Some...Weird Wedding Practices -Mufti Abu Layth

But in many Arab cultures, hopefully this is a dying trend now, but they have a custom that people are all waiting outside and they will then take out the bed sheet and whilst so they'll go in and then precisely 37 seconds later they will send out the bed bed sheet and the bed sheet will have the kind of hymen blood on it.

And that's disgusting, but this is what they and then they kind of take it round and they kind of like go I don't know how they do that, but they and they they take this around and everybody's looking at that sheet. Like, yeah, this is epic. That must be so embarrassing. What the hell? What the hell is that about? So so that's uh that's in a few Arab cultures, believe it or not.

And hopefully, I think it's a dying trend now, so I think with the younger generation cuz that's got to be so awkward. That's got to be like, you know, every That's not even just the parents and siblings. That's like everybody's in the house. And the dad's like that's my boy in there. Mhm. Yeah.

All right. We're rooting for you. And and this puts immense pressure on the girls that are not virgins or that have lost their hymen, for example, due to other things. A hymen can break due to other reasons as well, people. It's not It's not necessary that it has to only you know, it could break with exercise, for example, certain exercises that a girl could do could break a hymen.

Um and and so or I mean, even if she wasn't a virgin, but the point is and it places immense plesh pressure. Pleasure. Pressure. I was saying pressure, people, pressure. Behave. Naughty, naughty. So, this is So, it places immense pressure on the couple.

And then sometimes there's crazy stuff like they'll divorce the girl if she's not a if she's not a virgin or sometimes they'll And And you'll hear stories of people sometimes will place other blood like they'll cut themselves and put blood just to show to the people that she was a And then sometimes you'll get women that will undergo kind of hymen surgery to replay to replace an artificial hymen uh for things like this.

It's crazy. The world The world, people. What is going on? What is What is going on with this ummah? Right. So, we need to seriously get a grip. Right. So, Well, that's what's going on with some of the customs. What else is going on in the world, people? What else? Well, what's going down with