Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth: Session 127

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just sharing these people momentum almost done avoir in family life kappa or salat wa salam o allah rasool mustafa well I bet the in Ladino trouble a mummy

who da master da Wahby sorry Almudena tava were bad for Salam Allahu Alem allah wa salim bikumu marhaban running lights bienvenidos a todos para la people marhaban and swagatam swagatam right so sure Mila absolutely I'll watch for a beatin I'm tall but of right a low asylum become yeah Oh Hamad Momo is in

the house people Momo is in the house of ride Taran froggy froggy Carlos ri right Carlos get lost if Salam from Vancouver Rush is in the house doing it doing it how can I know saddling all the way from Germany Alemannia people are you great to hear from you yep God was it chess

day today he actually was I see not much changes in this boring life this what is it except except words people there's the truth and the rest it just simply woods right whilst people are tuning in that reminds me on that note there's a poem from from

from Ahmed for us I believe it is a very popular poem but any he has this this line this bait we he says both are santa teresita manana the hot hot hot area german monogyna pubiic omar luggage on say Jadeja those of you that understood that what he said is that how easy it was for

us that once you'd left me he's saying to this to his love to his love that once you'd left me was so easy for me to just die that was it but it was so easy for me to die now both are solitary hey German Mariana peel me yet ik omer lucky John's educated yet it still took me a lifetime to eventually die you see the interesting thing is

that this can be taken in into there's two ways of looking at this one is that the suffering and this is probably what he meant the suffering still endured for like an entire lifetime that's how long it took him to kind of like really come to terms with this tragedy that's that's probably the way he meant it but then there's another way to look at it that

really it's a kind of black but it's just kind of really just like he's just lying to her in a way and like he's saying how easy it was for me to die once you'd abandon me yet it still took like yet I still lived an entire lifetime will be human luggage on sage a therapy that I still manage to span out an entire life before before I kind of finally kicked the bucket so I see I see both sides of that

coin it's amazing amazing there is actually whilst people are tuning in there is actually I've got a a poem of Joan Elia that I can share if if this is the bit of the mood I got movement right whilst people are tuning in those of you just tuning in click like click share ours is that you in the house you do any share Emile I saying it's all lies hi some heartbroken people online tonight oh how the heart how the heart breaks

huh I should have one session just on just for all the heartbroken poor souls Dookie Atma you're protecting these souls that are just just stuck meandering around I should I should have a session for them all the way from New Zealand animus Allen MRSA is in the house I'm Missouri gee that would be an interesting but on that note since there's a few ha broken people and they

say on that note that I mean I might as well read a poem most people are tuning in these people is a book of June Elia hazard hazard at the John one of my amongst my favorite poets one of my favorite favorite poet if this is the right book that is yeah this is the one this one this this book is called shiet which means perhaps look at that look at that so whilst people are tuning in the rest of you you can click like you can click

don't worry about it people let's spread the fit in and facade spread it on tonight's show I will be taking a look at certain issues like and overview a holistic overview of earrings for men so I thought I'd wear mine just to why preach something if you're not going to practice yeah you know what it is it's this consistency that has killed me in life

it's this you know the fact that I couldn't do hypocrisy to me yeah so I thought well I'm going to cover a holistic overview of earrings later on so all right mucho all right much love much love CDs in the house Alamos island alone something so whilst people are tuning in our reader and there's some heartbroken people online tonight Oh

only you know there's a there's a line it escapes me right now that only the worst of Cavs will break the heart and on that note there's a week or a fabricated a teeth now Allah says Anna angle moon karate club oh Allah I'm with those whose hearts have been broken just dedicate it to you people check this out this is one of the reasons some people ask me why do you

like Johnny Lee aside dammit barakatuhu oh and before I forget we will be looking at tonight as well I will be refuting this maulvi sahib from up north called Shahid Ali on this viewpoint that he seems to be pushing I mean it's a known position it's not his position he didn't invent this position but he seems to be arguing in its defense passionately and that is that women are only worth their blood money so in cases especially in cases of accidental death

or things like this only worth half the blood money of any man so this is what melissa is push simply for being women I mean how absurd is that so simply for having something dangling between your legs you automatically are worth yeah bud evaluate this thing carries a lot of value I'll tell you so we're gonna be coming back to you we're gonna be coming back to Melissa

and I'm gonna show how that is one of the most ridiculous absurd statements that anybody can claim it's blasphemous to claim that it's the that it is the ruling from Allah and His Messenger I will show that the hadith the teachings of the Prophet are contrary to that and I will argue that I mean this moldy sob isn't the first person to come up with this but he's obviously he's got a bit of passion in defending itself fine I'm taking it up with him it doesn't matter how many men have said this this is not

the words of a lot nor his messenger and it's blasphemous to attribute it to them but we'll come back to that Walt's people are tuning in somebody said men are the providers men are the providers I remember this ruling they say it's um I mean it's it's it's unrestricted for simply being male they say not for being it is there's no meritocracy to so they're not saying any man who is a doctor any man who is a surgeon any man who is the breadwinner

not that that would justify but still that's a they are applying a caveat they not they saying simply being male biologically you know this one so we can look at that so simply having that organ blessed organ and not having the female anatomy simply that that's their claim which is preposterous people ridiculous has no place in Islam in this ruling cello right so since I said I'll read

something of John Ely aside while other people are tuning in Oh sufferers knows that surprise it's in the house Alan was Island right so people this is a very interesting poem I did like of John Elia I mean I like many of these poems but let's let's take a look at this one which is actually called Cesare punishment oh oh hi so uh people's as a punishment now in this you see John

Illya he's very um it's very dark kind of poet he's something that he his his he speaks kind of brutal truth to him he doesn't hold back and he can be very harsh and this is one of those very harsh poems we it's none of that he's trying to he's just being ruthless and it's in that rawness that one finds the

true humaneness because we are ultimately human beings people so this was one I was reading the other day I mean not read it before and it was lying here so he says Harbor Mary saamne AA tira he Houghton her Barton say milk a Arthur Hamid and he's speaking about that every time we've come in front of me and every time we continue to separate Tom Kuhn who yeah who'd been a huge Antietam McCune who could be nahin John that neither of us have a true

understanding of who you are so much coach Anker he pari who as admin or Easter a hood up mrs. urban Gilman that by you becoming acquainted with me you have ended up suffering and he says and varying itself became a punishment for me now check this out he said he says and then he starts these particular very powerful lines don't Jesus a mean but home a buscar ho Donnie bus service sir azita as our hero he's

he says that the land on which you live I am NOT its God if you are suffering then remain suffering the brutality people Bizzaro geeijo baat zindagi septum that I hear you become frustrated and anxious this frustration in life jab us make kuch nahi Toba sorry John Ilyas ah he says when there's nothing else you can do about it then remain in this

frustration of you don't go you haka saya saya or part of cicadas that what do you have to do with the shadow and the shade of this place come up me hug me key devar hero and this is just a poetic line by stay in your room now there's an interesting line here he says to moon cook taeho yes uncle who she Hui check this out would you ever get a poet saying something like this Tom whom took the oh yes uncle who she Hui is rung is Adam a beep or

car hero that I hear that you have began to cough blood and he says that then he says by hearing that I've been happy and the whole story - this with Genelia he says in this style in this color may you forever remain skillful many a kabocha Hatami ha but manager many a cup Cohutta waffle

he says when did I say to you that love had salvation when did I say to you remain loyal these people is oh I think it's incredibly tragic is he's kind of his poetry he has one two lines I'll finish them off of this poem of his he says job met two men shot him AHA but not a cigar the maccabees schooner of akkad not a cigar when I couldn't give you this ecstasy of

love when I couldn't really be there for you in your time of sorrow jab Marius Subterra heatoman Ahava hand jab meri sorry hob kisi Bay were he says when my own flames of desires have mean really they belong to the winds meaning that I have no control over them that I am he's trying to say how unloyal he is in that way he says Pierre much coach arnica to make way Hockney tan Harker

arnica to me oh he says that you have no right to then want me you have no right to make me alone once again because this is trying to say in this struggle throughout life of relationships and things like this a person once again finds himself according to John Hillyer to be alone again but he's an amazing poet I tell you honestly you know someone of those days when you're feeling like when you've got that kind of add and all that kind of Kierkegaard

spirit gum pink on the it's essential thoughts and and that kind of I don't know that shadow then you should read some of John Elia you'll really touch some heartstrings alright people let's move on let's move on some guy is saying who is this clown well a mutt urge thee is saying oh if my name

sounded like a witty board I would it would take a hell of a lot of courage to call her the people the clown but still more power to you eg more power to the ouija all right right so now let me just take a look right somebody said Oh about John Elia yes it is very very kind of sad stuff very powerful let's take a few

questions people what's going on what's going on what are we looking at and some people said that you know I'm not answering I'm not doing enough rapid round questions so let's do some rapid round they will be an earring analysis shortly mostly Sahib multi Earthmen maravilla is in the house people la casa we've got multi maravilla bienvenidos right so can you explain the reasoning on the people of the cave I'm not sure but it is asking what that is I'm not

sure what what what you mean by the reasoning of the people of the cave I've answered this before and I've got a clip on YouTube explaining that the Quran doesn't actually state that they were asleep for three hundred and nine years for example it states that they said they said that they were asleep for 309 years and hence the recitation of Abdullah Thomas Road where all the Elan and other people had in it were all ooh and that they said it was 309 years but in our

recitation it said it's joined on - they said this and this and this and some said this and some said this and that they were asleep for 309 years Allah follows up by saying he is more knowledgable come let me through how long they remain but does not go on to explain or answer how long that was so we don't actually have a verse of the Quran explaining how long they were up from Allah we only have the verse saying that they claimed that they were asleep

for 309 years and they can claim anything they like it's as simple as that people s muy facil s muy facil right what's going on I have a question how does mostly feel about the boycott Makkah boycott of Makkah what is what does that mean boycott Makkah where is the cave the cave is in modern-day Jordan these people by the way these people an Alpha Thea that are mentioned in Surat al-kahf if we if we open this

up - right oh I'll tell you something quite interesting about this right and that verse by the way just to let you know let me just find it here

oh here it is and this in Surat al-kahf also balem initiate on regime I'm heceta inaudible cafe were rapine can you mean a latina algebra did you feel that the people of the cave were a team andr team is one of the old names for Petra so a lot of people in the past weren't too sure what her team was because Petra for many years had because it the way it's located in a desert it had disappeared because once it became

abandoned it wasn't something that was easily signposted and then it just kind of disappeared to the world and only a few hundred years ago was rediscovered so at that time when a lot of the MUFAs serene were writing commentaries on the quran they weren't sure what pet with this Araki meant so many of them thought maybe this was the name of the dog some people said maybe this was a routine meant the arabic word rahim scripture as in right inscription sorry so they thought maybe there was an inscription on some wall or something but rock team is one of the classical

name so anthropological research has demonstrated through multiple non Islamic sources but they demonstrated through archaeological findings that one of the names of Petra it had many names but one of it was the rock team named after some people say one of the kings or kind of took that name and hence it was named after him so this Surat al-kahf does refer indicates to the people of Petra as well that um heceta Ana's hobble kappa and the people of Rakeem did you feel that they can whom in ayat in algebra that they were

estranged an interesting sign of our signs like that that we had gifted them these wonderful abilities so that's an amazing and then what I mentioned earlier on about this this verse that you have voila b2v

caffee him salata me artisan enum was their duties are and that this that they remained in the cave for as it mentions 309 years Allahu Alem obey my lab is all this is the objection to it that tell them that Allah is more knowledgeable about how long they actually remained because this is attached to the verses before we say a : ethyl acetone Rabi a runic album and they will say that they were three and the fourth was the dog or they will say that what this many five and the sixth was the dog and they will

say this and they will say or they said that they remained asleep for 309 years but allies more knowledgeable of how long they actually were sleep so so I mean I hope that shed some light asam is in the house people animal an animal Sun sorry I didn't get there was a question just a little while back about boycotting Makkah I'm not sure what that was Ilhan omar called for a boycott of Hajj because of Saudis actions in Yemen oh right

as in boycotting Saudi Arabia yeah I think that would be an interesting I don't know if it would work really because I think there's so many Muslims that would still go because Saudi every year has to place a restriction on how many Muslims come to the Hajj so I don't think they would suffer unfortunately from the the boycott otherwise if it is effective then I would support it because it's amazing how Saudi has this ability to just dictate the Islamic

terms and yet it has no problem in bombarding Yemen or things like this or just doing is okay MBS whose notorious on human rights but he has given some freedoms to women and of course Nicki Minaj with her recent concert which I'm just confused you see because I wanted to sign up for that to attend but I wasn't sure where I need to tie the around from should I wear it from Birmingham and going out or

should I should we just turn up with the lower part of the ear on just the sarong [Laughter] right so I mean yes so I even though MBS is doing certain things which I do agree with I actually like the fact that he's giving a lot more rights to women and stuff like this but he is notorious on human rights and so D is the major exporter of things like radical thought

all radically radically sympathized thought so the thought that of many Muslims who are sympathetic to radicals stems from the funding from Saudi kind of organizations and so I'm not sure MBS said he was gonna curb that in and make sure he controls this kind of export of Wahhabism and stuff like this I don't know if that's happening but I haven't been following it that closely but it would be interesting him and Mark is in the house alone or subtle and even more subtle and chef Anna any joke on Minaj that's what I'm saying I mean the the

Minaj they were you know that they were probably confused it's like they said let's hold a conference we need somebody who's on the menage the menage and it was probably a communication error so somebody thought oh minaj nicki minaj oh okay no problem this one no problem so there you go before you know it it was just a communication error error they wanted somebody on the HoJ the hawk we want on the hawk people

on the hawk so hajj today is Raj is ridiculously priced I don't know how so many people people do afford it though people go on luxurious packages I'm not condemning the luxury that people take but I'm just saying that I do feel that Hajj is massively it's it's a business if we're gonna be honest Hajj is a business so is Amara the Hajj especially

and it's a lucrative one so I think many reforms need to be made to do with Hajj to do with other things Saudi Saudi doesn't really care about anything it's just like I don't give a damn and they need to make certain reforms I'm so disappointed that they don't allow any archaeological support to help Muslims with the archaeology of Islam because today many people many non-muslims have questioned the

authenticity of Islam saying that there is no archeological findings we can't do this we can't do that why is Saudi not allowing them or allowing they can use Muslims but archeological findings I'm disappointed in that I'm seriously seriously disappointed it's like this are not nice my friend many things things like on Idol other hard the sacrifices that take place in Makkah for the Hajj this is today useless it is honestly this I can't believe that if the Prophet was alive today he would

have allowed that I seriously don't believe that the prophet sallallaahu lives and would have allowed if he was alive today because today these animals are today it's no longer symbolic they're just killing so many and you have to remember that the profit you see there was a time there was a hadith when the prophet salallahu alaihe salam when he spoke about the other hear about the sacrifice and it was about one a sacrifice for each for example sacrificing but then the properties find another hadith where the Prophet is sacrificing on behalf of the entire

household now so it seems to have gone that as this strength as more and more people are doing it we don't need that many things sacrificed so the prophets gone from every individual duty to just now one per household and now that in places like Hajj away there's millions of people you don't need a million sacrifices or you don't need hundreds and hundreds of thousands of sacrifices it's enough to up scaley that each the heart would now say the way the Prophet said you know one per household

is now sufficient and in fact in one hadith the Prophet said I do on behalf of this Ummah I mean is this not our prophet so now the each the heart ought to be that one on behalf of a certain group an entire so it's supposed to they can be symbolism of sacrificing animals but not to that extent it's as useless and wasted you know it's waste of animal life it's it's a waste of meat it's a waste I know they can them and ship them off to certain countries if they can and a lot of it is just wasted so this kind

of stuff isn't oh they should come up with a different alternative you know but the point is that this today needs revisiting ok and you see in the hadith the Prophet did revisit it and he changed the ruling to from an individual to a household and that's the Maliki mother the school of Medina was one sacrifice for the entire household was sufficient you don't need to all be doing a sacrifice so today in this day and age when Muslims are so many so many people are sacrificed they need to step up VHD heart and they need to

say well you know now one per entire like a clan not just because there's so many people doing it we don't need that you know lies not thirsty for these animals to be sacrificed Allah is not in need of these animals to be sacrificed so I'm not against the sacrifice all together as a symbolism but I feel that we've forgotten what it was about it was about symbolism and today it's just gone into mass slaughter and it was never like that in the time of the Prophet and I do feel I in my heart of hearts that

if the Prophet was alive today he would never have condoned it so that's my understanding on the matter a snap how a snap a Snapple ashraf I'm not sure a snowball ashraf what is a snowball Ashraf alright let's take let's take some rapid questions people then we'll look at some of the topics for tonight which do include some of the key topics are a holistic overview of men can they

wear earrings and the other is this ruling on blood money and the erroneous the ridiculous kind of absurd statement that women are only worth half the value of men froggy froggy is asking are they three all are the three or five solarz in the quran you see the quran does not break down into detail people the the praise it does not break down I don't even

really buy the argument that the Quran was trying to say this three solarz or five I personally feel the Quran was not addressing that and I really like there's the a kind of the Parma primordial primordial source the prototype source or the proto Souness source theory or hypothesis as pushed forward as stated by Mufti mara-vee-oso

who is on our life today and I I think it's an amazing hypothesis that we as Muslims should work on and that is that if you look at the great major split within Islam that I've still lived on til today so you have the main body of Muslims which identified today as Sunni you have the Shia who have lived on till today I mean regardless of the sub denominations and you have the whole Orage who have lived on as well the college today or the eboard eeeh

so they've lived on as well now all three seconds the initial way they began they were not at harmony at all with each other in fact they were at each other's throats so the fact that way they seem to have agreed on all these things it demonstrates that they were all taking from a particular source that precedes these books of hadith and things like this that this proto Sunnah

of the Prophet this prototype of this source that they were all equally tapping into that very early living tradition now the fact that the Shia believes that there's five pros whether they combine two or not but they believe this five salah and the e body i believe this five salah the son Sunnis believe this five salah these skills to demonstrate in my understanding irrefutably that they must have been

very clear proto sauce that was part of the early living tradition in early Islam that all Muslims seem to have accepted that they were five Salah whether you pray to combined or not but they are separate Salah the she I do not say that there are only three salads in a day they state them as five but they combine and even Sunni scholars allow combination of prayers so it's not something unique to the Shia or Sunni so

that's what I feel if someone said they are struggling with depression caused by self-esteem what advice would you give them from an Islamic perspective is low self-esteem a lack of trust in Allah henna Tariq Tariq I was watching an interview with one Col where he says that the Prophet was probably not literate his job before his prophethood

would have right okay let's take a look at those two questions one first question or the question by henna I've answered this before on several occasions that the prophet salallahu alaihe salam could he read and write now in my understanding I feel that the Prophet could read and write but not it wasn't a common thing it wasn't something that they did that people generally were doing so much if we look at the historical records it appears

that the Arabs of North Arabia of of the ages seem to be moving away from the script of the South a Arabian kingdoms I cameo in the lifetime of the Prophet they seem to be moving towards the northern Arabs Middle East and Arabs the Nabataean kingdoms this their script so which is influenced by era and limine and the Minaj era and those people so you see some of them some of the people from Maccabi should've Nidal Malik and others who traveled to here I'll come back and teach people this new script gorgeous 'm which is the Arabic that we write in

today so this Arabic today is not actually the Arabic of the ancient Arabs the Arabic of the ancient Arabs was him URI or couple Mossad and that was it looked a bit like hieroglyphics kind of odd shapes and triangles and all this kind of stuff so and it's found in archeological findings so from way before Islam you find it especially in southern Arabia so the transition from huttle muslin to huttle jism all Hemery to the the kind of um Bob the Nabataean script is something that's happening in the lifetime of the Prophet and the

prophet salallahu alaihe salam in my understanding pushes also always part of that transition as in he agrees with it he seems to agree with it in my understanding in making that and i think they may have been something in the background about identitarian kind of shift taking place as well sociologically so they seems to because the kingdoms up north it seems that the Hejazi Arabs wanted to now more identify with the northern kingdoms of the lemon and the Hassan Hassan eat and laugh meat

dynasties which were protectorates of the Persian and Byzantine empires as opposed to the south arabian the kind of Aksumite kingdoms of the ancient arabs of him ER and these kind of people if this seems to be an identity shift taking place and so could the Prophet read and write I believe he could because many of the Maliki ax the great those who adhere to the school of Medina like Abuelita Laberge Eve the great Muslim legend Maliki scholar from Spain he was of this

position and he wrote a book which is in print today called a keyhole method Fianna be a pod cutter that the turkic that the the kind of precision of the method or the way is that the profit could write that was his book it is available today online and in some of the bookstores now he argues in this book that the profit could write and he uses evidences for it from places like the the solar had a beer that and then he pointed base because a lot of some needs or a lot of

this is not a sunni non sunni issue by the way but people today unfortunately try and make it like that but people like I believe that virtue was so many scholars they were not from any other group they were Sunni Maliki scholars so but a lot of Hamas said oh he here was referring to I leave of the Ilan but most likely was referring to the Prophet I think so as well that he points out and kind of erases the word now also he uses bargee uses the evidence of the hadith that the Prophet say says in a vision he says oh I saw the gates of hell and the gates of

heaven and on the gate such-and-such was written and he says for the Prophet to tell you what was written he says in the dream that I saw that this was written on this so it meant he could read and he uses these kind of evidences and called the e art seems very sympathetic to his position in thirty Burma Derek so if you read 30 below metallic all the earth seems to kind of support what Bochy is saying and he says that people misunderstood bajji so right now right

I'm not sure what's going on Hisham woody Hisham what are you saying people be warned this guy is a misleader well you tried to warn me sham but you know what kind of way you fell short was I suppose the surname is the same thing what these what I think is excreted after you rain according to some people and it breaks the rule so that's what kind of see people are struggling to take - to take you seriously with that

with that surname so you got to kind of change it nevertheless salt so I do agree my personal understanding is that the Prophet could write but it wasn't somebody that generally wrote a lot a lot of the Arabs didn't they had an oral tradition there were people on oral tradition so that's of that question the other question on depression from Elizabeth is that look having low self-esteem or suffering from depression

has nothing to do with Iman right has nothing to do with Iman any person saying that depression is because of your lack of faith in Allah is a Shaitaan okay any person who says that is the devil incarnate I'm telling you that that is that they are doing the greatest disservice to Allah and His Messenger that it is ridiculous - and

ridiculous to claim that your depression that people may be going through is somehow linked to a lack of faith in God that's stupid these people have no idea of mental health they have no idea how the brain works they don't understand things like neurotransmitters they don't understand things like serotonin it's levels the uptake they don't understand this stuff these people are they speaking about physiological matters as though it's just something to do with oh oh you don't oh you must clearly not believe in God that's stupid that's ridiculous that's as dumb as

saying oh if you have a headache then you don't you can't be Muslim it's as dumb as that statement so that that is it's absurd it's nothing to do with your faith okay so please just take that into first of all I need to clear that I cannot stress that enough because I see some of these these I don't call them but some of these so-called preachers saying things like this and it's so disappointing

[Music] nobody Eman lacking but your intellect is definitely lacking so yeah it's nothing to do with that however depression what advice would I give for depression I would say first of all speak to your local GP a local doctor see what's going on try to get a scan try to get some kind of like some medical feedback is there a chemical imbalance is there something some people could naturally have issues with

serotonin or they kind of just the kind of things going on the the hormonal aspect of their body could be at an imbalance cortisol levels and other things so it's good to get a kind of check up to see what what's going on maybe there's some kind of imbalance that can then be stabilized in addition to that I would say that depression can be caused by many things one is an event an isolated event based depression so

for example something has happened in those cases usually time will heal things like somebody saw for example somebody's died and now their death has caused somebody to go into depression these are like isolated scenarios where the depression has a clear kind of source there's an etiology to the whole thing and now in those situations hopefully time will he'll inshallah and the people some on some occasions people don't have a particular isolated cause they don't know why they depressed like nothing's

actually happened they just seem to have gone into depression this can happen first of all being depressed at some level like just feeling sad for example is normal just feeling sad on some occasions so sometimes just the way you'll feel really happy sometimes there may be occasions where you just feel really sad you feel down that's normal so long as it does not become chronic or kind of sustained over a long period of time so if somebody felt sad on some evening or

some day that can be quite normal and it can even be healthy it's not something which you need to worry about the problem is if you can't shake that feeling off at all I don't mean just in that evening or those few hours I mean it's been a week and you're still sad it's been 2 weeks and you still said there's something definitely going on here this is not just a normal episode of feeling down I would say in addition to medicinal assistance or medical assistance there's many things that are somebody can do I would advise that one

you need to preoccupy the mind ok you need to it's going to be difficult because once a person goes into depression they use things like their appetite they lose the desire to eat food they lose the desire to want to do things they have an apathy like they don't want to learn they don't want to watch something fun they don't want to chill out but here they have to kind of force themselves to do these things so I would advise that you do you even if it means forcing yourself but you have to keep the mind active you have to

try if you're into learning something learning read about something watch something that's something I would say it's very important to keep the mind active to it's very important to make sure you have some hobbies it's really important if not take up some hobbies there could be anything it could be learning a language learning poetry to gardening to reading about things to whatever all that for example it could be for somebody they take up a study of something but you take up something

three I would really and I can't stress this enough is you must socialize with friends you must force yourself to go visit some friends the kind of friends who are usually very jolly or cheerful or go visit them chill out hang out have a laugh because I can't stress this enough that you seriously will change your kind of mindset being around people that are that way you can just have an uncontrollable kind of laugh and way they will so I would really advise these

things somebody said a good joint will help I believe that I don't smoke myself but statistics do say that some where it's legal medical marijuana may be of some help a lot but my but my point is that it's so important to go and socialize be with friends it really can help and other things too I mean maybe I don't know spending some some quality

time that always should help right so right so cool let's let's move on people did the profit issue the punishment of Rajyam after the revelation of Sauron or no he did not a rajim I've got a clip people on the trajectory trajectory hermeneutics in which and I've got a separate clip on do the Haddad change with time and yes they do the answer please do watch it it's in much detail there the prophet sallallaahu leave Salem did not

invent rajim okay the hadith seem to show that he just went with the he went with the ruling of the Jewish people for the Jewish people so when they came to him and said we'd like you to kind of arbitrate by and so he said okay I'll do it by your law and according to the law that was the punishment this was then sustained for a short period of time and this was something that was known of the time people did it but this changed with the verse of the Quran and the rest of the Quran speaks about in the time the Arabs

had this lashing as a punishment and in some hadith about sending somebody forced migration when you'd send somebody away now the verse of the Quran seems to shift it to that because it doesn't make any sense of our regime because if you said it was regime that the Koran was ordained the Quran never mentions rajim secondly the Quran mentions that okay for servants and slaves the punishment was half that's in the Quran that you know upon the kind of the fatigue at the Eman the slaves does miss phenomenal other that they have half of the punishment how can you do

half a stoning it makes no sense so but yes some people seem to have continued that way of thinking but then centuries ago more six hundred years ago the great Maliki legend you have a possum albertalli who was the shell islam of his time he gave the ruling that these kind of rulings dude have changed and he actively he was a judge of his era he was a great scholar he changed them into financial penalties and many of the Maliki after him remained upon that understanding and and some people weren't and and then later on whatever happened but that was for several

generations so this is the Sharia is always linked to objectives Makka seed okay um right okay now what's going on skunk Imran a leasing skunk cannabis is not natural and can contribute to I've never said look I I am clearly against drugs I do not do drugs myself I am against drugs but I have in the past being asked about matters of things like

marijuana cannabis is this a religious issue and I've said that look these are more issues of legality as opposed to theology that I don't feel Islam would prohibit the use of the natural plant but people and legal systems and things like that do and they vary throughout the world so I was asked about medical marijuana that is not the same thing as water is sold on the streets because a lot of what is sold on the streets is often laced with more powerful drugs to create a more compelling addiction to have the kind of punters constantly

returning so and I'm clearly and I've said this time and time again the the gang or the drug-dealing culture is haram drug dealers and what they do in the world that they help sustain is a haram/forbidden and notorious world and I utterly condemn that but if we were to differentiate and just speak about medical marijuana or marijuana where it's show where it's sold in certain shops and cafes like in some parts of the world some American states or where

in the Netherlands it's sold would this be Haram or there's been some discussion in the UK to legalize marijuana if it was sold in a cafe not laced with other powerful would it be Haram and I've said that I don't believe it would be Haram many Olimar would disagree with me I accept that but I don't believe it would be Haram that's the discussion please do not conflate the matters I've never ever ported and never will I support I condemn the the kind of drug-dealing culture the world of drug dealing and in fact I applauded share a Syrah my

beloved my beloved shared a Syrah who I obviously disagree with on so many things but he recently gave a statement it was on Facebook saying stating that Muslim Imams should refuse to lead the janazah of drug dealers and I actually support that I feel that well done after so long I've heard she uh sir are saying something you know I applaud him for saying something that actually makes a lot of sense for this day and age so just to be clear on that right

somebody Rama said it's legal in the country I live in Canada yeah I mean I and that's a different discussion people we because the the issue is that it's you know these it's a plant I guess mother nature God how can we rebel against mother nature [Laughter]

well people what else is going on let's look at some other question along what's I learn somebody said the story of are they I've answered that before on some other occasion I'll go through it another time in much more detail Mike Tyson opened a ranch okay Purple Haze people are using this to plug their favorite yeah Elizabeth said it's the intent behind the usage that matters and I totally agree with that

Daniel has asked what about DMT I actually feel that DMT ought to be I I support DMT I think that DMT ought to be more [Music] capitalized upon and embarked upon by people for a spiritual experience I I feel there's nothing to state that DMT and these kind of things like mushrooms psilocybin or all these kind of things would be Haram the results I attended a one of the senior professor on this matter I attended his lecture on

psychedelics and the research demonstrated and he's conducted years and years of research David Luke he has a book called Otherworld which I did purchase and I spoke to him personally as well after the lecture we we had a chat at the bar not all right so I spoke to him as well personally asked him a lot of these questions what do you have to say about these things and he's he's personally experienced he's spoken to a

lot of people they've conducted research for many years there's not been a single death that's ever been linked to DMT there's been no addiction there's no evidence of any addiction that is caused by DMT there's no persisting side effects that have been demonstrated through any research this is psychological and an actual medical research is this is not media stating this if anything it seems to expand a human's consciousness and make people better people in fact most

people who took a psilocybin like mushrooms and things like this became very peaceful people they became people who are more in touch with nature the majority of them took up gardening and they did things like this and it's amazing that they lost a fear of death they became very lovey-dovey kind of people throughout I mean through longitudinal research this is not just so I think if anything these things sure why not let me just have on that note right so

have I emailed an Gibson myself I have an email dan gibson i have watched a lot of his he's kind of his series and i find it interesting dan gibson has been one of the the he's at the forefront of this campaign that that the muslims have got mecca wrong that Mecca was in Petra I'm not convinced by his research although I give it to him I feel that he has done some amazing research though I I have to I'm really genuinely impressed by some

of these people who I mean I don't know if impressed is there's the right word but I am wowed by their commitment the people who are not Muslim but they will spend decades of their lives to an issue of Islam and I feel that we as Muslims or to welcome that even if it challenges our notions because if we are confident and secure in what we believe then we ought to be able to stand the test of time and the test of critiques um and

and critics so so I feel that his evidence is very interesting I have been going through his book early travelers in Islam and I haven't been through his other ones yet on geography knees in the Quran but I've been through a lot of his series of archaeology and Islam it's very fascinating and some of it has got me and I'm still researching some of the things it's ongoing but I'm not convinced and I feel that he has this one interview where he has a mathematician that speaks about the standard deviation and because what Dan

Gibson has done in essence he's gone to 60 of the most ancient allegedly ancient mustards in the world that have some foundations that he can trace and he feels their table our points more towards petra than it goes to mecca the Foundation's not the current building so the current building will point towards Makkah but the Foundation's allegedly point towards petra now you see that the issue with this is that that doesn't stand true in all the the things so North Africa clearly doesn't it doesn't point to Mecca know Petra seems to point south and the Lucia Muslim Spain seems to point south he does come up with a

theory to explain that not convincing at all many places that are far off you see because Petra and Mecca are still the East are in Petra is in modern-day Jordan so it's very Muslims were never trying to hit the Kaaba spot on he then does some interesting research and shows how close are they to Mecca than they are to Petra and it's true in many of the Masjid he shows they are closer to Petra than the autumn akka but in in many others they're not and he doesn't take that into consideration he does he does disclose it but he doesn't take it

into consideration as much he then has one of his interviews he has a statistician that is then showing the statistics and the standard deviation of these of these qibla points and he does a diagram where if there were ten points and you had to point the fact that these mustards are pointing towards petra the probability of them like he brings it down to something like a billion or something something ridiculous because if you've got ten points but every time it keeps pointing towards this one more than that then he the statistics is to

the power of ten and whatever now it's I mean it's all mathematics and I'm not a mathematician but I could clearly see what was a fallacy in his reasoning and that was that he begins this this equation with ten points saying that if you had to point to ten directions and you kept getting this one but when it comes to Petra and Makkah you're just talking about two places they ranked ten there is no ten gigglers there's simply Mecca as Muslims

claim or Petra's these people are claiming that Muslims once believed in Petra now that's it so there isn't this time this equation is a fallacy in my in anybody who watches that can see that so the other thing to refute which is compelling is that proptosis hypothesis that how can it be that the she had the Sunnah the Sony mainstream Muslims and the Huaraz all agreed upon the Kaaba they would never have agreed I mean they would have the Shia would have definitely or the Hawaii it would have

used that as evidence against the mainstream of Muslims like they did in many other things why would they hold back on Petra so I feel that that that said I do find many of the things they're saying very interesting like I don't think what dan gibson all these people are saying some of the things that they're saying like patricia crown and these people is nonsense I feel it's very compelling and it's made me on certain matters reevaluate my own narrative and I feel that Islam the history is how it was but the nuances may not have been what we thought they

were I do agree with that after you know a lot of this since I've been researching this Islam revision is what Orientalist what they're saying I feel that on some things they do have a point they're not actually you know like we have this thing that they are just totally blind they're not they actually make a compelling argument on say not necessarily the Qibla thing on other matters so they do they spend so many years of their life like what were the correlation what did they used to trade in what were these journeys where were these journeys to realtor schita it was slave where did they used to go to the other the Greek records

demonstrate these people have looked into all of these they're not just you know just sitting there chatting nonsense and I feel that Muslims shouldn't just dismiss them so easily we should look into it so yeah I hope that helps moti Rahman has helped our italki term no other alaik female-female referred to make lease UT which people is a book on on the knowledge it's a book on sexology by imam silt Imams UT has a strange you

know like in some things yeah he has this one section in one of his books and I think it may have been published as a separate kind of arctic like a small booklet on its own about all the different names of a penis he has this and it's and he says you know Imam silty when he's commenting on imam al-ghazali's quote on sex so this this

is quote where imam as early says that pleasures of paradise are hidden from this world like we can't relate to them but the closest pleasure to the pleasures of paradise is an orgasm I totally I cannot object to your mama has early on that point as much as I can disagree with the mama was early and many other things but I'll say la la guru and Imams UT comments he brings that quote of his early and then he

brings this this quote saying that the pleasures of this world can be summarized into two he says one is riding a horse you guessed it people see nothing that all of you watching this year are armies so this he says one is horse riding and the other is sex so these are the two greatest pleasures of this world and

beauty comments by saying Warsaw and that is correct you know deep down these people I swear if I had an opportunity to be in a gathering with these people I would have their darkest secrets open before me within an hour I don't know I have this kind of I don't know if I could call it a gift or a curse that when people are around me they open up their darkest secrets kind of they they

open them up in front of me I have this kind of Lucifer effect on people so somebody said I'd get a horse riding butt sex come on I did say once that you could could you further Occam's razor simplify it by the term shall we just put a full stop on riding okay but since this was life since this is life and unrestricted right the point Pandora's box right Sam

i'li said I never got the joke about horse riding don't worry about it my friend don't worry pious this this brother is a pious brother amongst us we need hope people we need hope and these people give us hope you know there's a few guys that we know like you know some of my close friends we always have this kind of joke there's a few guys we know that we say wow that guy is what gives us hope in email in in humanity for men and there's only like two that I know I don't know any other men that uh I can

be like mmm there's just two guys I know that we often use as an example we say that that guy is that is a hope for Humanity that that there are some men some decent men that still exist otherwise the rest of us know much talk say Salaam alaikum as-salaam animal Satnam become people shall we take a look at this earring should we take a look at that what say you folks what say you earrings

people earrings so let me just open this up okay here it is right now bismillah folks the ruling on earrings somebody just the admin just commented the type of guy that you'd want your daughter to marry that's those those one or two guys that we only ever know we think BA they need to be more men like that yeah in

this world well anyway we've let admin stop distracting me right let's focus people bismillah right so earrings what is what is the ruling can men wear earrings rather can men wear earrings according to Islam now the answer is clearly yes they can we earrings but more than just going through a simple ruling I'd like to give a holistic overview okay then coming back to the ruling and I'd like to focus

on certain a concert and traditions that have been rated some of the practices of the Salaf and things like this right so first of all we there's there seems to be this this thing that people feel that an earring is effeminate that they feel that this may be only homosexuals would wear earrings or people trying to act like women somehow are trying to a soul somebody commented on one of my photos saying that oh you know I don't understand the earring because it's only

something women that you'd identify women with so this seems to be this conception this misconception out there that women only wait you ring so I'm gonna zoom out slightly and then we'll zoom back in people okay so I'm gonna go over a brief overview give us a backdrop of earrings now for thousands of years those of us that but pick for people who do not know for thousands of years human beings have used jewelry okay thousands and thousands of years at least from documentation that we and it's not just

documents it's inscriptions it's rock art things like this we can see that human beings from at least documented something like opportunity anything between seven to nine thousand years ago were adorning themselves with jewelry we see men many civilizations okay so you've got several kind of dynasties if we go for as far back as almost four and a half thousand years ago the kingdoms of Assyria so with its capital iseul

which is probably modern-day Nineveh you see kingdoms like that that the men would often wear earrings especially to denote high status and many of the any whether they were aristocrats or people of any kind of nobility within the Assyrian empire which is the modern-day Middle East they would wear earrings it's known from the clay tablets when they spoke about things when they give gave descriptions we still have that in the clay tablets we have if you look at places like Egypt for example the Egyptian civilizations in the papyri

that has survived from thousands of years going back 4000 years if not more it described the prominent people the men as all wearing earrings and the prominent men they described them as wearing earrings if not all but many amongst them about the Egyptian civilization even many of the the great excavations of mummies of mummified figures that went once unwrapped they found the ears to be the men they found the ears to be piece pierced so you have

these kind of things if you look at the biblical sources from the time of Moses okay the story the famous story which is mentioned in the Bible in the Koran as well about when Moses went to when he went away the people the Israelites asked Harun to help them make a God in to get gold and the Quran refers to the story as well that he made this kind of that they made this kind of this calf this kind of cow golden cow lah who's that he had a kind of sound to it so and they started worshipping this and then

when Moses comes back he's very upset for you know ilaha of bana that he was angry through the kind of the slates that he had these but the point is in the Bible it mentions Harun the Aaron when he's asked to make a cow a golden cow for them he says to them that go bring me the gold and he mentions it's in the Bible bring me the earrings from you he says from your boys the earrings and he asks for the as well but he asked for the boys the boys earrings so you see that even

thousands of years ago the Israelites they had these practice you see the the achaemenid empire the persian empire that existed in the Middle East that began with Cyrus the 1st and ends with R is the third you see in their Kingdom their Persepolis then one of the main kind of capitals which is probably north of around modern-day Shiraz many of the paintings of these soldiers that have survived showed that they the soldiers the men would wear earrings

okay so you've got this kind of tradition it is true that the Romans didn't wear earrings generally they in fact described it as an Eastern thing an oriental thing and one of the reasons that they never wore him was because a lot of the slaves wore earrings the men so they didn't want they saw it as a lowly thing and an Eastern thing and perhaps this was partly due to their rivalry with the Persians and the Achaemenid and the other sassanid kind of empires but the Persians definitely did wear hearings if you look to the to

the east like India the some of the greatest ruling dynasties the tamil dynasties like the chola dynasty which was one of the longest empires ruling empires in India ever centuries and centuries on in a lot of their ancient scriptures and a lot of their statues and drawings and whatever they have and depict the men always especially the kings and other people always wearing earrings if you move to Europe people this is to give us a backdrop and then we'll zoom back in many people in ancient Europe did wear men I'm speaking

about men specifically they wore earrings in fact you had it was seen as a kind of class thing so the poor people the peasants they usually wore copper earrings the nobility and businessmen merchants wore kind of precious metals like gold and silver and the Kings usually wore earrings out of rubies or emeralds and things like this so this is this seems to be the the if you look at places like the ancient Roose dynasty's the Russian the ancient Russian dynasties and you

look at they had Cossack Ottomans who were they kind of military leaders they often marked their children with earrings so if a boy was the only child the boy would wear a right earring you wear an earring in the right and where they had many children many boys the last of the men would always wear an earring in their left so you see things like that in other parts of Europe the church especially as the church began to get more prominent the church prohibited

men from wearing earrings now so you see the church influenced it starts to say that no these things should be restricted to women and the church starts to pass out ruling however many men still especially those who defied Authority often still wore earrings hence pirates throughout history usually wore earrings almost as an act of defiance and to kind of show that thing and many people who challenge the authority sometimes of the church historically wore earrings so you see

that because to show this kind of this self Authority in a way you have other other ancient kingdoms like the Native Indians them wearing earrings now the reason I'm mentioning all of this is to give a backdrop that some people seem to think that people never walk here in men never wore earrings and this is a very recent phenomenon began since the hippies and so on and and now it's just recent this has been something that has existed

for thousands and thousands of years often worn by men usually men of nobility or soldiers this was often a thing sailors who travelled around the world often wore earrings as a sign to show that they travelled around the world throughout this is throughout huge parts of history diverse societies this was never seen generally as a thing exclusive to women now I'm just giving us a backdrop now I'm going to kind of zoom back into the Islamic sentiment in the lifetime of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam

men wore earrings you will see that in the society in which the Prophet lived boys especially young boys wore earrings and you will see that this trend continues or at least during the time of the selleth that during the Sahaba the terrain and the battle turban this trend seems to carry on that the boys often wore earring and many people considered its Sunnah for the boy to wear an earring now you see when they became men many of them may have removed the earrings and some of them may have kept

it but the fact that they wore earrings as boys was definitely a widespread phenomenon during the era of the silla 'the now later on as the centuries progressed it is true that muslim culture by and large not all especially within the mainstream like and I'll come back to this in a moment that especially a lot of the so-called Sunni orthodoxy the clergy started to stamp down on these things and prohibit II just like the Christian Church of Europe and they may have been influenced by the

Christian Church of influence in doing this and hence you see that she are refused on this point of the Sunnis so this the Shia seem to have kept it alive in their tradition right through up until today so now we're going to come back now to some of the sources so you will find a hadith which is transmitted by if not a bus or the Allah on who states that Sabaoth ominous tone and this is in the marginal all sort of tehrani and it's been declared by several scholars including the recent letter maya to Sharia of al-azhar

asahi if not buses seven seven are from the Sunnah for the boy this he says fasabi regarding the boy Yoma survey on the seventh day as a ceremony he will formally be named so he goes through all of these things that he will be circumcised and he's talking about the boy and it goes on to mention that what to Scott or the Novo and his ear will be pierced okay this is the boy now you may think well and that's even our bus for the Elan and he says what you aqua and when you will give the

article and things like this now you may say well mmm I don't really know now let me tell you something people the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam scranton both of his grandsons Hasan and Husayn radi allahu anhu man had the ears pierced and they both wore earrings that's correct hassan radi allahu on and Hussein rodeo on imam husain bull earrings in fact Imam Hussein had two earrings he would wear one it's described generally the

Arabs described this to be a court which is in the lower on the lobe and they described that on top to be a shelf and they say Hussein had both he had a court and a shelf right so that's imam husain view and you will see that the sheer traditions continue to narrate this imam jaffa imam ja'far the teacher of abu hanifa the teacher of imam ali who lived in medina transmits he transmits going through his father Mohammed Albert it through Zine El Abidine through

Hussein from he transmits this hadith that the Prophet said ya Fatima earth will be older male Hasan will have seen that pierce the ears of Hasan and Husayn in another narration and you've got several iterations that Hasan and Husayn wore earrings right then these are the grandsons of the Prophet these are some of the the greatest people in Islam they will earrings now you will have even even the narration now check this out people so you have later Shia Imams kept

this alive by continuously try and I say the amount but these were the amounts that even soomi's accept so you will have narrations where they described that when Hussein was born that they talked about was a moon that they pierced his ear and so on and and he wore an earring now what's interesting is her knee Allah dorami who is one of the people that was who describes the events of Karbala and he was one of the people that killed is involved in martyring Hussein or they Allah whan he describes that when we attacked him he

says when he fell in fact the wording is he says in nila walking on our Shira Hashanah I was from the ten that was standing when Husain fell he says llama sorry he says lemasurier al hussain what was the rule and he says that when Hussein fell and he was dazed here a toughy - you mean awashima and he was looking left and right left and right he says what kora Tahu Yetta that the ban and his both earrings were shaking and he describes the events of when they he was on I mean he was obviously one of the people that Martin and killed Hussein

really long but he describes the events quite vividly and other people do as well that during his final time Imam Hussain really low on had two earrings in another narration they say were fiorini he don't return in both of his ears he wore earrings now you may think well no that doesn't sound quite right and I'll come back to this point just hold that thought let me transmit to you from the must net of coming back to SUNY sources the must not of abou Ya Allah the most net of Abu yalla famous humbly sanema hadith he

transmits from a great scholar of hadith uberman Hal who says when he went to visit Abu I went to visit Abu baraa cell Aslam II he says and I was still a young man Wafi ozoni he says or in Fe o dunya poor Athene and I used to have two earrings at that time when I used to study hadith that's in the must net of Abu Yahya let's not stop there people people may say who's a bloomin had ok let's go to a greatest common let's go to a greater one Sophia Nina Allah the

great Hafiz of Makkah from the Salaf era sharaba as transmitted by the hubby in ceará al-amin novella in volume 8 page four six two people he mentions the eyes are ie to ignore alaina wa huwa olam he says I saw if not llena when he was a young man carrying these great he had these great kind of Allah these things which he would document on and write all these hadith he says I saw him way wandering in the streets chillin out with his mates la la in the

Amrit nadine are sitting in a hadith class with the greatest habit of hadith of Makkah in that time I'm reading a Tina Rafi ozoni he Court and in his ear he had an earring this is Yusuf even arguing now let's not stop he will not stop keep on my right who can be a greater legend from the selleth then saffiano yeah you

guessed it people whose Saffiano Elena himself says that was the greatest color in Hejaz in his time none other than the eylem of alum of Modena people Imam Ali Kipnis you will people you'll find my own teacher of the runny a dip car one of the greatest orlimar sham he has a book on imam malik in the silsila of the great people of this ummah he has about the four Imams and or yes mainly about great Imams especially the four and people like that in his book of Imam

Malik what does he say he documents this was one of the greatest scholars of his era he was a luminous Abdul vania's Dakar he's the one I've spoken of before by the way in my interviews where I've said he was an old man had a great sense of humor and he used to sometimes try and trip people over and he was well known in sham he was well known throughout the Arab world in his era he used to have a regular weekly darts from Fatah body teaching a commentary on Bihari and he was deemed the most knowledgeable person wiki tabby Siebel way in his era in his time this was we're talking like the 90s

and so on he won like countless awards for his knowledge on things like that and he was really fascinated by the way when he met me especially me being Pakistani of ethnically and being Maliki he found that very unique now that time I have these long curtains and I mentioned he used to find that very fascinating my kind of but I used to have a rise to always meet him in that musty them and chat to him about issues but in his book he begins where he's speaking about Imam Malik and he says well the Robby Robby are and Imam Malik was fortunate to then he really pounced

on this opportunity to study with Robby authority one of the great element of Medina and he says wah wah fee may attention he was still you know at this time Malik was still bursting with youth he was a young man my Iselle court my assignor court people feel Denis he he still had an earring on in his ear this is who Imam Malik this is then transmitted again by another Yuka another scholar Maliki scholarship I heard Mohammed diri who wrote a book which was then

authorized and you know his part of his tacky Kamara is a Sudanese great sure I mean he's got hadith the ruse there on YouTube and things like that in his book is the courage of the a hadith of the Madonna in the introduction to imam malik he mentions the same thing work on a fee autonomy or imam malik would have an earring in his ear especially when he was a young man maybe in later age whether he kept it in or not but he worried whilst he was a young man and hence you have the hence you have the the tradition as well imam malik son

wore an earring Mohammed he would often be when when people looked at him and he was playing with the Falcon and and he would wear an earring and that was the the story is kind of well known but let's not stop there people will then say what else where are these traditions people wear what else have we got people Albion what a seal by even a ruched algid that the daddy the daddy nourished was so la speaking about Imam Malik was so Allah and courted the hapless sabi he's asked about a Golden Earring for

young boys Carla Turku Abu Alea Fidel man he said it's better to leave it for young men call a blushed al-qura javi had a pagina he says why is it discouraged that's obvious lianna sabi he goes on to say fine Lamia cannot abide and folly to Huma Abedin fee now he says that because even if the child isn't mcauliffe his parent is Micallef so as its knock Amalia hello Lana still Hummer so as he shouldn't be giving him alcohol to drink

for kadala calamba allahu and you halia who be that so likewise he shouldn't be adorning his son with gold the issue was golden earrings the question that he asks Malik young boys wearing golden earrings what is your ruling and Imam Malik said I prefer that they don't okay so this is from beyond what I seal people you've got volume 18 page 4 for one kitab on Jami examined capacities innovators they

this volume this pay this this this this number left side there you go come up are some people come up you've got that then you've got rulings now check this out you've got I love me he's being asked in his in his top seller that about certain things if when you punish certain people for what they steal now look at what was often being stolen look at what was often being stolen and he discusses this muscle and

he says he says what in soraka shaken he says what about from a young boy if they got a young boy and they robbed him is that you can't because what they debating is what is ahead is what is guarded property and what like assets like you've hidden something I'm something isn't he didn't like you just put it here and somebody takes it then there's a distinction between robbery and theft so they're drawing this distinction but and they're looking at the issue what about if you're wearing something like I'm wearing a necklace somebody snatches he and something that would often happen and he speaks about young boy like a young boy and he says

he says oh Soraka in Odin he what if he stole the earring from the boy for Encana Sabich a baron yeah Hadees my ally he so he says if the boy was old enough he was an old like a young man and they robbed his earring then that is protected like they would be punished like that would count as theft but he says if it was a young boy like a very like a infant doesn't know what's going on then he discusses that ruling of his but look at this being a common issue that boys wearing earrings so this ruling and you might think well

really left me saying it people young Malick I know what it was here that and where there was here that people same thing same issue hundreds of years this is in the fourth century for 300 people love me you're talking a hundred years later this a hundred years earlier look the same issue woman Soraka court pan whosoever stole an earring mean owes me sabe o see Warren or a bracelet or bangle that he was wearing for most famous ilaha il-allah he's talking about the same issue does it

count as a so if no B's aid is addressing it as well we lived in Tunis a different North Africa so you can see these rulings being discussed by olomana right through a so it's very clear the early generations did not see this as something to do with women or restricted to women in fact they generally always the young boys especially they would make them we and here what's interesting is amongst and I mean is subra salam

under bubble Atika he brings the narration he says that that this was also a Hanafy according to the Hanna fear it was also a ruling now you just see

but he also brings he I'm just trying to see where he's that he says that all the harm from the Hanna fear said that the tiful the young boy has his earpiece but then later on the Hanafi I may disagree with Cody Han and say that that's oh that's only talking about a girl but the word used by Cody Han is is piffle okay

[Music] anyway oh but that's not because I know that Hanna fear won't accept it anyway but he does bring the alright so here is he brings he says that the humble ease said that it was that you shouldn't even give curls in your ring because it's

harmful but he goes on to say were FIFA tower party Han min al han fei lab Sabbath up it wasn't it definitely unknown kind of feel jahiliya if I do know because he says there's no problem according to call the harm from the Hannah fear for boys to have an eat an earring because in Jogja Leah they used to do this well a myung-kil who Elena be and the Prophet did not criticize it or object to it now I know some hanafis may say that all you know that was really about girls but but the point is there it is now if you look at those people who opposed earrings a lot of them said that the ruling for it was because it caused

harm but then the issue is if you have if if you can do for girls then you should be able to do for guys it makes no difference the ruling is the same okay I hope that clarifies the other thing I would state is if people are saying the what makes it impermissible is imitates women it does not imitate women you have thousands of years of history of men equally wearing earrings and then I would say that look what about girl wearing eyeliner like Surma

this many people claim many men religious men in the indo-pak world we eyeliner now you would think Imam Malik didn't like it because he said it's not sooner this was just something done for medicinal purposes yet these people feel there's no problem in men wearing eyeliner which is definitely the effeminate today so you see these things are simply cultural matters another issue somebody may state is that you said Imam Hasan and Husayn wore earrings which they did I do actually believe that Imam Hussein and mum has

and wore earrings now people may say yes but that is transmitted by the Shia sources and I would say yes that's true it is transmitted by the Shia sources so they would say what we can't accept anything but from the Shia but I would ask you look listen let's be honest let's be honest why can't like this rule everything that sheís a must be a lie is so ridiculous it's so biased it's so prejudiced that we happen to be the lucky ones that have everything

everything that why would the Shia say something like that about Imam Hussain why like why would they transmit why would Imam Jafar in his with the teacher of Imam Malik who's the teacher in in their books transmitted from Hussain his great-great-grandfather why would he do that saying something like earrings unless they were actually factual it makes no sense for them to discredit their own Imams their own ancestors the grandsons of the Prophet it makes no sense and then if you to say well how can we accept this narration I don't believe it look nobody's telling you to believe it

but let me make a point here let me make a point look there is a Rowi there is a narrator by the name of Imran even ahead Bom right this guy is one of the leading corage of his time leading wattage all this time he's from the turban in Iran yeah he is used by Bihari on more than one occasion in his hadith at least to come to my mind straightaway where he is being quoted by Imam Bihari he's one of the people Imam Bukhari uses as a narrator as in his trustworthy this guy would openly openly

at the Sira alarm in Urbana if you read fertile bird even a hundred statement on him this guy would openly praise abnormal Jim for killing said neither of the LaJuan openly in fact he has a very famous poem saying that when he struck Ally in the head to kill him that strike was a strike full of taqwa I'm like its blessed and so on and so forth he would openly say these things yet Buhari took from him Mahadi said oh he's he's okay because he was from the worshipping people of this Ummah what kind of let's be honest people I

want to ask you a question I'm not sure I disagree with the Shia on their points I support you know the stance of and my videos are very clear for how we are all day Aloha on you know I'm not and she I know this about me I'm not kind of but let's be honest if we had somebody praising Alma juicy for killing Rommel rhodiola on let's say this a narrator in the tambourine who writes poems praising the murderer of Rama would we accept him so why do we accept the the one who's praising the person who murdered a

highly rowdy lon like this is just this is just ridiculous like we are just so ground in prejudice and bias the point is that anybody these were all great companions you know said my lease ain't know Omar I believe these were all great companions of the Prophet they were all very close to prophet said nah he was murdered by Nomura Jim some guy openly praises him and he remains praising him till his deathbed in fact if not had your rights infertile body some people said he did Toba this guy says no he didn't he says they had a

body now we get Buhari accepts him so we accept him Yahveh apnic ahora man Leah you know the hypocrisy that we have and this is why it infuriates a lot of the Shia people but can you blame them because here's a guy who's killed Satan eilean here's somebody who's follows that person and praises him all the time writes poetry not only praising him but praising that he killed Ali and then suddenly say yeah this guy is fine we can take from him but we can't take from imam ja'far or any of the Shia Imams if

it's in a Shia book when they're describing that Hussein used to wear earrings why oh because it's coming from that's just stupid let's just be honest I'm trying to be fitted so and then the fact that many of these great Mohideen Imam wore these earrings like a bull Manhart Sophia of Narayana in Mali called and there's a very interesting statement in a book by it's by Adama I believe in his tawa being where he states one of the most pious people he ever met in his lifetime he describes this man he says he was the most god-fearing he says he was the most

god-fearing man I met in my life and he said and he describes him and he says he wore an earring so this is this so this is a kind of an overview a holistic overview that yes wearing earrings is permissible for men yes it is always for thousands of years being something that men have worn often in times of to show that they don't follow things like the Christian Church in Europe or they defy those things but many soldiers the Assyrians and other people pirates and all these people I spoke of at the beginning of this discussion all wore

earrings in the prophets time men wore earrings it's evident the children definitely wore earrings many of the cell of the prophets on grunts grandsons Hasan and Husayn wore earrings and imam malik warren earring sophie-anne ignore elena worn earring but yes in the generations and hundreds of years later orlimar started to turn against this practice and they seem to perhaps they were influenced by the Christian Church of Europe perhaps by other traditions but they seem to think this is no good but that's fine they can think that but you if you do decide to choose it you have a

great precedent people like Imam Husayn Imam Malik all these people who you know you're in great company so that's what I would say and to say that this is imitating women is ridiculous because things like go hell would be more identifying with imitating women yet people seem to be fine with wearing eyeliner for men so these are very arbitrary statements so I hope that's a good kind of holistic overview to demonstrate the permissibility and I accept people can say whatever they want they can say it's Haram are going to them but the evidence is speak for themselves

right okay people let's whoa let's move on right so I think we've kind of gone on quite a bit there but I really wanted to give a holistic overview I think I have to kind of speak about let's move on to this discussion of women the blood money right let's move to this discussion people right now let me give a backdrop to what's going on here can we follow the heart here thought ID I don't know what the idea is what is the

ruling of Imam Ali Khan I know some my lackeys are of the understanding I've got a different video on that that Mata is not Haram but that's a different kind of discussion for a different day right okay right now so let's let's look at this topic blood money people this is an important discussion because today Islam has been questioned by many people for misogyny for speaking against for mistreating women for denying them their

rights for devaluing and denigrating women this is the the the accusations and allegations world many Muslims today or Islam may I say so right so what happened is let me give you a bit of a backdrop to this discussion I've been asked this on several occasions before I didn't think in my right mind people would I knew this ruling didn't exist about the blood money and I've spoken about it previously not in that much detail but I've spoken about it and I didn't think anybody in their right mind would be defending this however lo and behold I

was going about my business on Facebook and I came across a post by this movie Shahid Ali his name is I've never met him but I've known him I've known of him through Facebook he's from the UK up north so he had a post where he's attacking cher bahador Audrey now I don't necessarily if I don't follow that it'll not necessary I don't follow chef pajaro Qadri to me he's just like any other scholar he may say certain things I may agree with certain things I disagree with however I saw this post by

the Shia deli where he was saying Theodore paddy is an utter deviant and he had a long list of all these signatures stating why he was a deviant and he was he was kind of proselytizing that everybody should join in in recognizing and boycotting chef by hello Audrey so I read this and I thought well what is this about and first of all I kind of commented by saying look you know this post is irrelevant no this is in this 20 19 may wake up nobody really cares what some movies think you know this freedom of speech but then anyway I

looked into his post right into it so one of the key issues he lists for why he's again started or Qadri and why he considers him a deviant a clear deviant is this blood money issue now what is this blood money issue this blood money issue is that allegedly these people these movies are claiming that if a woman was killed she dies in an accident or something if you end up accidentally killing a woman let's say you have a cop car crash and you kill a person but the driver happened to be a woman that woman or her

family deserve compensation from you that's what kind of islam teaches so they say well the compensation for a woman will only be half of the compensation for a man so a woman will only get half now they say this is not based on like they're saying well this is not based on meritocracy this is not because the man was the president or he was a king or he was a scholar he was a doctor is no no no no no it's just simply based on male anatomy it's simply based because he was a man

so he will automatically get twice the compensation or the woman will only get half of what a man ought to get so malaviya Shahid Ali is openly on Facebook not only promoting this but stating anybody who does not believe this is a deviant this is a guy from who's living in the UK I don't know where I think maybe Bradford or somewhere he lives and I think claims to have some background in law some Maulvi Sahib seriously has lost

his mind now he had a list of so many allama apparently supporting this but the reason why I'm choosing Shahid Ali as a primary addressee is because I don't know whether those people in that list had really said that or has he just added their names or have they because it could be one thing that you know of this ruling but you're embarrassed by and you don't want to speak about it when you're worried about your sect and stuff like this and it's another thing that openly promoting not only promoting this ruling but calling anybody who challenges it a deviant so I have to say first of all before getting into this

ruling I applaud chef bahador Qadri for challenging this ruling as many other scholars have challenged as well so first of all great credit to him on that No now this ruling people let's let's get back to Norway Shahid Ali G what is it with misogyny people what is it with misogyny what is it with you know for simply having a penis Oh a guy is worth twice the value of a woman

what is this in the Quran no is this in the Sunnah no a cha cha people said so a cha cha cha people said so right so first of all I would say do they have any sahi hadith um do they have the Quran no what do we have in the Quran let's look at what we do have in the on people what we do have in the Quran is a verse in Surat Annisa verse

92 right I'm here militia hits Quranic either of jilting yeah let's go to the right so surah nisa verse 92 warm our carnal emote meaning and yocto LaMotte meaning it is not for a believer to kill a believer 11 except by mistake woman kata lemak min and hot on and whosoever does accidentally kill a believer then Fattah Herrera raka but then he can free a slave or do this whadya to Moosa

lomatin Allah Ali and he must give compensation to the family okay so does Allah differentiate there's Allah say here that there's a laissez over if it's a woman give half nah okay is there any other yeah a lot is there any other verse in which you address us with these matters what's that oh there is surah maidah a cha-cha-cha surah maidah verse 32 I

wonder what's in surah mother was maybe there's something for Monty shoddily mmm Oh Maynard literally kick it up now Allah bernie is Rahil man Cottle enough Samba hurry nafs in officered him fill all the bottle and NASA Jumeirah whosoever kills a single soul is as though he has killed mankind is it my fair distinction is there a distinction laughs what about qu t ba alaikum Monica

sauce Phil : another verse you haven't in surah Baqarah ba you have disaster written for you the horrible horrible up to be empty that Zachary will never um like for like and this was an exact reiteration of what was in the Torah that you have like for like that you will there is retaliation if there is a does Allah make a distinction no okay Sarang Sarang experiment me more

on what about a hadith do we have any hadith yes people we have some happy we have a hadith that is transmitted by Abu Hurairah by idea of the Allah and by Omar by American author of the lon we have a hadith that is in Abdul Razak you have at least three narrations if not be shaver you have two narrations in the mustard of Ahmed you have generations in Abu Dawud you have one duration in ignite bang you have one duration in dark Utne you have one narration and that is in el Muslim Mina

yeah doing allomancy well home that Muslims all one united against those that oppose them to take a Fatima the Muslims blood is equal no you don't just put somebody down just because they're a woman that they get half it's ridiculous absurd so you ask them that okay is there anything else yes people war by insulin and acai insulin and misery you have the hadith enough Salman Mena

may a terminal able for any Muslim soul the compensation of the time the prophet had said as a hundred camels okay Mon Ami Muslims believing soul not Samina in fact the word used is feminine enough Samina the Prophet didn't say oh why that cannot unser Fenice for my know this this are not nice what else people most of the Muslim scholars all accepted that if you if a man killed a woman or a

woman killed that they had if it was murder there was retaliation was there half a retaliation know that Abaddon and who are some of the older man that have challenged this before me you'll get many from right from early Islam if not Alea challenged it who was a great half it from the father of hadith you have other people they have discussed touched up on the topic even has them you have in more from the the 19th century you have muhammad abdul share freshy the RZA the great allah marvel as her you've got shared muhammad abu sahara

hamid al-ghazali ships and put all the great leaders of al-azhar coming right down to kamal we you've got chef bahador audrey obviously from from this day and age you've got a lama Javed Hamid II all these are the role of man have challenged this this analysis now people will oh but all the scholars in the past agreed once colors agreed the question is even if men did say this I'm not saying that scholars did not say this people might say this Iijima what did he mom Ahmed say man Adel aged man for what cadlib anybody who claims

age - a liar right so the fact that men said this I'm not denying that scholars didn't say this they said this but I'm asking you for an asana or an O Sunna I'm not asking you lay a koala Richard of course many men may have said this so what we should blindly follow them if they said this many of those all of those men said you can enslave people and hold them as slaves do you accept that that's ridiculous many of those people may have said things like they may have supported rape marital rape

they many of those men endorsed things like rape of slaves would you endorse that just because some man said he who lived in a medieval time even if he may have been a pious person he was a victim of his environment of people around him we do not blindly follow people I asked you for the Quran and Sunnah I asked you okay the Koran seems to be against you at least bring me a hadith bring me one of these mihari no Bukhari in these people nobody gay no vihari Muslim no Muslim in

this are bhai I would all tell me the even imagine si la lalala all of them have gone so they bring us a hadith people they bring us a hadith Masha Masha Masha Allah ah only side sorry let me help you a little let me give you the honey obstacle oh yeah I'm not gonna be able to bring daddy let me give you your evidences I'm playing both sides here come future

right so this is a hadith transmitted in Bey hockey the hadith is by Martha bin jabal allegedly the digital morale and miss him in theater Roger that the blood money of a man sorry of a woman is half of that of a man this has become know you've got buck buck rip nominees in this rewire who is naive naive Normandy me a little paleo Boozer Alba zarg nyebern I'm a hearty murder put me and say they all said life

life okay what about the statement of homework what the actual hotel Muslim at some Samantha now once again Muslim even harlot zhingia Bihar team said unacceptable Bihari said monka sorry said Cathedral hello they even bring a narration in if not be shape a saying la Yucatan Roger Bill Murray that bottle her I'm done check that out that a man will not be killed in compensation for a woman even if he

killed her intentionally yes you can write this explaining Islam not like eating rice ladies movies getting Co for Satomi Leahey a break from the berry if they get up Arianny break then maybe we can discuss these narrations I I can't believe in 2019 people who are allegedly educated in the British system

or teaching people that they have pulpits they are amount can you imagine that the women or the girls that are studying with this guy to him they are after and he's they openly teaching this in Britain in 2019 that women simply for simply simply for not having penis a half the value of men yeah yeah yeah yeah your penis gotcha Scotty aye what's this obsession phallocentric

obsession I mean humberto mothers they get yeah we've been too just cocky i boss if you have used ottoman then just look at the blasphemy that means any random so long as Muslim any local any local Muslim random guy loser who could be whoever boy he's Muslim you could take the greatest of women throughout history start people like Maria malleus and I'm prophets like the mother of

Jesus coming right down - you've got the wives of the Prophet oh my heart would want me mean the mothers of believers I shadowed the Elana all these great people - these people are worth half any random man who has a penis just for that how blasphemous is that statement that is ridiculous okay yeah at least look what the Prophet told look at look check you have these movies saying this nonsense and let's go to what the prophet of God said when he was asked men ABBA

who should I be more right for dutiful - said Oh Mac your mother and the person who said Oh your mother I mean honor your mother's yeah I mean you mother like even your eyes like your mother's worth half any guy just because the guys got oh just because he's born oh it's something that's it that is so crazy I can't believe that this this is what is being taught in 2019

yes and I'm honestly I'm so disappointed in these kind of people I asked Molly Shahid Ali gee I invite you have a dialog with