then fine I mean if they're happy if one partner isn't happy if it's a hormonal issue on both sides of the sigh transmission then they do need professional help I have access to female counselors and male counselors who can help them with that and there is there is a a syndrome where people do have an issue of the intimacy it does exist you know and this

is from a guy like me saying it who doesn't believe it a lot of airy-fairy rubbish you know this or stuff but in some people they have an issue with that and that can be resolved but if they're happy with that that's cool no okay no I mean it doesn't have to always be about that right okay let's take a look doc people are saying that your cynicism really speaks to to them we've got a comment to your saying it really speaks to him

somebody else had commented saying dunya has just been canceled from data if you you know I believe in data statistics and figures I can give you figures until the cows come home you know I did a study which was okay

because okay more than happy to it's done showing this figure data for

example you know I mean together this is pink it's still [ __ ] green save as it is that's so you know the koi data

should prove you know plutons right I would say still but you see you can't paint everybody with the same brush but still we work on figures so if you were a hundred people and 90 people say something we say the measure don't we don't we sure I mean I do go with but I haven't got that data yet that all of them are necessarily bad people

right so the question here what do we thought on a suicide this morning there was a suicide doc I don't know if you saw this from Austin I mean someone said it to me I didn't even open it there's no reason for people to share the video it's disgusting it's somebody's child I love to give making easy fries probably somebody's asked about tattoos I mean you're right you know my opinion he's

got a few right there there you go is practicing already even before I moved in the sound in shopsite some of the other people he actually gave the lecture where I was graduating you know my body the the body lecture time there and he'd seen them and he said to me you have a class at them in the car today I said bus yard show in the mail AHA a nice little Haram and he said look it's not something good but they're definitely and voodoo can happen and

also can happen not that I'm gonna start encouraging people to go get tattoos right but they've done that done it is what it is you know but shoot me right somebody had asked a question about you doc you specialize in TRT just a few words on what is this somebody had asked and why is this important have it men also have it women have a small amount the men have testosterone testosterone is 80 percent of it is produced within the to use a bad word the testicles 20% is sort of not

testicles is not bad sensitive it's for muscle for bone for mental health cognitive health it's completely needed and as certain men age their testosterone levels drop we should affect their libido as well as their physical condition and their mental health and stress it's linked with depression as well as an inmate overwhelmingly okay now that doesn't mean every depressed person has low testosterone but one of

the reasons can be that that's testosterone if we take out the libido and the sexual side of it what's left in life but yes what you've got muscle bone I mean there's 77 diseases which are caused by low testosterone including cardiovascular disease now these are testosterone is extremely important in men it's fundamentally important in fact it's probably the crucial home yeah okay and we all need it and so in many cases that you've come across there's been

individuals who not unaware of their testosterone levels but they've suffered from certain symptoms and and pretty much I can be fairly accurate the guys at low testosterone by his gauge by the way he walks by the structure by the physique shape so if you've got skinny

arms skinny legs and a big belly this generally means you've got loads at the very generic rule it means it's no testosterone if you find out let's say if you go to the gym as you Jim herd roam around Emporium I do but it's shut right now I'm so dirty I know I was trying to Dale today I'm gonna have him on the show on Saturday hopefully soku yeah but carry on sorry now we've got our own jib so we don't you know we could still train but now if for example you've been training and for no reason but you're getting weaker you're not recovering this club this is so what the GP will generally say when he know someone comes to Jim he always a huge steroids

steroids steroids Big Bertha Kyle's training is more cheated with his body he knows that for no reason he's getting weaker and you'll find it Jamie due to low testosterone people think properly they can't they can't they have a lower sexual drive and just to be clear they usually don't get erections or things like this it's not previously so what what is trt then for this therapy and their different folded from is legit this is not steroids just for people

don't ease now it can be from passage to injections to gels okay and it just brings you back up to your normal levels that's what it does and you then would monitor that over like completely you know legally within the guidelines except for their we monitored you know we can wait a little bit we have some deviancy but kind of like every let's say quarterly or every so often you check their bloods and you see you know we try to help people out financially if they're unable to do it

pay for it you may pay certain exceptions we can make etc but generally speaking what you'll find is an oscillation a lot of marriages and I mean I'm talking about a lot and I've had you know it's not easy in our culture for a woman to come with her husband to my clinic so a guy like me my husband this is the issue it's not so this is if she does and I commend her for that you know I actually write that because they you know they want to keep their minds together they want to get to the bottom of a maybe is it is she saying what he's just not got a sex life or

he's what you're saying basically yeah she just couldn't they just take a question couldn't they just take Viagra [Music] everybody and sometimes it's not even because the viagra although it may enhance the erection and things like this but with the it's not necessarily the libido is it the actual drive and the instinct let's say you've got mr.

a and he's very to mrs. a and he's unable to perform with mrs. a but he's okay with friends B or fancy sometimes like a novelty effect do this home but there I'm okay and that's where they need counseling and I'm not one of these guys categorically that you need counseling for everything okay a broken or falling

need counseling you know need counseling I mean that but they are some genuine cases but people do need to serve do they need counseling to actually become a self-aware and self-awareness is very important you've got to be aware of yourself your limitations and who you are and what you are well I'm not going to his home he'd be happy clappy deemed everybody seems to be sad that kind of culture the [ __ ] world of course is say people

fighting over toilet paper for tea anybody'd be sad lugubrious we said but but the data shows when people take testosterone it does brings their life back into it's not gonna cost you any more expensive than that but it it

depends on how what you consider expensive you go on a four grand holiday and you think that to be reasonable anything to grandiere to be expensive then so basically within a few grand a year you could know because these things cost that just to be clear that that's the actual cost of the because you know take drugs money nurses customary the romantic get a prosthetic am i right that customary we may have money we did you find out your testosterone cost

money and then monitoring the blood and then this done for a whole year on several occasions it's not something which is exponentially powerful no and why do you do these Bloods you usually check on all other or many common deficiencies done of course we have to look at other women their kidneys basically a prostate is okay your holographic doc you never check my prostate you should have told me I would

have come back right let's take a look at some other questions so somebody's ever sent in another question sugar and Szabo for the support she's sent in your thoughts on trans men who turn into women but have no rooms can't get pregnant and trans women that turned to men but can't get a woman pregnant you seen actually mental

disorder is very simple it's based on chromosomes or either manual or your woman and the biology is very simple so if somebody has already switched if somebody wants to switch if somebody has already switched can't they get change back well unless you the girl penis no no they just reverse the penises

for the first image 16000 the second surgery was what's that male to female or female to male he decided he would when he saw the bill or just I don't anybody says is that really ridiculous no okay this is farcical it's go you know a nine-year-old kid putting the dress on in his mom you know a gender or whatever this is ridiculous it's pathetic just you know this is a stupid little Western concept of of freedom and what you said

you rush mind everything you make it free and 20 years later become the norm it's absolutely ridiculous and I feel sometimes that what's mixed-up is maybe as an element of curiosity with a social kind of pressure on go for it kind of mentality as so so let's say like you've said there's been all kind of cultures historically some people let's say they're growing up they dress up as girls sometimes they play these games sometimes as girls or girls as boys but now what would happen or even if they got curious you'd have a society that would without pressuring them pressure them to say you know wait no go for it live

do this do this and I was just reading an article the other day about a teenager that had this I think she had a male to female and she was saying that I should have actually been stopped because I regret it they three approaches well you can buy test transforms the blog now I deal with certain women athletes who take testosterone never see the good result of the enemies what do you mean by that bodybuilding or for performance from the voice deepening to the facial hair to psychological problems to full-blown

masculine features so this is I mean you know it's not wrong it's frankly someone have to say it's not on and you know I know of doctors and I know G generally like specialists who are compelled by their access to do what they're doing but they don't even believe in what they're doing you know and the problem is is everyone's got a major a cousin or someone who knows someone in some place whatever I mean this is a professional working and I haven't seen a single positive case out of it I even spoke to a male power lifter who wore a dress who actually wore a dress and he said to me

I would a male blood has done what the father you were in a dress for then you're just a big power lift in the dresser he wants her what tests done he wanted a male profile this is the male when he considers himself to be a female but he wants a male because he's got his you know he's male organs yeah so this shows you how farcical the whole thing is so really he's essentially a transvestites yeah of course of course but would you not feel there are some genuine cases where people for example they are you know they mentally that the

kind of chemical structure they have is an androgynous enough or they are female but much more drive nation this is I've seen me say mentally I think that I'm a freaking trial asaurus rex does that mean so what I think that I'm a tree or a bear you know I might be yes I want to be a bit does that mean I'm gonna get a whole bear outfit for ridiculous isn't it right some people had asked the question that when these people there was an issue actually there was an

incident where there was a a convert to Islam who'd had the sex change I can't recall now I think the sex change may have been from before from m2f male to female so it kind of looked like I think he was actually ex-military as well but he dad so he looked a bit like a male kind of face except the other heater born and they wouldn't let it they wouldn't let him go into the women pray area and your thoughts on this talk what what but then if he goes into the the men it like so let's say people like

that that are all let's say they consider this our street girls okay but let's say you put the Islamic thing aside let's say somebody somebody had said that child was cursed the professor went up there and and they said we were Charlie's got he's a boy and I need a girl and cause it would bring them up as to whatever they are the most there are things like I mean they were people like him Aphrodite's and people that the gender kind of starts to switch as they grow with stuff like this yeah exactly so you had that so I mean

if he's if I have no desire to be either so I would assume if it's a female or she assumed she's a female and she's got the open to the female and she read that a job then she can crave in the female this is what I would oldest you and really to be honest Moss along with the crap them sell their know what to do anyone yeah yeah they would let's say so Jim scenario and you've got this person who's a bit very effeminate let's say but he's also had an MTF male to female thing I have a goatee Oh Jim

where do you think they should go but I mean different you know you get

sometimes some guys who will say that you know they let's say their son or the younger brother or their younger or this friend let's say of this is a bit effeminate or a bit kind of like camp and they say and maybe they fear this guy is maybe gay so as part of the therapy they say you need to you know be more like you need to be more macho so you should go to a gym and hang out with more men is the difference that is a difference I've had I won't ever seen

one him afroditi my whole life you know it's not a really joking matter and the kid all and eventually he had his testicles and penis cut off where and cut off surgically and he was all approaches a female even had ovaries and just had a bit of no no I mean their love made things I think any person

struggling with this kind of issue you know male llamas our thoughts and doors are with them and their family because I think people generally every you know like you said doc everybody's nobody really knows how to handle that situation these things I mean I have somebody who recently had a prefer T tumor which was picked up on a random blood test absolutely dare to be taken out his whole life this kid has to take growth on a testosterone for his whole life and he just recently got married all sorts of problems his wife with her left him this is a real human problem now he's upset

why his wife left him but he's incapable of performing you know as such she had a right to leave him it's very sorry wait a minute without the pituitary gland you can't no I mean without that you can't have sex okay HP TAS I see stuff and basically so he thought his body would type of scenario which he'll be stick with it to the end but she said now I'm sorry forget that I don't know any this we share the right to he has a right to that it may sound

harsh but she did that right - he's on his own now he's suffering he's depressed he's the author the hormonal issues also the psychological problems NHS isn't is it willing to help the doctors he doesn't have the money to to do anything we're trying to help them out the best we can and we have a good network of lots of professionals hood who don't charged they will you know including Muslims and animals they're gonna make the point probably more than Muslims and Muslims and they won't charge and they will help out but we can't give every case of them either but we there are cases like this and it's very easy to talk about it and be very blase but if know there's somebody suffering that you know it's

not good no I mean may Allah make things easy for them I mean I mean it's not a unquestionably these things are not you see I think this is often the problem with many things like we what we've even discussed today that there are like whether we were talking about further like initially like things like abuse or things like gender roles or things like relationships or that there are deaf genuine cases which are serious cases of concern genuine cases and then there are other issues so there are even with gender dysphoria and all this stuff there are these genuine cases and then I

do feel that there are many cases that are just kind of social pressure that is kind of led on like I remember you know they used to have these I forgot what they call them now these kind of these classes about sexual health and stuff in secondary school right so I remember in one of the when these were first being rolled out by the government and they were saying look okay these are the guys and they made it part of the mandatory curriculum so I think it was about I don't know I think maybe 10 maybe 10 15 years ago something so at that time some of these I remember some of the discussions they were saying that like

if a person says look I think you know I think I fancy my let's say mind me like I'm a guy I think I actually fancy now I'm thinking about it or a girl says and there was this actual question and I remember this actual questions particular school I was doing training there and one of the girls had asked a question saying from that teacher saying well I you know I got a close friend a girlfriend she's a girl she that's girlfriend and she's realized that she maybe she's now thinking about it actually got feelings for her what should she do now I feel that it was

these kind of situations I mean other places that are make-or-break deals some people their advice is like you know what you should come out with these it's like a go for a you know don't let listen to people you all of these don't what don't deny yourself your reality and they kind of almost pressure without saying they're pressuring this person to do that and and I remember one teacher actually said that and another teacher kind of followed in by saying look listen just saying that look curiosity does not necessitate that you are necessarily homosexual or these just take things easy discover your Europe

yourself with time like don't kind of feel pressured in saying that look oh because I think I kind like this girl or this guy I must therefore be this and therefore I must adopt a lifestyle so and I thought that was a very you know wise thing but I could see how it could easily go so wrong at the same time I mean you know children are children and it's like I I ain't putting for adoption about two years ago did you a difficult process well I mean there was actually a Muslim girl I could really name here and just make look like a complete utter idiot the first three question she asked me

was that you've got all these kids already what would you do if your six-year-old son asked about wearing a dress okay okay and you said well I'd say look well don't touch that one because I'm wearing that one on some day [Laughter] you know you're a boy and your sisters wear dresses you know you don't and fail do you know you were gonna fail if you said that you know I actually thought that she would be being a Muslim naively

I thought you'd understand I mean it's funny because conversation outs if you just bear with me for one second and people we are seeing your comments and questions so do if you do have any interesting ones you can send them in and then we'll she said okay so I sent a message but not peacefully send me your details and this is also a link with penny appeal by the way just to just to

make that clear this isn't this is what the link with penny appeal and she said I quote here if you really want to help you did you change your attitude the dean of the children nobody's asking me to say be LGBT is fine and not sinful just be respectful that we all said and you don't need to be calling others music their sinning it's for the greater good so I said to us and sister firstly I would we have even discussed this topic you've asked me for point was to wear a dress and I answered your question would this be a problem she said to me yes you would not be legible okay okay

they said the main focus of us is to put children to foster an adoption and we would welcome any any help however you will not be suitable for this because of your views on gender and because of your views on a child wearing a dress amount so either I didn't obviously being the way I am I said what do you think if I were a dress and I came to see you would that make it easier the scarf if I were a scarf would that make it easier or would that cause hostility considering you don't wear a scarf yourself she said to me that it

does not matter thank you very much and this was refused on the basis of that one question I rest my case on humanity and this particular [ __ ] I couldn't really just name it is one of those toxic women which I was referring to because she's also caught me previously about like 18th split in her

relationship interesting question we did touch up on that but just I suppose quickly this this thing of this toxic femininity or or this hate man hating societies is fashionable to hate men it's got very cool asleep bad men are evil men are these men of that you know strong men of this clothes go to the gym of this you know MMA guys a brutal

weight so Capri fashionable isn't to be a [ __ ] nowadays isn't it Preston I do you know what I actually I mean I agree with you that it's I see this I see I find myself as well in in a very small minority of people not who don't because I when I see the world people don't seem to see a problem with hating even younger guys that let's say they're in their 20s that I would know quite easily hate on a lot of archetypes of men just say oh yeah but you know yeah men I like this and I think where's this hate coming from why this I mean men and women I mean we complement each

other why this hate like I don't know you know like if I they chose to be a man or to be a woman I want to be a man I think we get a better deal frankly okay so I'm sympathizing with sisters there you know I'm all for feminism and feminist as well and however but this whole sort of a society to get rid of masculinity and maleness and you know we wanted to be crying and [ __ ] watching Titanic and being all emotional little

sort of little freaks you know if there's a war on tomorrow the same toxic masculinity which you despised you didn't want them to save your ass I mean it's just ridiculous it's just kidding beyond this note it's getting beyond snowflake culture cuz I do see it I see it like somebody said by Claire had asked my whom I do feel that there are like this is in my own conversations with people and what I've come across as well and I do generally stick up for a lot of the causes I do

kind of I mean a lot of my even rulings are deemed way too kind of wishy-washy for your liking doc but and yet I feel that you know sometimes I'll be speaking or I'll read what certain women generally write that this this seems to be this like it's not that they hating on me but they just seem to be kind of really kind of pissed off with men as a whole that you know Mike before I hope I haven't come across this way as the woman hater because I'm certainly not you know whereas I find very few men hate women you need a lot of women to come to us and we've helped them out in all sorts of horrible situations okay

it's not that I mean this seemed to be this culture that that a man can't be a man he can't be a male for some reason he has to be feminized to fit into some type of for lighting it's a folder he's got this little nice folder and all those little questions need to be ticked otherwise he's toxic so if you don't hit your wife you don't abuse your children you're generally advise going and you know are you still

a toxic man because you agree with masculine I mean the idea that male gender roles stigmatized and limited by emotion but do you know what I'm just not crying and I was a movie the warrior with the two brothers have to fight you know I like emotional movies I like Wolverine died I'm telling you I shed a tear and with that Johnny Cash song came on hurt Johnny Cash Johnny Cash's

painful because like you know I didn't get a mars bar today or I didn't get front-row in the bottom I saw like becoming a [ __ ] about it I mean like you know this this whole sort of you know men having I understand you came from a Thibault chrome door but when the guys are having period let's be honest I mean they keep the case but having this massive tantrum in the gym on the day of judgment I'm gonna stand here and I'm gonna testify against you and I said what because you're wearing a [ __ ] dress

[Laughter] complete romantic drama you've got the dresser needs to calm down a little bit you know miserable-looking moody no

absolutely and we will bring this to a rap I know I've been going on but somebody had asked a question that would you feel the same or what is a the question had gone the version of an alpha female then you know this alpha male what about an alpha female a rot in nature alpha female of course Oh need independent okay kg or something to be an alpha I mean we all know alpha women they strong-minded tomy

be able to work in your idea do alpha males and alpha females make a kind of a destructive match absolutely egos if you've got to you know you've got two people who are very similar I mean big

alpha is not destructive is it there's nothing okay and our system you know the only beef our bodies but you get these polls saying they said come the kickboxing or whatever and all and I'm telling you from the black but woman jiu-jitsu instructor who gives you better choice you about fifteen seconds to run don't bother try to fight the guy okay so when they're saying you know my everyone's Ronda Rousey let's bear that mind especially our little sisters 5 4 2 5 4 3 then that will be [ __ ] are they let's be totally honest here very very few of psycho killers there's no harm in learning my thoughts I'm saying is that

you know I'm saying sister once I said you know she's some sort of ninja skilled warrior of samurai killer you know generally given by actual female mother who would kick my ass bust me up they'll say run scream run make a lot of noise and get away but of course for females at the same time you've got

highly so genic men were just totally cows is some mindset which needs to change and with you know like I said this from the car paper I've got here in front of me God you know you could only see you if a guy agrees to that that he's a [ __ ] he must do the tea bag style hold the

pocket and of course why would we possibly offend it's a sentiment so we and in conclusion I don't have any faith in humanity know whatever people right I know we've gone on for quite a while we've discussed quite a few interesting topics here I know some of you had sent some other questions as well they've kind of gone up in the chat now

and somebody had mentioned about you now I think something about blocking after the show she has mentioned hating or anything and we know that and by the way this wasn't targeted an amazing amazing

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issues mostly men and women and women can I know we spoke more about testosterone and stuff but we mean we also one of our team is a very good counselor for if you've suffered abuse and if anybody need any help we'll do whatever we can to help and don't I know some of the comments mentioned about doc you know oh my god like oldies let's say you know he's very is that a very pessimistic view or this or that and doc is actually let me just let you know that he's actually very involved in the community he mentioned some of the stuff he does a lot of people go to him is a go to kind of guy with other issues its

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