Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth 162

all right people over in al hamdulillah wa kafa or salat wa salam o allah rasool allah mustafa ala i body lead in october oh man behold our method Wahby ah sorry al madina doctor or bad for salam alikum assalam bikumu marhaban running light bienvenidos a todos para rally people who Shama deed and swagatam swagatam war

is killing on rock Ramadan Mubarak Ramadan Kareem barakallahu lakum were freaking while a comfy had a Cheryl Mubarak I mean alladhi unzila fihi what are we happy here oh we have to you have to demonstrate it that we understand the Arabic you know alright what is going on people

somebody said ye you look I'm seeing you first time ok Alamos island marhaban you don't even follow the Sunnah why people listen to you any what people listen to you oh let me check on me Facebook come to see what's going down where are you peoples all right let me just check that everybody can just wait

for that to load with my there is a have to put it on top of Freud's book I'm a cup of coffee hello you know I mean it is after all doing over Moses the monotheism in it what is going on let me move this aside people ah that's better now I can see you guys

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of you just tuning in as always people the drill like/subscribe the usual miss goes through the various parts of the drill whilst people are tuning in uh-huh looking a bit lean there all right so oh if you haven't caught up with my mind trap people I've done more than that the latest was there is also dr.

Shabbir Ahmed sorry dr. Shapiro Ali's on the so do check that out other than that people something interesting some news crossed my mind I mean cross my crossed okay I came across something interesting fascinating in UK how to tackle crime amidst this virus so first of all the wiris a big big up going out to the virus of always no way this can be just no whiter but

this was it people so check this out but as you can see that's for armed police there with weapons drawn whoever they said so serious case going down people to kick it off now yeah so my imaginations go wild because right now yet the way they're approaching with caution I'm actually thinking it's a six foot five Donnie 22 stone and he's a hundred percent ginger for sure right and he's got a tattoo of an axe on the side of both Nick right oh gosh you can see

there's armed police already there with guns right and the dog is there just in case this guy can handle holding about eight shots looking away throwing the beans man right this is very nerve-racking but I don't know who they've got and look at this woman here she's telling everyone to move back she's worried and she's moving mad nervous yeah they've vans this cars office armed police what's going on with all these resources this house right now right this has to be a you know you have

to look as you can see look at the way they look they are bation to deal with

this kind of people this see this is sometimes called the overreaction you know the overreaction to so I just got a message from doc doc you doing it you do any doc we gotta have doc back on another podcast by the way are people

already being wound up by my presence are they thinking that the shaitaan was supposed to be locked up during Ramadan and Mahathir any Mahathir Lavigne under Olay what is this what is this so people's peoples let's take a look at what some of you guys are saying some of the questions I did say I was gonna focus on some some of the live questions today is he a Mufti not a zombie mmm artistry you're doing it you're doing it

right so what is girl went down did you get the Mufti did you see the 20 year old get stopped in broad daylight in Birmingham right I I didn't I saw the video clip of it I'm very I was actually I was very saddened by just watching the clip I saw it on from it was being shared it was viral on a few different sites as well utterly it's so kind of you know when you see things like that it's so damning

of of the kind of bleak future that that there is for these people honestly I I've I I kind of almost I'm in a state of despondency and despair sometimes when I think about young guys because they this it's this kind of stuff I don't know whether on one hand people are saying maybe because we've got more social media we've got more you know recording devices that these things are being you know they're more in in in the

visual spectrum we're seeing them more just because people are recording them more whereas they haven't actually increased I don't know if that is true it is nonetheless very sad very disappointing to see it is nothing but an utter waste of life of complete disregard to the sanctity of humanity honestly these people are lost I have no idea what they're fighting over I mean I assume it's either drug-related gang-related these are the only the main

kind of things so and these are utterly I mean utterly meaningless honestly I want to say that you know some of these first of all as far as drugs are concerned the amount of hard work that some of these people put into bloody their drug-dealing racket we know rackets if they put that kind of effort and hard work into entrepreneurship I tell you that many of them would be like amazing entrepreneurs like they work some of these people work so hard it's

so ridiculous it's it's you know it's kind of mind-boggling when you think about it so it and it's such it is nothing but a poison in in the bloodline of of the communities so and it's really kind of a pandemic amongst Muslims it's amongst other communities as well but amongst Muslims for some reason Muslims are at the forefront of drug dealing I don't know why that is is it because obviously opportunity meets

availability to resources in the sense that heroin and things like that a lot of it can come from Pakistan Afghanistan those kind of places that is the main axis of the world for the largest producer of heroin is is that does that play a factor or is it just the the kind of roadman culture and things like this I mean I I don't know what it is but it is very when you see these things very disappointing very disheartening I I get you know I don't know I'm at a loss for words may Allah make things easy for people my advice to

young people that are in age range like let's say you're in the late teens going into the early mid 20s like that range of people is look these years will pass do not under any circumstances seriously do not engage with these kind of crowds even if they are your friends I mean sure you can be friends with them there's nothing not saying don't be friends but don't get involved don't you know if you know that they are gonna be doing something don't go to that place don't I mean

invest these years in something meaningful start up a business let it fail I mean it doesn't matter I mean at this age a lot of young people are living with their parents they don't have the burden of of paying mortgages or paying you know rent or doing things like that a lot of their expenses are luxurious expenses or secondary tertiary kind of expenses so you could do a start-up you can invest in learning learner skill learn anything you can this is the time this will not come back

honestly and and it will fly by just like this as well and the last thing you want is to end up you know doing these kind of things god forbid you either you get killed you end up killing some other person out there you end up rotting away in prison or spending valuable years of your life in prison these things may Allah save each and all but I would really emphasize that you know at a young age a person has a high risk X an exploratory attitude to them that they

are prepared to kind of explore things it's like Erik Erikson he puts young people in that category of low commitment high exploration and I would say put that to work learn something learn language you know if nothing learn languages I tell you that it is it will never go to waste a skill you learn in life never goes to waste honestly you will 20 years later you will 30 years later be like thank God I learnt that back then I'm telling you

it's seriously I I must have been about that age when I started learning hour week and it was it's one of the best things I did in my life honestly he set me out on a path when I began it I had no high ambitions I had no high kind of expectations I did not you know when I started learning Arabic let me tell you something people I must have been about 17 yeah something like that seventeen and a half something and I had gone to Umrah I had right so I had gone

to Umrah and I just gone with my my mother and some extended family and like a group I didn't really know much about what was going on I knew the basics I read up some basic things do this to that and when I was there I realized oh I can't speak to anyone really in Arabic I mean I could speak to some people and speak English but I couldn't speak Arabic I couldn't and when I left I came back and I thought to myself you know I'm a Muslim I adhere to this faith

Arabic is a core part of this faith the Quran is in Arabic why don't I invest some time like I thought to myself why don't I learn Arabic and at that stage in life I didn't have much going for me anyway I mean I used to work part-time and not part-time I think I'd actually finished my college thing and and was working so I started just studying Arabic and I just started eventually studying it on my own I mean I started with a few different people and then just on my own I got a book it was the only thing I used to look forward to everyday like

I used to wake up in the morning after Sabah all I used to do was for 20 minutes - 30 minutes I used to every day go through that Quranic Arabic book I used to make notes of everything and then sometimes at work when you know let's say I've got you know I'm just kind of I don't know just fiddling about doing stuff I'm just kind of just sitting there I used to work for some insurance company and in the IT thing I used to do IT for them so at that if I'm just kind of doodling doing stuff what I would start doing is practicing the Arabic charts that you

have like the the verb conjugations so we just start like you know how you're a file a file at falta for Alti file - like this and so I would just conjugate different verbs you know the roster with the different forms however you want to see steps are toaster however just keep practicing and from at this stage I had no intention that oh I'm gonna go and study and become an Hafiz or an are limb or a Mufti but and in fact if you told me I would've thought that's impossible but sometimes you take a certain path in

life and it will you know your whole trajectory has been realigned and you will never know until you get there you will think bloody ell and you know at the time I remember when I did think about start taking it a bit seriously the studies I remember speaking to a share who'd come from had come from abroad and he was doing a talk and I just asked him that sure I'm thinking of going to study what do you think and he said to me that he was an American share and hopefully I'm gonna have him on my

mind trap this week but now he said to me that look he said that studying this Deen was the best decision I made in my life he said you know if I could go back and people gave me so much money not to do it I wouldn't take it like I would this I would do this what I did and and that was like a kind of like a nail in that decision so my point for saying this is people if you are whatever age you are if you start doing something you are realigning

your trajectory you just don't know where it's gonna get to but it will get the it will change a course an entire course so yeah yes sir Allah may Allah make things easy all right so some of RIE Salik hope you're well sugar and sugar and day by day can you read my super chat hamakom a loom what I can't go as far back as I go I can't see any of the super chat so people if you do want to send any

extraordinary questions any questions extraordinaire you can send them as a super chat always right the internet was playing up today I think yeah I've heard that even when I was loading this it was playing up a little but a humble life it worked right so what is going on people what is going on somebody said Mufti checked this about Jesus's birth okay that's I can't obviously click on her hobby

Sally shoka wrong how can I just click on a link and just go off to her for all I know it's one of those dodgy links as soon as I click it the sounds are gonna go off and everybody knows what I'm talking about and the worst would be those people just about to pray taraweeh and they click and then in a state of panic the worst thing people would they do they drop their phones something like

people like me I don't what the hell is he what are you watching again and they like well I've watched Muftis mind trap episode with share cache if and he said it wasn't her arm so alright so god those those are those are some other way you see me I always have earphones on like quite often I'm always wearing my earphones or whenever I open certain

things sent on groups especially those you know the he's you know the lads groups you have to be wary say I always make sure I don't like so you're gonna get me what books are you reading listening to currently okay there's a few ah speaking of the earphones people somebody said to me you know I should review certain products not that I had that in mind but I was actually speaking I'm well into my kind of perfumes and things like that but this by the way

people just got got them again these are banging olives ins h9 the third generation oh I totally love the sound on these honestly as for you know if somebody uses earphones a lot they are a bit on the pricey side but they sound is epic honestly you know if you're a bit of an audio file you will love the sound the only thing I don't like about them is that they I've tried so many different headsets is that they you see by selecting between devices the only

lets you connect actively to to but it doesn't let you just simply change by clicking like the way bows do like bowls you can kind of just you can just click and you can have up to like nine or sometimes more devices stored and you select the one and it automatically shifts but on these that's the QC 2:35 but these the sound leaves boughs behind but that's a bit of a kind of a downer on it yeah so people's people's yeah so

I mean yeah but these are like obviously the over ears that they be regular headphones you know you can't you can't touch things like that and the noise cancellation is pretty strong but yeah become a sponsor for the colognes oh you know speaking of perfumes I absolutely I found a new runner-up people something in up up there that gets the mufti vote so my top perfumes for men this is of all times or I've and I and some on one of these I just got recently so I'll tell you about that it has to obviously be creative

enters obviously for men I love Tom Ford's ombre leather even though it's not it's kind of like a mid-range it's not he's up most so they are amongst the lead but recently I also I have to add there there's a niche if you guys are into niche fragrances for men there's from the house of de Mali latent it is amazing for men I mean I'll I have to put her up there honestly in first place its I love it

anyway they have a late and exclusive as well mmm I don't like that as much but just Layton up the domalis Layton but recently I've just acquired what I do is you see I'm really into fragrances so when I hear something about certain fragrances I get a like a D can't i'll always kind of order a small amount test them out if I like them or not and so Creed spice would Wow all I can say is it is amazing honestly it is absolutely so if you guys are into your fragrances that's

an absolute must I feel anyway yeah and there is um for women's what I've come across recently or tried out not not on me but tried out I tried out the little kind of samples for is mfk may saw Frank Francis cook Sean his backer a Roush that is actually uh I do like it to be to be fair I mean it is good but also

grunts wah is pretty good as well by the same house there you go people some perfume kind of recommendations let's move on to some questions what's going on people what's going on right somebody said try out um brain Nomad no mod I'll try that out I'm always looking for niche perfumes to try out I'm kind of addicted to it I'm like a Shopaholic honestly I am a Shopaholic why I'm like huh what's this perfume what's this one what's this I've bought so many and I thought that yeah I get them kind of samples for them

and useless useless oh good good and but yeah so yeah taboc here vanilla taboc tobacco vanilla for Tom food is is definitely up the right people what is going on somebody has asked ya Mena's asked what about Issa is not dead but protected by Allah right so right I've got a detailed video on this called a prelude to why there is no second coming of Jesus you see if you want to believe

I I don't have an objection to people wanting to believe in Jesus coming back that you know it's entirely their choice it's their beliefs it's up to them I don't really believe it I don't believe I can to me I think this is a myth that Auton in the first century - second century of Islam between there and it was inherited by the Middle Eastern Christian Arabs and it crept into Islam through Christianity combined with a number of things not just Christian it wasn't just that Muslims kind of saw

Christians and took it but it came at a time where there was political turmoil there was a floating concept of a messiah to come like this messianic vision became kind of widespread this really spread through the Shia belief Sunnis just kind of inherited it along the way initially this was a Shia thing that they will be saved by a rightly guided Mahdi to come the maddy means the rightly guided guided person the savior will come for them and for the Shiites

it made sense because you see the Shiite believe is like in a kind of like an occult belief system in which there's a lot of repression of of of of of a message so the Shia believe that because the rightful people had their rights usurped from them taken from them that somebody will come to realign everything and set it straight to set the record straight somebody will emerge this Savior this

Messiah will emerge especially in the light of bony Omega D Omega dynasty that ruled and reigned from Damascus so you see a lot of this literature emerges anteye anteye Damascus there's a lot of anti damask and literature that emerges in the several decades after like let's say up I don't know like maybe up until about 70 years after the Prophet between that time and even more but within that first century there's an immense amount of anti damask and literature that is

being circulated this a lot of sayings a lot of prophecies and so it was fertile ground for something like the return of Jesus Christ you see that seed could easily be planted in that soil in a normal situation it wouldn't be able to because people just wouldn't buy that but here a lot of people were expecting a messiah so then they told well actually the Messiah that you're expecting first it was supposed to be one of the grandchildren great-grandchildren of the Prophet

but now the Messiah that you're awaiting is none other than Jesus Christ himself so and Muslims just kind of gobble this up they just I mean I don't believe all Muslims did but many of them did like they hence the hadith that you know oh he will descend on the tower a menorah tell Baba in Damascus which by the way he didn't exist in the time the Prophet the tower was built in the time of anemia why would he land thee he would land there because he's going to destroy the damask inand Omega drool he's the Shia

are the ones who are you know pushing this so yeah I mean that that's how it began I'm not saying the Shia began this as a conspiracy I'm not saying that what I'm saying is the Shia began massively with a messianic vision this messianic vision once coupled with turbulent times political kind of tyranny exponential leaps like all of a sudden imagine you go from like Bedouin culture to an

aristocratic Empire literally in years like within one person's lifetime he would have witnessed nomadic Arabs now ruling and reigning supreme on a global level like I mean that that was unimaginable so when you put all of these things together it makes a kind of fertile medium a culture to kind

of for such theories to kind of be to kind of cultivate take root and then exponentially multiply so I hope that helps all right so so you're going against the majority view of Maliki for the minority view right okay you see look you know these things on whether Jesus is coming back or not like I said in the beginning I don't really care if you believe in it I'm not telling you to leave your beliefs and

come jump ships right so I'm just saying it doesn't really make sense from an Islamic viewpoint to me yeah if you want me to blindly follow you then according to the people the theologians myath either would be false anyway because in art either you're not allowed to blindly follow someone you have to kind of believe it so if I don't believe it I don't believe it I mean what's the point if you're gonna tell me yes but all the yard believed it he may have believed it but I mean would you want me to do I

think of macaca yeah what do you you know you're gonna say well even a roost believed it he probably did and what you know like you know so am I supposed to be a mental slave to these people just because I rate them and I called you know to me they are tons of the Maliki method it doesn't mean that now I just become blind I mean I'm sure if they would despise me as an individual to to see somebody just blindly following them I mean I so it's never you know and this is a belief issue it's it's not that

important by the way it's not despite what some so many people are saying nowadays oh my god this is so important [Laughter] cha-cha-cha so important muy muy importante porque hermano porque because you see the irony is this as well that when you look at all the material it actually makes zero sense because there is Jesus doesn't seem to have any purpose for coming back there's no zero purpose because people you know when you ask Muslims that when you ask these some people why do you believe in Jesus

coming back they say well he's gonna killed it the job but actually the hadith don't say that only a tiny one or two hadith say that the majority of them have no mention of the jail the majority of the mention he's gonna come back to rule the world as a king ha ha ha ha ha gospel a cha-cha gospel Farrar him are we teaching the Gospels Jesus will descend to rule as a just king on the King in the kingdom of God on earth a chart sunday-school I think so I mean this is my

you see so and even when you look at by the way check this out you know according to these narrations where does he kill the Jarl he by the way the gel is a useless point because as soon as Jesus comes the child is kind of mmm like an inflatable like a deflated doll just kind of dies just there he's just like you know withers away in disguise but where does he died now this is interesting right around Damascus where be Bobby lute okay Bobby lute where was st.

George killed Bob lute st. George is killed by who Diocletian Diocletian Diocletian in his age I believe it was Diocletian in his age was called the Antichrist as was Nero as well but and he killed st. George at Babel ooh and now they rule Jesus will come back and kill the Antichrist at Bar Boulud thereby avenging the death of st.

George which by the way he was supposed to have come back then at the time of st. George the Christians believed you see this is a pure Christian narrative it's got like nothing to do with like Arabia makka medina it's nothing to do it's all st. George die occasion avenging the Romans attacking the Saints it's nothing you know kingdom of heaven on earth even according to that narration when when things will get bad on earth we will Jesus take people for sanctuary Makkah no Medina no we will take them

Mount Sinai that's in the hadith okay how does anybody read this stuff it's it's pure taken out of a Christian narrative and a judeo-christian it's nothing to do with that the Islamic the kind of Arabian Arabian heritage of this theme but anyway that's my choice I don't want to believe me I don't want to believe in it look if you want to believe in it it's fine it doesn't bother me I'm not like Saint my mission to kind of convince people about these I just was asked about it so I spoke cool let's move on to some other questions

that's enough for you know this is interesting not necessarily everything in this book but I'm reading another book right now this called moan Moses and monotheism by Sigmund Freud Ziggy Freud was a legend I have to say I do I am you know III there is a macomb for Freud that I that that I hold dearly right but in this it's interesting he has he has a kind of thievery which another author that I'm reading that

book is downstairs it's called Moses and Akhenaten so Akhenaten was one of the Pharaohs the author his name is Ahmed Osman yeah I'm gonna try to reach out to him if I can get him on a podcast his theory is that Moses was Akhenaten and even if I'm not necessarily so convinced but I'm so intrigued I'm reading through the book I'm only through a portion through it yet it is in cry I'm honestly a mind blown by some of his kind of you know just the way he's doing I love seeing

thinking that is out of the box whether I agree with it or not I I just I find it so intriguing that when people think out of a box and and how they come up with theories and even if they are somewhat you know like mmm I don't fully buy or maybe or you know it's made me reconsider one or two points but not the whole thing I don't know but it's a journey people it's a journey but I am going through that right now it's very interesting he has a very different he's an Egyptian scholar who's been really looking into this for I think a few decades now and he's written several books on these he has a whole different

theory on stuff and some of it gets quite controversial but as I know more about it all kind of discuss it right Sam how do we understand a brahim ELISA Lam asking a lot to show him the revival of the birds why don't we witness miracles in our day and age to increase faith what brother has asked a beautiful question a beautiful question the brother has asked right so first of all and there was another question as well by Kapil towards the end of last mindtrap discussing halloween and

noticed he said similar to magic and genies real use quiet out of respect yeah I mean not every look okay I'll answer that question first when when I have guests on mine trap the point isn't okay I'll tell you what the point is not and what it is the point is not to try and get into an argument or a debate with these people the point is to have a discussion to let the other person express his views sometimes depending on it could depend

on many things the context it could depend on how much time we have left it could depend on anything how I'm feeling what what's the mood what I I'm a challenge certain views sometimes I may not because my views already known on this on certain issues then they're really out there on YouTube they're on so it's not about trying to catch the person out and you know try to kind of drill them or say well wait a minute what are you you know what's going on here what's going on Thea that's never that's not an objective of mindtrap so sometimes if people say things sure I might pick up on it I might kind of

question it sometimes I might not they may just be out of respect it may be that sometimes you know I don't want the other person to feel too uncomfortable because that's important as well at the end of the day even if it's virtual but they are a guest and I don't want to kind of them to feel like oh you know this person invited me life and turned it into like some kind of a an argument because that's not what I want it to be about cool most ibrahim ali salam asking a lot for the revival of the dead birds zane i have got a video on that if you

check it out i go into much detail it is not actually he does not actually kill the birds and even though many people interpret it like that but the verse actually says place juice on that a piece but this could mean a piece of the bird or one of each one of these birds on the mountaintops so what ibraheem alehissalaam he has these birds he's told that he wants to understand that you know he wants to understand life and death and he wants to understand these things that

how will you know how will people come back from the dead how will they come how how does this work and Allah says take these birds but don't just take him like here and now take care of them who are bottom in a fiery facade on a lake now this is interesting because sarunas some people said it meant kill them but it doesn't make any sense because it's for sir ona lake towards you Oh kill them towards you what the hell does that mean and sir is not a verb about killing anyway but some people try to say Oh in Syriac it meant this and in

this language it meant this but in Arabic it comes from the actual kind of the sir are the actual you know that the the tweeting and the chirping of the birds and what people do is they mimic that people who take care of birds they will kind of mimic bird cries to take care of them for so whole night awake you know nurture these birds make them and many of them are first serene will say Emile Emile what is it Emile Hoonah a lake that make them become attached to you so this must have taken

it can a lengthy a considerable amount of time maybe days maybe weeks this took maybe more maybe a few months but he nurtured ibrahim alaih-is-salaam these birds and he made them for a male owner aleyhi he kind of made them be inclined to him to have an affinity towards him then Allah says some magic Allah Allah coolly javelin that go and place a piece one on far and wide like split them up

now very far and their birds they're free to go they they can fly some mother owned now as you are far away call them they will come lying to you yet the souls have a greater affinity to Allah this was the lesson that how the how dr WA how this has a much greater affinity to God when God calls it it will reply this was the

kind of lesson that so that's how you understand some people because you see the thing is because miraculous stories are easier to kind of fly with people because people like hearing extraordinary events so along the way right so okay people if if you get dish please keep the comments relevant

otherwise you will be blocked okay but do kind of look out moderators do check who we're blocking and things like that so I hope that makes sense okay right so your answer did Salomon ELISA Lam really talked to an aunt no he didn't really talk to an aunt like that I've got a

I've got a whole video clip on that as well if you check up my video clip on the throne of the Queen of Sheba and I speak about how to approach narratives within the Quran hey zoom in and zoom out perspective do watch that it's in much detail and I explained it much better mark Long's Etta were the 7/5 Medina chosen amongst the ala ma to give fatwa or did they emerge organically could you

elaborate on the formation right a'right what is it a man connected II the man connected if he had a teeny bit Emma no man lemme acted if he had a DNA Emma this metal visa Anil hockey haja for Homer obey the law he orbit a

seaman or Abubakr Sidon Solomon O'Hara still got it that's a poem about the seven-four kaha Medina hmm people's you might think I grow old a beer right so that's the the poet says that whosoever does not follow the mouth this theme the Imams then he might as well

you know be to waste really that take them home that these are the ones obey the law here or what opossum on Sayid on Solomon abubakr Hodja now there is a difference of opinion on these who these who these seven are I think that the term seven just flies and it just sounds good it's smooth so people liked it haha Sabah they are the teachers of imam you know they contribute to the faith of Imam Malik so from them you get people like even

hormones Robby a Torah II studies with them even Arabs or he studies with them who then or teach in my Malik so it kind of funnels down but they were more as well there were people like some people said in Navi I should be in there some people said so they did disagree on some of the who who d7 you know the the Magnificent Seven who they were at the time so cool but I mean they they just kind of rose to prominence that's what if they were just tons of

the time that's all so it wasn't that it was an organic appearance if you like right do scarab romance Allah Karim of takauji career amanada barsabbas people Caribe currently an imam in the US was used to study with me in JAMA Nuria back in the days we used to share domes roommates alright I've got to get him on one of the mind traps so we can chat

about the be Nuria days right so do Saints exist in Islam hmm right those objective really exist oh right so difference between efreet and jinn in ramen yeah I mean these things are not really to clear Allah every terminal jinn losses and everyt

min al jinn what did this actually mean we see too many people it was a jinn some people felt jinn was maybe a category a kind of people if read means somebody very powerful like a powerful being powerful kind of so if if we're thinking of demons then you're thinking a very mighty powerful demon but it doesn't have to be literally from you know you can get shayateen mineral in as well like human demon so to speak

it's a metaphor but yeah so these things are not really clearly explained in the Quran somebody asked mostly what's the latest time to eat right so right there's a difference of opinion I have said if people are struggling you can go with the fatwa that you can eat up until enough time to pray your Suba before sunrise that's sufficient that I have given that fatwa that is in line with some of the Salaf some of the these a

hadith I believe from they for another Sahaba who used to say that we used to be eating wish to continue eating warn AHA and it was daylight later and Hashem slum table except sunrise hadn't yet occurred so and that was in the prophet's time for my belukha mmm you know be yo Mina hatha what do you think about today when things are so messed up and the days are so lengthy in in the West northern hemisphere so yeah mmm alright what are the summers somebody had asked about this objective really

exists I that's an interesting question I would feel that there is some form of objectivity even if it is not truly comprehended by us because without that what we're saying is there is nothing like this just every person's own subjective which there is this subjectivity how we see things then there's an inter subjectivity a shared subjectivity this intersubjectivity is

what we tend to call objectivity true it is ultimately not absolutely or categorically possible to declare it as concretize objectivity because how can we outside of ourselves measure it we can only measure it ourselves and have it verified by others who are people like us it could be that we're all programmed to see things in a certain way it could be our brains are handicapped in certain ways that they only read certain things in certain descriptions like if we're all

programmed to see I don't know like let's say the color red is blue then we will all see it like that yet we will all call it red if we're programmed to read rough as smooth or smooth as ruffle it's all all we simply a vac you know brain in a vac are we in a dream these kind of things we have no way of absolutely knowing you know except we just kind of pitch our tent if you like and and it's kind of that see you know this is what we're going with that there

is this objectivity which is our kind of shared intersubjectivity that said I believe that there is an objectivity in in the eyes of God it may not be how we see the world probably isn't but yeah if that answers your questions mm-hmm somebody said about the Quran not being what's your view on Hariram serial kisser [Laughter]

somebody said ah nothing that it teasing me naughty naughty all right so what's your view on honey nom somebody really repeating this question yeah yeah hora let me put that in timeout all right so people have just broken their fast mabrook mabrook right so let's take a look

right Salaam of T what all the opinions of classical right what classical scholars and teachers of Mahad Athene like Shah Baba on Talese also about at least in Bukhari so okay that's a very complex question I mean a very not complex but very kind of an intricate question at at least does exist definitely in albahari Imam Bihari himself has done at least probably you know arguably I think the Hobby says does does he say he's done it up to about 30 times or something but he there's definitely some of his teachers

what is it is there I think his name is Abdullah bin Ahmed even harlot who he dusted Lise off on several occasions he kind of uses different names for him or says his name in a certain way that people can't pick up on it Shabba was harsh on to the lease I do accept that he was one of the only scholars to outright declare it Haram which I don't understand why most scholars didn't to be honest but hmm I don't does that mean Shah Baba is always correct I don't think it has to mean that but I do like

his work his attitude towards at least this Mufti is brother of Majid namazi I'll have to ask my dad [Laughter] all right so Devils meant to be locked up what are you doing how authentic is the masonic of abdul razak the yeah i mean it's okay but you can check each

hadith on its own merits really somebody asked about wood satin mood yeah mfk francis cooked raw right i yeah you know what i don't actually I'm not too fond of the satin mood it's a bit too kind of rosy it's got a strong kind of like a flowery rose kind of dominant element to it really a bit to mmm I I don't like it at all to be a haha it's a bit it's not my kind of I

prefer the more woody kind of fragrances and things like that mm-hmm right explanation of the earrings I've got a detailed video on that do check it out there's no point going over that I've got mm-hmm enough team I mostly you made Solomon Solomon at much week about marital rape wouldn't it be hypocritical if you accept other hadith of this week

Ravi no no not at all you see because it's not you see this is the problem with sometimes our religious mindset like we think like robots like we think oh this person may be got this wrong this person in all life must get everything wrong I mean for God's sake just look at yourself as an individual I'm sure you get certain things wrong and you get certain things right it's not you know just because suleiman an amish in a particular had hadith i've said how much is a nightmare when it

comes to several rewired but it does that mean every single thing he narrates know so what are the golden principle is my lamb you buy Nanakuli cannot go against reason lamu holly Philemon cool cannot clash with the Quran well am you naka de la Sol it cannot approach an Islamic principle then we look at it if it does we already know there's a problem then we have to look at the illa what I call the Nara toriel pathogens [Laughter]

you think I know educated so based on that we can see the pathogen DLL at that stage okay what's you asthma has asked what's your views on him um asked him Hussein returning to the scene after being out for a year will he make a strong comeback and win his fans over again hmm could be place your bets play should I ask him for an episode on mind trap what are your thoughts let me know if you think I should ask him then I'll reach out to

him and see how that girl's if there's the junta car demand the public demand right so what are we all more Cham has asked Oh sham Oh Marsha maybe would it be permissible for one to perform Salah reciting the Quran in translated version in another language other than Arabic you see

that's interesting because there's this hmm because there are Futaba from the early orlimar like early scholars like imam abu hanifa who argued that you could because imam abu hanifa himself even though he spoke arabic obviously but was of Persian descent and his ancestors arguably lived near Kabul in Afghanistan and then they were kind of

broke down into the Middle East and and then later on imam abu hanifa was born called in man oh sorry not man see what's interesting is when you say oddly not man you've also got the Great Father mid Imam who's known also as Abu Hanifa Ali Norman and you've got not man even ather bit who's Imam Abu Hanifa so it's interesting so you have to I suppose to differentiate call you know imam abu hanifa and maybe hobby not man because

he's also known as Abu Hanifa right so imam abu hanifa did have the Fatah WA that you could to create ease I would say for person didn't know Arabic and they were trying to learn our week and then during that stage whilst they still don't know how to read like if I miss ain't I must have but let's say this was a you know most half and a person the they're struggling to read because they don't know the Arabic how to read Arabic but they're learning then meanwhile if they read in English or if they read in another language I would believe that's fine but I wouldn't

say that for life like I would I would say this ought to be a kind of substitute effort until you can recite her week because the Quran you see there's something about the Quran we have to understand that the Quran is it it's it's kind of scripture in in almost like an art mode okay it has a special

kind of ambience to it it's not I think the problem is we treat the Quran and I get this as well we treat the Quran just like a regular book except a holy book but really the Quran came in a kind of like a rhythmic almost are like expression of Scripture and I feel that there was a reason behind that you see I've let me share a thought with you people

I was watching those of you that haven't still seen money heist or what is it La Casa de papel it's obviously epic one of the best TV series ever but I was watching after I finished all finished the fourth season I was watching the they've got a documentary on Netflix called money heist the phenomenon now and it's it's going through its intervene the characters and it's very in fascinating for all the money highest funds but this is something that got me it provided an

answer to me about something which I was thinking about for a while and I couldn't quite fathom I mean I could it's like maybe fathom isn't the right word like I had the answer already but it just didn't fit and you see in in this documentary there's a part where he's asked that oh the directors are speaking about all the producers whoever is they're speaking about why was this a success a success and they speak about several things why does it resonate with people so they speak about you know because of this it represents you know

this tension there's so on exciting amazing story blah blah blah blah blah all that you know cinematography but then there's a part that they speak about symbols you see one of the reasons it was such a great success is because of the symbols it brought back now or it introduced it's not about bringing back but it introduced like an outfit it introduced a color red it introduced the

kind of Dali masks it introduced the bella ciao kind of song and sung in a passionate way it introduced the concept of resistance la resistencia this now this is credibly fascinating because human beings need symbols and you know when I was watching that all of a sudden something that was a kind of concept that was already in the back of my mind for now I think maybe

one to two years just kind of clicked and that was I don't know if you guys remember when I've reviewed the book Arabs a 3,000 year a 3,000 year history and in there he speaks McIntosh he speaks about why he feels Islam took off the way it did in the early stages and he says that you see it was it was the symbols that people it was the thing like la ilaha illaallah was a slogan

takbir things like allahu akbar even till today he highlights that people use that as a kind of cry to to attack or to do things to kind of invoke oh sorry to evoke strength allahu akbar that it was the fact they had a book the fact that they had a point of direction the qibla it was you see these things may not seem powerful but when you bring them together they

are enough to mobilize an entire civilization because people so desperately in their lives need symbols and they this resonates with them so why am i and when I was watching this this thing this thought because when I'd heard that before and it was there I I mean I made sense of it but it didn't fully click and I was watching that documentary and it just clicked and I thought wow I you know it just makes so much more it's like a lens just comes into focus

you know I suppose it's like that that hadith which isn't which is a weaker these but it it says that everything about the scholar is an act of a bada even is sitting drinking sleeping ibadat Kia hey it's because you never know what you're watching and what idea it kind of triggers in your mind so yeah so I thought wow that is so true that you know that I li kill get up and you know that that book because the concept of

the book is what is so powerful to people and it moves people and you know for four years I didn't understand that because I used to think well why do you know why do Muslims feel so passionate about the Quran yet they're not interested in learning Arabic and understanding the Quran because to them the Quran is a symbol it's the symbol of the book that is powerful as opposed to even you know the actual content even though I'm sure if you ask them they'll obviously say it's important but if you

look at the reality like they're not actually that interested in learning about it but it's the concept that mobilizes them the symbol so they're like al-kitab Allah the Lhari Buffy now this this this book so you know but yeah I mean the that's a thought I thought I'd kind of share that with you guys I'm not sure if it makes much sense if it doesn't Aloha gelateria lovers labas là-bas so what is going on

people what is going on all right let's take some questions most eSAB which serie book and tough seer book is best to read for you know I honestly don't know I I want to know I want to have to learn which which are you know tell me by the way maybe some of you guys can message me what are some good English kind of books because my English reading is usually non directly Islamic Islamic so hmm I don't know what's the best book in

English didn't say Yusef have something on Sarah am i imagining that or did he ages that was it a new course on it why are you wearing nearing what is that a symbol for Allah meeya Kamisha riccati sorry so this is it people the earring why not huh Imam al equal one people

[Laughter] yeah a you hasaki I did catch someone I will have a law firm n2p oon of some fee sure Akhilesh Allah Allah woman you're a sitar ha glioma mom Italians illa Allah

pear flavor huh mmm that's a unique blend recently I've been listening to some of these Masha hats in Arabic they've been quite interesting they're these kind of these kind of songs or poems that were written in ancient Andaluz a Muslim Spain really fascinating some of them maybe it's old age I don't know what it is I mean what I I remember these same things coming

across them like a few years back and thinking oh that's awful and now I'm like wow guess I saw kiss I saw all right so right so let's take some more questions people mom any tips on how to deal with death and grief [Music] Sanji double serious question oh I ate a

make mistake he'll team economy IT as rock guru resizes the item economy has take healthy we share Ippolito sanchita who everything got serious after I had a drink yes Salam how do we cope with death people I don't know I you know in some ways I feel maybe things like psychedelics might be an answer but on a

serious note I think the more entheogen one the ones about connecting with God I don't know I feel because don't they give people an experience of death and you experience it and then you kind of lose a fear of death gradually oh sorry but the question is how do you deal with the death of others alright so how do that is tragic I mean I I don't know actually depends on I think do you really get over there are certain things

that you may never truly get over and it seems strange like sometimes even I don't yes sir allow me Allah make things easy it is you know I suppose if somebody's gone they've gone and there's nothing except if they were dear to you except to kind of Miss them but you know maybe you can make the ah maybe you can help if they have family you can help them and I suppose they live on in your memories they live on in in in in your

kind of story of life so hmm and you have to kind of just accept it you have to I guess you know you can't they another thing is that just grieving you can't just go on in you can't kind of just throw the towel in just because that has happened in life you know you have to keep going it's such as the nature of life okay Leto Impella BG ready for us na jaana Coutinho se ho GAE Terry Johnny

Allah he says that we used to be alone even before you for us then why do we feel ever so incredibly lonely now that you have gone but I suppose some people they leave a void that can't be easily filled yes sir Allah may Allah make things easy but you want to you have to move on as well but you have to move on bring their memories with you as you move but you

can't kind of ruin yourselves as Muslims how should we navigate the impending human artificial intelligence symbiosis symbiosis how do the next generation connect to God when encapsulating virtual reality what do you think of Mohammed hijabs interview with no I'm Chomsky I haven't seen it but I'm you no no I'm Chomsky is a legend I absolutely

love him so this this is a right this is an interesting thought about artificial intelligence I I don't know I mean we it is a we already at the beginning of that how will it be in time to come I don't know probably be much worse cello let's let's see I do feel that when asked what do I feel is that the gel I've said that the gel is not an antichrist that the jelly my understanding is the great deception

that's what the term that the gel means and this great deception is when reality and virtual upload and and become almost indistinguishable and I don't feel that we are quite there but I feel that we are in we have embarked on that path somebody asked about hadith yeah about

criticizing certain chains and things do you watch my body gate I do go into that in much detail in your poor understanding ah right so the journalism aid yeah the Antichrist Dajjal I don't believe in but I believe in this thing of that they may be that they will come a time when the real and the virtual will become indistinguishable do you still write you are the deception the

ally of the jar you see this is and the irony is yet have a hadith scholar on your podcast of course why not why not plug for friends course on what living with uncertainty what is this there's a course about

living with uncertainty ten key ideas by dr. Ahmed afsal and I can't read the last one he's a tenured college professor okay sure I mean if he's any good do get him to the head or connect me with him and I'd love to get him on a podcast all right people what is going on right Daniel shukran shukran much love much love all right there was free on udemy I don't know

what that means free on udemy but yeah this guy is wasted but yet used yet here you are watching me Allah Allah what is my opinion on Quran alone Muslims okay or on verse about girls who haven't menstruated yet being okay - Marie I have mentioned that look I've got a I'm

pretty sure I've got a detailed clip on that actually um I don't know whether it's a separate clip here but I do go through it in one of my Monday nights with Mufti where I explained that look this verse that way Allah is addressing Yana be is that the locked Aman nice effort Allah who Nellie I did Tina when you divorce your women and I suppose this is through the Prophet it is meant generally that what should the divorce be like how should it be that you should

divorce them for an ADA this is the kind of purpose now Allah actually begins that verse then explaining the ADA saying that those women that you have so I can bring forth the exact verses oh

this is so small the other most office downstairs so nope it's not amiss six maybe in this [Music]

oh so small to even see one momento momento people almost chello I'll bring it up in a moment then

I now go through those verses but I have got a whole detailed explanation as it is trying to find it but my normal mu stuff is down and this is so tiny to look at it's like a pocket that I'm struggling to hear okay so so this this begins that yeah your knob you that the locked municipal liquor ooh Nelly I didn't know isolate that that when you divorce your women divorce them for their idea and then Allah mentions what

Allah Arabic omelette or aluminum in beauty in LA a written in language in a B fact and then the rules about where they spend the aid that do not just chuck them out the homes and do not do these things then it mentions that when they've reached the idea for abalone Angela uniform sick una rima Rufino further Hanabi Marouf that once you reach the idea has come to an end you it's there's no you know kind of withering about this there's no kind of wavering you either you guys reconcile or this divorce is complete and

concretize now then Allah mentions that just in case people at a time of divorce you see and if you've spoken to people that are going through a divorce and sometimes this may affect women more than men I mean it doesn't have to but I've sometimes when I've spoken to people they women have raised this question more often than men when it's about divorce that they fear that what I desperately want to leave this guy but I don't know like how will I support myself I don't have you know where will

I get money from we will I get food how will I live how will I and this is a common thing when people break away from relationships especially if they are the dependent on the other and hence that's the next verse the losses were years at home that don't that don't fear that man kana you mean Bella he William will are here or me yet Allahu Allahu Maharaja that Allah will set aside a solution where your Zuko and Allah will bring risk provision to that person mean hastily at a sip from a

perspective way the person cannot even imagine Allah will bring risk to them and then Allah mentions will mean yet to occur Allah he from her husband only you have whosoever has reliance on Allah Allah will surely have them Allah will catch them that innallaha believer America jalalahu lucretia Adara that Allah has has set everything out that he will Allah will exhaust the fa he will see it through till the end and it

mentions then you see about the aid there why because when you've got women in aid there you might have doubt about wait a minute and the women may have doubt that is this you know because it was set with menstrual cycles it mentions well it's nominal mihaela mean Nisa I come what about women who don't have a menstrual or menstruation anymore or they are kind of you know they're in a menopause state so Allah mentions that but then you see those women who are in that stage they already know that right

we already know that they will and it mentions it will mention it here shortly that it they will kind of maintain three months they will just go buy a calendar monthly calendar that it mentions in your septum fight that on a solicitor a sure that it's three months but there's a key point here that many people overlook and that is in your septum if you are doubtful like if you in a state of doubt doubt about what doubt about the fact that am i

menstruating has it stopped has it what you see because if you've got clear a clear minstrel cycle you know and then Allah mentioned well Allah meeya Huebner you see that's joined on to the three months so they in there is three months and those who who don't have these menstrual cycles now does this mean oh like little girls who don't have a menstrual cycle now true they don't have a menstrual cycle but them not having a mint menstrual cycle is a matter of

certainty like you don't doubt like they're not gonna doubt oh do they have it or don't they have it they that's not so when Allah mentions if you are doubtful in your tongue because some women they will have irregular cycles like you know and the kind of like the the variation will will be highly irregular sometimes some people you know some women may not have cycles for a huge part of a year even like so or maybe half of you or several months and they can have quite some irregularity so Allah is mentioning in the beginning just normal look have this is the either

three menstrual cycles but if you are doubtful because if you've already entered the menopause years ago then you're not doubtful you know that look I'm not gonna have mental cycles so it's not it's not they are clear where they stand but in your Tumtum if you are still have some doubt like I'm not hmm you know I don't know have I entered this haven't I entered this but I'm not having you know valetti mentions well let let me ahead 'no and they not they haven't kind of menstruated so i don't know

so they can have three months set aside three months right there's an discount the calendar months and then allah mentions what will Adam man and women who are pregnant agile una that they they think Angela and ahamill Hana now and and even then yes so and even then Allah goes on to speak about where they live and things like that and discuss those matters right so this verse to say this verse is speaking

about about little girls in all honesty just being honest with the situation it does not reflect that if you've read that with an open mind what could it be because it's talking it begins by saying women it doesn't say girls it says Missa women and then it's speaking about the idea and those who've who've who've reached yeah it's nominal mohini attam what but if you're in in a state of doubt and they're not menstruating then you can have three months so that's not some kind of gymnastics that's the actual reading of the Quran so yeah I

hope that makes some sense let me just check Ania has asked I don't pray five times anymore I just feel it's mechanical and forced I don't like feeling pressured will I be sent to hell a cha-cha-cha you're like pressure how's

the pressure of ten thousand degrees [Laughter] [Laughter] Celsius look this this Deen is is the path upon which we all walk individually okay so this Dean isn't faith is an individual journey okay

praise devotion commitment these things may mean different things to different people at varying stages of this journey and sometimes our journey our work our kind of experience is almost it's like an elasticated kind of experience like we spring out spring back in spring out spring back in some times to some people reflection pondering meditating reading learning is is an act of devotion it's

an act of worship to or to the board to some people doing thicker praying never you know keeping fasts that is an act of you know and that is clearly that's ritual worship but and sometimes some people may kind of feel that they can't pray that they can't do certain things you know that they understand it but they don't you know find themselves on that particular walking that walk for whatever reason I would say look your journey is your own

okay take your time inshallah I mean things I do feel the concept of ritual is important for human beings Allah has placed that knowingly how important ritual is sometimes I would say that that no matter where you find yourself these things are are like a kind of lifeline they like a kind of I don't it's like a rope thrown from a ship you know and you you kind of feel

that you are still connected how I feel I mean I would say that even if you don't pray sometimes you know if you don't pray take it maybe someday you will maybe I don't know I mean maybe you won't ever pray but I would say don't kind of develop a hatred for the prayer there's no pray is not to be hated everybody can slack in the prayer Imam look at great Imams in the past they abandon the prayer sometimes Imam was early abandoned it for a you know certain while there was the great you

know safe for Dina amedy they say he abandoned Salah one of the greatest or Celine but they they came back they fluctuated but they you know just didn't feel a certain point they didn't they just left it they weren't kind of but don't develop a kind don't don't kind of what I'm don't transfer negativity on to the Salah the Salah is not about being pressured if you know if somebody can only pray all his Farah it let's say he only praise them before going to sleep

fine some person they pray them they combine three at a particular point of the day and they combine to at night fine you know some person may be praise sober when they wake up whenever that is then combines the other two and then combines the other two fine I mean every person is on their own journey it's not for somebody else to really condemn them or to tell them off or to do things like

that but and the way I see Salah is it's not about praying it because you're scared this is me personally it's not about praying salat because I'm scared of being punished or I'm scared of bad luck it's about wanting to pray in the sense that like I feel you know if anything it's a tiny appreciation God doesn't need it but you know it's it's something that kind of I don't know it's a it's something that a

pulse that I remain kind of connected to even if I have to sometimes combine praise sometimes I might slack on praise sometimes I might not just like everybody else I'm no bloody you know different in that regard but I wouldn't project negativity onto the pre and I I don't personally pray out of this kind of fear of burning in hell and things like this I just pray out of a kind of sense of gratitude that's what I would say if you pray like that that's the best way to pray look somebody came to the prophet salaallah solemn and his wife actually complained about I've

narrated this story on several occasions where the wife came and she complained and said you know he doesn't let me she complained about three things of mm-hmm I think one was about giving in charity or something but I think he was controlling her wealth or something well he wasn't controlling away but he was being controlling the other was I think she wanted to keep voluntary fasts and he was objecting and the third was that that he wouldn't a couple

complaints she probably did him over she complained to the Prophet she said he doesn't even wake up for Suba hmm you be cool check him out he doesn't even pray Fajr on time so the Prophet calls this person I believe it was I believe it was

soft one even a Mista I believe but anyway calls this companion and says what's this that I'm hearing this person says about you know the charity I thought and the prophesies letter in charity don't stop her so he says okay and and the Prophet asked him was this about the fast you know past this objection towards the fast so he had said well look he was newly married and you know testosterone a bit high you

know there's some other matters one must also who can't neglect you know Babu by department so the the profit in regards to that just said to them that look they should have some mutual understanding like you know Oh take it easy to both to him and to her that look you don't need like relaxes well with the worship you don't like keep it moderate you don't need to kind of go full-on like thinking but at the same time told him to be

understanding but then asked him what's this about not praying are this no pray I know Salah so check his response out he says somebody correct me I think if Safwan even l marvel somebody saying it may have been so funny bro mater I wasn't so funny bro model the foster child of a worker anyway right so I'll remember I remember his name being Safwan the surname I've kind of forgotten right now so the Prophet asks him why don't you pray so he says that

look in an omen we are people who don't wake up except after sunrise learn aesthetically to elaborate illusions [Laughter] tada this is Chaudhry Saab saying look this is the the kind of children the kind of we only wake up where are people who only wake up after sunrise so the prophets response here is amazing that the Prophet could have said that look listen you know don't you know how the hell fireese don't you know how this is how

do you live a life of luxury how dare you refuse to sacrifice some sleep how do you but yet the prophets response was the prophesied fighters to either stay putter for suddenly he said okay when you wake up pray and that is one of the most amazing responses ever because the Prophet never said oh my god you're gonna get you're gonna burn in hell you're gonna watch what God does to you watch this watch that no I never said oh

my god you're gonna get bad luck or none of that the Prophet said either stay Qatar for Sally so and somebody said where is this hadith on that hadith I believe it's in Abu Dawood and it's in several it's in I think be happy it's in I know how he brings it as well it's a very famous hadith either stay cut off suddenly if you just even if you just do a quick search it'll come right up right so I hope that right so what's going on

what's going on people what is somebody said it is so fun if not done shukran shukran because I thought for a moment I mixed mixed them up so funny mr. hunts of a novena model so funny blue motto shukran right so right so what is going on whoa some question somebody say Mufti Moi's Moore was there super chart that I missed

mostly I and my girlfriend want to get married secretly let's bring them in life both of them I'll bet Rashad the secret Nick it's bringing both of them like that c-class lit they're set these people a chive on to get married secretly is it okay because we're not harming anyone [Laughter]

you know I should be a judge we're not harming anyone in our secret marriage is agreed by us but not by parents hmm you see I've got a response on this before in much detail but what I would say is that look these things you see people

have to make a sensible decision okay you see I've said before I don't believe things like mota are haram I don't believe things like I've got a detailed video where i speak about Nika with a willy is a Woolies a guardian a condition for any car now like you're asking the question the parents don't know or they don't they won't agree I don't know I'm guessing it could be one or the other what I would say is

that look sometimes parents can be unnecessarily stubborn they can be very kind of dogmatic they can cause a lot of you know they can be like that and I get that and you know and I understand that they don't have a right in that sense to stop other people from trying to live their lives on the same token what I would say is that you know for some girls maybe this is not for all maybe this varies amongst people but

look if you you have to be real and be sensible as well because you are taking a risk with this guy because I'm gonna be honest that most I say open look most guys or dogs okay so now I don't you know if this is a relationship like let's say a guy in a girl have an understanding that they like each other and they understand that this may not go some way long term and they want to be in a relationship and they both accepting of that like they recognize

that but they like each other and they want to be intimate and they want to have a relationship like let's say for that period of time okay as consenting adults I would say fine you know they I would feel that the Sharia does give that permission to them it's not Haram in Islam however some people may not be that kind of mature especially and I don't mean this in a way to infantilize people or to say that for example boys or girls are dumb it's not an issue of being term but sometimes some let's say

let's say a girl and I'm using I'm aiming this at the girls because society's is harsher unfortunately towards girls so if a girl is madly in love with a guy and she's thinking that I'm gonna do a secret make out with him and I don't care my parents can go to hell and they can go to hell and they can go to hell and you know I'm just gonna live with him and we're gonna oh it's gonna be heaven and but why can't he do an open then you know why can't he just do it open why secret because she's gonna say well you know because then there's gonna be a backlash

and I just wanna I know this ain't gonna really go anywhere and we're just doing it like that okay but then you are taking that responsibility because let's say six months down the road he says well now this Jessica is over just kibosh just God and he says this you know this kind of like excitement is now now this excitement not too exciting now excitement need new excitement at that point he's saying yeah you know mm-hmm

you know I'm not that you know I'm bit desensitized here I needed somebody else you see and and the problem is that that may very well happen in these societies in society not these in society and you have to will you have to understand that you are taking on that responsibility now if you are going to be crushed if you're met with such a situation then I will you know then this is the point that you have made that decision so I would say that look don't treat these things lightly I

understand that in some situations parents are just being so harsh unnecessarily and you may have to make a decision in life I get that but I'm not so fond of the whole secret secret thing but I understand that they may be situations where people may say look it's not secret but we're not you know shouting at the top of our throats about it and that's fine but remember you have to bear that responsibility like I would say let there be some kind of transparency not are you thinking just in case you're thinking that oh this is he's gonna stick with me through thick

and thin and he's thinking this is a spring term thing you know and that kind of heartbreak might be devastating and you might you know and then you're kind of like you don't know who to turn to you don't know so what I'm saying is just be sensible look your decision is your decision nobody I don't feel people have the right to rob that from you but at this but I feel it's important to say with that decision does come responsibilities don't later on kind of say well oh you know oh my god like you you have to make that

decision and and look at it look worst-case I embrace it and then fair enough if you're happy with that then that's what I would say but be be a realist ok so that's what I I want to kind of so if a girl is happy to embrace it like that like you know sometimes some women may already be for example they've got mothers they may have you know they may already be in a certain lifestyle that they're happy like they don't you know they've got a career they focused on business or they focused on studies or they got maybe children or a child or they you know they let's say a relationship they've

already had it's over and they don't mind having a relationship like that or maybe a good woman isn't even in those circumstances and doesn't mind but if what I'm trying to say is if you are expecting this kind of vision of a knight in shining armor and we're gonna have all these amazing kind of you know coffee with Bay and in the Bahamas with Bay and I don't know what you big on say Aria t veggie base what we used to say in our language we say for like for mum

I mean say a me but like be sunny be it's like coffee with me so all of this so I'm just saying you know take that into consideration because if you fall you know if you hit the ground you're gonna hit it hard so be wary that's all right a video by Atlantian Gardens GABA symbolizing the feminine aspect of God before patriarchy cover-up history black cube is ancient feminist symbol everywhere black cube yeah I mean they

say that the black cube represented some of them have said I mean they disagree amongst themselves some have said it was dual Shara do Shara who was bald shaman who was a masculine deity but then some have said a cube symbolized OSA as well it symbolized her feminine who I think they also linked to autumn as' and and some other female deities and things like that but yeah I mean the the feminist or feminine I

don't know the feminist feminine symbol is still present in many things but I don't think that hmm I don't know if the cab the Kaaba is the Kaaba a feminine symbol or if is it hmm I don't know I suppose Kappa is feminine in Arabic I suppose I can see that I can see that in some ways that being feminine in the sense that it's it's the word is feminine Kappa how deal capital MOBA Raqqa for example the fact that it's

clothed and the concept of clothing let's say covering up because the kiswa means a clothing that they put over it casing of the black stone I mean I can see that kind of if you in a symbolic term I can kind of see that who'd who I mean who is there that doesn't surrender to to the feminine to the power of the

feminine ultimately uh it's where all strength just kind of like crumbles to its knees alright so circle is feminine okay is it okay I don't realize circle yeah I suppose so with women's kind of circular their cycles and hmm I can see but yeah I mean I I don't know whether in Islam it definitely I can see that

femininity associated with the Kaaba but I don't know whether it's so strong only stands out it hasn't really generally to me but I can see that to be fair I have pondered historically over the concept of the kiswa why dress the Kaaba I have actually thought and found that a bit strange at times but yeah mmm can the follower of a hanafi madhhab do roughly then yes they can they can yeah although the although the

[Music] hanafis won't be too pleased about it sorry to be so rude what's the root thing yeah I need to somebody saying love you must love you too yeah Nadia Morita right so exactly mostly the power of the feminine crumbles every man and child it does I definitely believe that I feel that the power of and I feel sometimes that you know don't don't you

like even the aggression you know sometimes I think how can I say certain things without them coming across I think sometimes even we see a man and a woman the the the the the Union the Union the Blessed union I think I can see why certain psychoanalyst so people they speak about during the the hold the sexual the act that in with many men let's say if there is a kind of like a

without it being too forceful like an aggression let's say is that not to regain a sense of power because they feel so powerless in front of the feminine form is that not that they feel that that kind of this empowers them and that kind of like rage or ardent rages but that kind of force that eruption of of male prowess and power is to kind of

regain that power I don't know I I felt that that that there's a lot of truth to that that it's because men feel so disempowered by in many occasions by women who physically may be you know that they not as powerful as the men physically but they feel that how can they be so disempowered by this by this figure by this person by this room and and the that's that kind of triggers a a turbulence a kind of turmoil within and sometimes that can result in hatred if

miss channeled towards women so sometimes you see in certain cultures people chastise women they kind of like if a woman is so beautiful and you know you see in certain cultures they will try to disfigure them throw acid and things like this pop you know barbarity in its most ugliest form and I feel that is because of their own insecurities to handle this kind of this balancing this imbalance of power within themselves I don't know that some psychobabble talk but I feel that that there's a lot of

truth to to things like that hmm tabatha musty sob up key age Kumari age port-au-patois 41 now that's right so mostly trying to get with the femme not trying to get with the feminist I'm trying to understand my that the aggression within

can see he argue bacteria from welcome this fire why this oh why is it so this is why I think it is somebody said well you look 40 well a year younger than I am I guess how do you cope with anxiety panic attacks what do you think is the best way to cope you have to calm yourself I'm not sure what

the panic attack is about it could be an emotional event I don't know so I suppose it could be a one-off but generally if you're somebody that generally gets into you have to really come to you know come to terms with that place I challenge you to an arm wrestle Mufti I'd lose with help I need that strength the sperm goes around seven

times around the egg a cha-cha-cha maybe paint glory everything cool here's somebody trying to black is llama size fertilization hmm so what is going on people what is going on whoa we've gone on right I did want to speak about this whole tariq jameel saab thing let me bring this up people so there's been a lot of there's been a huge backlash to

this Maulana tariq jameel saab event so what's happened let me give you a backdrop there's been a speech that was done by Maulana tariq jameel he was called on a kind of platform I'll play a few minutes of it and it's triggered a huge kind of backlash people saying that always being misogynistic what he was doing is it was a kind of a live event to raise it was a charity event I believe to raise money and he was called on to do to make dua at the end now in the door I was very emotional to are he did and he spoke about certain things and he

criticized the media he that they need to stop spreading falsehood and lies and and he spoke about modesty and this triggered a lot of people especially a lot of women there was a backlash like things like this Shareen Missouri I'm not sure who that is but she says simply absurd for anyone under any guys to even suspect the covert pandemic is a result of women wearing short sleeves or because of private schools universities misleading the youth it's utterly unacceptable and it's a misogynist mindset behnazir says tariq jameel comments about immoral

women and corona sum up the thinking of most clergy in Pakistan and dare I say the Prime Minister himself vah vah vah some other comments went on to say some person said I think the women have gone mad he never blamed women for the pandemic please watch it again so a woman saying that people have misunderstood there was take a look at

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mind on whether you've what you feel has kind of happened is he really those those comments all this kind of hate that he's that he's been facing in my understanding honestly I look I don't necessarily generally have to agree in outlook with Maulana tariq jameel Saab but in all honesty I think that you see he didn't really I don't think I didn't feel that he was blaming women in saying that oh this is woman's fault that

coronavirus has come but he was trying to say that look in times of calamity we need to return to this is what I felt that we need to also use this as an opportunity to inspect our own morals are we being truthful why are we full of lies why is there in the fight the final point although I didn't include much of that about risque Hallel that having halal means of income not kind of conning people not taking bribes and in between he mentioned about modesty now he did say that look who is it that makes the daughters of this country dance and who makes them do this and wear these kind of clothes and and then he does say that now look I would feel

although we can disagree on certain things we can disagree on certain 50 views we can sit but generally whether by and large you agree or not I think some kind of approaches or some aspects are important in society that they whether we you know we we completely identify with you or not like him I can understand if he only goes on about women but he didn't and that most of that talk just that that was I think about a 1617 minute talk and that was just I think about three

minutes or two minutes where he mentions about the women but he doesn't just say women he says look modesty is going and people are you know what's happening and then he says and what can we do anyway you know you can never impose these are things which have to come from the heart I I would personally support Maulana tariq jameel Saab I I feel he is one of the only scholars that has ever worked for unity amongst different sects I feel that he is one of the only people to publicly on media say that look he said a great media channel person approached me and he said advise me and he said I

said stop telling lies that was at the beginning of that speech and he said the person said well if I shut the lies down I might as well shut the channel down he said the lies won't stop but the channel you know will will come to an end and and I feel that even if I disagree with certain things like let's say him saying let's say he he feels music is Haram let's say I don't know whether he does I think he may feel and I don't feel that music is Haram I would still feel that a person that kind of a voice that says certain things called people to certain views even if they're different to my

views but from a very caring kind of like angle I feel is important in society you see I think because people whether we agree with the ins or outs they need these general reminders just to reflect I don't know that's what I I feel so even if I disagreed with Maulana tariq jameel on certain particulars but I would feel that as a universal that this kind of a voice is an important necessary voice in society you know something that makes people reflect something that

makes people kind of think at times and I didn't feel that he was being misogynistic I'm be but that said he actually came on TV since then and he issued in himself he stated an apology he said that look I apologize if I hurt anybody's feelings and and he says I I'm he said he says he made a mistake he shouldn't have even said that and I think that is so big and telling of him that he can actually do that that because he's you know he's huge as a name to come and openly admit to look say okay I made a mistake hands up but I didn't even really think that he was

being that bad and I didn't think he was saying or women with the cause of although to be okay if you know he kind of did mention that look oh we need to wear as modesty gone and so on but there's nothing wrong in having a message about modesty you see because it's interesting because we have to remember that this sometimes there's certain things we might do them but we don't want them done as rules in society like like let's say with your children so like I don't believe personally it's Haram this way I you know I don't mean swearing at people but just generally profanity in it's like if I said ah if

this man well I don't think that's Haram but I wouldn't want to do that in front of my children and I wouldn't want them to be using profanity in front of me like so I you know this this etiquettes I guess you know this like propriety this this certain each setting has a kind of guidelines if you like that these rules and and it's good to have some of these things in society even if on a level of particulars you may disagree with certain things but to have them I don't know that's maybe I don't know maybe people disagree with me on that but I I feel that these voices are

still important voices in society and he's not in like a Taliban voice he's not like somebody like beat him down and in fact he even said look nobody should ever try to impose these things he gave the example of when I was a said when he used to be in school or college or wherever it was they used to you know somebody used to impose a lot of these to pray without Woodall so this was his point so I right I I don't know I I feel that my thoughts on this right people I think we got to wrap this up somebody said the Quran says don't use foul language yeah hmm

right so the Quran generally is teaching about saying good words but that's in addressing other people it's like when I'm speaking to you like if I swearing at someone maybe haram if you're trying to insult them swear at them but just swearing in and of itself I don't feel is Haram it's just it's just words isn't it it's just an expression it's not uh it's not something and I've got a detail I'm sure I've got a detailed video on that anyway that you have to remember in their own way the Salaf used to swear in their wrong way you know they obviously

Swiss have changed over the day in age today's ways are quite sexual in the past they were more to do with curses and damnation and death and things like that so swears are always to do with the taboo of the age it's not to do with how they always work right guys let's wrap this up there were some questions on taraweeh how much there are we should a person pray somebody had asked according to the Malachy method the school of Medina and the school of Medina doesn't consider there are we to be an a Sunnah like that it just considers it to be kind of yeah established by this from now but it's it's not like emphasized

sunnah or something like that they so they will consider it mustahab which means that yes it was shown by the Prophet but it wasn't something that the prophet salaallah son necessarily that you need to do in that sense or it wasn't that emphasized but it's a good thing it's a good practice so it's a it's enough lee ebody the male Kia so the Maliki I have obviously obligation formed then they have Sunnah which is that which the Prophet did or he made apparent he some say that he did in a Gemini but others say he continuously did worth about Ali and

then you have muster hub in the Maliki math hub a man dupe as well they can call it now this is what is recommended now this it's usually a lesser you can call it a lesser some name if you like it's something that the Prophet encouraged but in he may not have always done it he mean like so the Prophet may have said you know after let's say like after we do praying to Rakhal when you go into a Masjid you should pray 2 rakaat here to the Masjid these things the Prophet encouraged but it's not like he that he always stuck to this or he made it's like an absolute habit and the

other methods differentiate so the hanafis have much more categories they have like fard wajib sanam Akkad mark that mustahab god knows where they bring their Muslim because they muster hab is not even from the Sunnah which is like well how can we recommend it if the Prophet never even tortilla but anyway that's not to Hanavi bash but the point is so the Maliki muster hub is that which the hanafis would call probably sooner or soon a red marker that both of these Sooners would probably fall into

this and maybe they were jibs on some of this on the market that might fall into our zone so taraweeh is just muster hub it's just recommended it's not even a strong Sunnah so if you pray alhamdulillah it's good it's not something you demonstrate your Eman it's not because wow you're so holy you pray Terraria if you pray it's great if you don't you don't right so what what I would say is that within the school of Medina there's no set number Antalya so but could even ought to be all these people they write about taraweeh that there is no set number a

person some people have said you can even pray to like see the admins are Roarke and other people have commented on this you can even pray to or some people say okay why not pray eight that's what comes in hadith Imam Malik in the motto brings two hadith that one he brings where they prayed eight in the time of Umar one way they prayed 20 in the time of Omar and Imam Malik brings them both and I feel that the reason he does that is to demonstrate the number isn't set in the time of Imam Malik himself people say that arguably they say he they prayed 36 in the Masjid Omar ibn

Abdul Aziz had set 36 and this was just that they were praying much shorter erica art and they were praying more ricard so he's about the same kind of time Imam Malik himself never used to pray in the mosque and he himself when he was asked about taraweeh he said I don't think people should pray he said I don't say to pray in a mosque but I think the mosques some people should be praying it so the mosque shouldn't be abandoned but generally he said it's better to pray at home but I understand in this day and age people ain't gonna really pray at at home so if they want to pray in the mosque that's that's great obviously right now this coronavirus so that's not happening if

you want to pray virtual tour are we you know if it's the only way that you're gonna feel really motivated then I feel that's fine you can do it I know this huge actor laugh most people don't allow it reason I would say it's fine apart from some people that have written on it like sidi bou faith ahmed al Hamadi has a reseller called elec nafisa haughty salatul juma Halfin mithya we speaks about this proving that you can pray Juma a virtual Juma but I would say because look taraweeh is ultimately just Knuffle anyway it's a voluntary prayer I don't see the big deal what's the big deal like it's your own prayer anyway

even if you're following the TV or whatever is it's still your own salah that you're praying and given the circumstances of the pandemic i would feel if that helps you it's permissible people right with that let's wrap this up if there's any issues if you've got any ideas suggestions for mind trap if you've got people do you think are interesting and interested ask them hook me up inshallah with them you can always reach out to me on Instagram on Facebook Messenger if you haven't already liked my let me bring

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