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  <title>Mufti Abu Layth Archive: fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct</title>
  <subtitle>Answers on fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct, newest recording first.</subtitle>
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  <updated>2021-04-06T00:00:00Z</updated>
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    <title>Does Mufti Abu Layth have any scholarly precedent for his views?</title>
    <link href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/zz85auzek5w/s/31/" rel="alternate" type="text/html" />
    <id>https://muftiabulayth.org/r/zz85auzek5w/s/31/</id>
    <updated>2021-04-06T00:00:00Z</updated>
    <published>2021-04-06T00:00:00Z</published>
    <category term="dialogue-responses-to-critics" label="dialogue/responses-to-critics" />
    <category term="fiqh-public-law-and-governance-hudud-and-punishments" label="fiqh/public-law-and-governance/hudud-and-punishments" />
    <category term="fiqh-speech-and-everyday-conduct" label="fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct" />
    <summary type="text">Does Mufti Abu Layth have any scholarly precedent for his views?
His views have respected precedents: al-Burzuli, a Maliki Shaykh al-Islam, held that punishments change with the age, and the subcontinent scholars he quotes were Ahl al-Hadith, not heretics. Not every untrue statement is a sin punished with hell.
Answer from 6 April 2021 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors
Kind: general teaching
Recording: Monday Nights with Mufti #209 | Q&amp;A Unscripted &amp; Unrestricted! 😉 | Mufti Abu Layth (at 3:10:56)
Watch on YouTube at 3:10:56: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZ85AUzeK5w&amp;t=11456s</summary>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Does Mufti Abu Layth have any scholarly precedent for his views?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;His views have respected precedents: al-Burzuli, a Maliki Shaykh al-Islam, held that punishments change with the age, and the subcontinent scholars he quotes were Ahl al-Hadith, not heretics. Not every untrue statement is a sin punished with hell.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Answer from 6 April 2021 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kind: general teaching&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recording: Monday Nights with Mufti #209 | Q&amp;amp;A Unscripted &amp;amp; Unrestricted! 😉 | Mufti Abu Layth (at 3:10:56)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZ85AUzeK5w&amp;amp;t=11456s"&gt;Watch on YouTube at 3:10:56&lt;/a&gt; · &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/zz85auzek5w/s/31/"&gt;Open the segment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
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  <entry>
    <title>Can I have a close non-Muslim friend and answer his salam?</title>
    <link href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/cnwajt1i9bo/s/1/" rel="alternate" type="text/html" />
    <id>https://muftiabulayth.org/r/cnwajt1i9bo/s/1/</id>
    <updated>2021-03-10T00:00:00Z</updated>
    <published>2021-03-10T00:00:00Z</published>
    <category term="relationships-friendship-and-social-life" label="relationships/friendship-and-social-life" />
    <category term="dialogue-views-on-contemporary-scholars" label="dialogue/views-on-contemporary-scholars" />
    <category term="fiqh-speech-and-everyday-conduct" label="fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct" />
    <summary type="text">Can I have a close non-Muslim friend and answer his salam?
Mufti Abu Layth rejects as ignorance and nonsense the view that a Muslim cannot have a close non-Muslim friend or return his greeting. Assim al-Hakeem's answer in the clip, that only acquaintances are allowed and a non-Muslim's salam gets a smile at most, is the view being replied to.
Answer from 10 March 2021 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors
Kind: general teaching
Recording: Reply to Sheikh Assim on Having Non-Muslim Friend | Mufti Abu Layth (at 0:01)
A more recent answer on dialogue/views-on-contemporary-scholars exists (22 February 2023): https://muftiabulayth.org/r/mofs_0ugn4e/s/1/
Watch on YouTube at 2:37: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CnwAjt1i9Bo&amp;t=157s</summary>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Can I have a close non-Muslim friend and answer his salam?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mufti Abu Layth rejects as ignorance and nonsense the view that a Muslim cannot have a close non-Muslim friend or return his greeting. Assim al-Hakeem's answer in the clip, that only acquaintances are allowed and a non-Muslim's salam gets a smile at most, is the view being replied to.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Answer from 10 March 2021 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kind: general teaching&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recording: Reply to Sheikh Assim on Having Non-Muslim Friend | Mufti Abu Layth (at 0:01)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A more recent answer on dialogue/views-on-contemporary-scholars exists&lt;/b&gt; (22 February 2023): &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/mofs_0ugn4e/s/1/"&gt;Should scholars publicly condemn a scholar said to have joined in a libation ritual?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CnwAjt1i9Bo&amp;amp;t=157s"&gt;Watch on YouTube at 2:37&lt;/a&gt; · &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/cnwajt1i9bo/s/1/"&gt;Open the segment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Is it haram to flip a coin to make a decision?</title>
    <link href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/l4n4wd2jjps/s/36/" rel="alternate" type="text/html" />
    <id>https://muftiabulayth.org/r/l4n4wd2jjps/s/36/</id>
    <updated>2021-02-09T00:00:00Z</updated>
    <published>2021-02-09T00:00:00Z</published>
    <category term="fiqh-speech-and-everyday-conduct" label="fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct" />
    <category term="belief-dreams-and-visions" label="belief/dreams-and-visions" />
    <summary type="text">Is it haram to flip a coin to make a decision?
Mufti Abu Layth says flipping a coin is not haram, but important decisions should be made by reasoning, not by a coin or a dream. Mufti Abu Layth says flipping coins is not haram.
Answer from 9 February 2021 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors
Kind: general teaching
Recording: Monday Nights with Mufti #201| Q&amp;A Unscripted &amp; Unrestricted! 😉 | Mufti Abu Layth (at 3:16:17)
A more recent answer on fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct exists (6 April 2021): https://muftiabulayth.org/r/zz85auzek5w/s/31/
Watch on YouTube at 3:16:17: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l4n4wD2jjps&amp;t=11777s</summary>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Is it haram to flip a coin to make a decision?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mufti Abu Layth says flipping a coin is not haram, but important decisions should be made by reasoning, not by a coin or a dream. Mufti Abu Layth says flipping coins is not haram.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Answer from 9 February 2021 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kind: general teaching&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recording: Monday Nights with Mufti #201| Q&amp;amp;A Unscripted &amp;amp; Unrestricted! 😉 | Mufti Abu Layth (at 3:16:17)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A more recent answer on fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct exists&lt;/b&gt; (6 April 2021): &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/zz85auzek5w/s/31/"&gt;Does Mufti Abu Layth have any scholarly precedent for his views?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l4n4wD2jjps&amp;amp;t=11777s"&gt;Watch on YouTube at 3:16:17&lt;/a&gt; · &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/l4n4wd2jjps/s/36/"&gt;Open the segment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
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  <entry>
    <title>Can I take back a promise I made to Allah?</title>
    <link href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/jtyem-eee78/s/8/" rel="alternate" type="text/html" />
    <id>https://muftiabulayth.org/r/jtyem-eee78/s/8/</id>
    <updated>2020-09-22T00:00:00Z</updated>
    <published>2020-09-22T00:00:00Z</published>
    <category term="fiqh-speech-and-everyday-conduct" label="fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct" />
    <summary type="text">Can I take back a promise I made to Allah?
Mufti Abu Layth answers in jest: don't worry, take the promise back.
Answer from 22 September 2020 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors
Kind: general teaching
Recording: Monday Nights with Mufti #183 | Q&amp;A Unscripted &amp; Unrestricted! 😉 | Mufti Abu Layth (at 43:54)
A more recent answer on fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct exists (6 April 2021): https://muftiabulayth.org/r/zz85auzek5w/s/31/
Watch on YouTube at 43:54: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jTYEM-eEe78&amp;t=2634s</summary>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Can I take back a promise I made to Allah?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mufti Abu Layth answers in jest: don't worry, take the promise back.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Answer from 22 September 2020 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kind: general teaching&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recording: Monday Nights with Mufti #183 | Q&amp;amp;A Unscripted &amp;amp; Unrestricted! 😉 | Mufti Abu Layth (at 43:54)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A more recent answer on fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct exists&lt;/b&gt; (6 April 2021): &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/zz85auzek5w/s/31/"&gt;Does Mufti Abu Layth have any scholarly precedent for his views?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jTYEM-eEe78&amp;amp;t=2634s"&gt;Watch on YouTube at 43:54&lt;/a&gt; · &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/jtyem-eee78/s/8/"&gt;Open the segment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Why does the Quran talk about something as small as the Prophet's dinner guests?</title>
    <link href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/a6h5lye4mn8/s/17/" rel="alternate" type="text/html" />
    <id>https://muftiabulayth.org/r/a6h5lye4mn8/s/17/</id>
    <updated>2020-07-14T00:00:00Z</updated>
    <published>2020-07-14T00:00:00Z</published>
    <category term="quran-tafsir" label="quran/tafsir" />
    <category term="wellbeing-character-and-virtue" label="wellbeing/character-and-virtue" />
    <category term="fiqh-speech-and-everyday-conduct" label="fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct" />
    <summary type="text">Why does the Quran talk about something as small as the Prophet's dinner guests?
They are not trivial: the verse teaches that small transgressions like imposing on people matter, and such etiquettes build a healthy society. Mufti Abu Layth says the verse on the Prophet's dinner guests shows that micro-transgressions such as imposing on people are not to be disregarded, and that these etiquettes are building blocks of a healthy society.
Answer from 14 July 2020 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors
Kind: general teaching
Recording: Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth 173 (at 1:06:38)
A more recent answer on quran/tafsir exists (18 October 2025): https://muftiabulayth.org/r/onzjd7xmdhe/s/30/
Watch on YouTube at 1:06:38: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a6H5lYE4MN8&amp;t=3998s</summary>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Why does the Quran talk about something as small as the Prophet's dinner guests?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;They are not trivial: the verse teaches that small transgressions like imposing on people matter, and such etiquettes build a healthy society. Mufti Abu Layth says the verse on the Prophet's dinner guests shows that micro-transgressions such as imposing on people are not to be disregarded, and that these etiquettes are building blocks of a healthy society.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Answer from 14 July 2020 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kind: general teaching&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recording: Monday Nights with Mufti Abu Layth 173 (at 1:06:38)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A more recent answer on quran/tafsir exists&lt;/b&gt; (18 October 2025): &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/onzjd7xmdhe/s/30/"&gt;Why are two of the daily prayers recited silently when 17:110 says not to be silent?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a6H5lYE4MN8&amp;amp;t=3998s"&gt;Watch on YouTube at 1:06:38&lt;/a&gt; · &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/a6h5lye4mn8/s/17/"&gt;Open the segment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Is it wrong to preach modesty to society?</title>
    <link href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/gam6nytozdg/s/3/" rel="alternate" type="text/html" />
    <id>https://muftiabulayth.org/r/gam6nytozdg/s/3/</id>
    <updated>2020-04-28T00:00:00Z</updated>
    <published>2020-04-28T00:00:00Z</published>
    <category term="dialogue-views-on-contemporary-scholars" label="dialogue/views-on-contemporary-scholars" />
    <category term="fiqh-speech-and-everyday-conduct" label="fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct" />
    <category term="society-women-and-gender" label="society/women-and-gender" />
    <summary type="text">Is it wrong to preach modesty to society?
There is nothing wrong with a message about modesty: like avoiding profanity in front of children, social propriety has a place even when one disagrees on details. Tariq Jamil's apology, he says, was big of him. Mufti Abu Layth says there is nothing wrong in having a message about modesty.
Answer from 28 April 2020 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors
Kind: general teaching
Recording: Maulana Tariq Jamil on Media, Modesty &amp; Women | Mufti Abu Layth (at 9:52)
A more recent answer on society/women-and-gender exists (10 March 2023): https://muftiabulayth.org/r/vhqvm47pns0/s/14/
Watch on YouTube at 9:52: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GAm6NYtozDg&amp;t=592s</summary>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Is it wrong to preach modesty to society?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;There is nothing wrong with a message about modesty: like avoiding profanity in front of children, social propriety has a place even when one disagrees on details. Tariq Jamil's apology, he says, was big of him. Mufti Abu Layth says there is nothing wrong in having a message about modesty.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Answer from 28 April 2020 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kind: general teaching&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recording: Maulana Tariq Jamil on Media, Modesty &amp;amp; Women | Mufti Abu Layth (at 9:52)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A more recent answer on society/women-and-gender exists&lt;/b&gt; (10 March 2023): &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/vhqvm47pns0/s/14/"&gt;Who carried on Imam Malik's teaching after him?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GAm6NYtozDg&amp;amp;t=592s"&gt;Watch on YouTube at 9:52&lt;/a&gt; · &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/gam6nytozdg/s/3/"&gt;Open the segment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Do women really curse more than men, as the hadith says?</title>
    <link href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/tfzo7s3t_8o/s/4/" rel="alternate" type="text/html" />
    <id>https://muftiabulayth.org/r/tfzo7s3t_8o/s/4/</id>
    <updated>2018-07-29T00:00:00Z</updated>
    <published>2018-07-29T00:00:00Z</published>
    <category term="hadith-false-and-fabricated-about-women" label="hadith/false-and-fabricated/about-women" />
    <category term="hadith-authentication-text-criticism-and-reason" label="hadith/authentication/text-criticism-and-reason" />
    <category term="fiqh-speech-and-everyday-conduct" label="fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct" />
    <summary type="text">Do women really curse more than men, as the hadith says?
No: Mufti Abu Layth says men swear more than women across cultures and ingratitude is shared by both, so the report's reasons are factual errors. Mufti Abu Layth says the report contains a factual error, since men always outperform women in swearing in every culture.
Answer from 29 July 2018 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors
Kind: general teaching
Recording: Hadith Analysis: Did the Prophet ﷺ Refer to Women as Lacking Intellect and Faith? (at 16:41)
A more recent answer on hadith/authentication/text-criticism-and-reason exists (19 August 2022): https://muftiabulayth.org/r/t0phqrnjjby/s/17/
Watch on YouTube at 16:41: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TFZo7S3T_8o&amp;t=1001s</summary>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Do women really curse more than men, as the hadith says?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;No: Mufti Abu Layth says men swear more than women across cultures and ingratitude is shared by both, so the report's reasons are factual errors. Mufti Abu Layth says the report contains a factual error, since men always outperform women in swearing in every culture.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Answer from 29 July 2018 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kind: general teaching&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recording: Hadith Analysis: Did the Prophet ﷺ Refer to Women as Lacking Intellect and Faith? (at 16:41)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A more recent answer on hadith/authentication/text-criticism-and-reason exists&lt;/b&gt; (19 August 2022): &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/t0phqrnjjby/s/17/"&gt;What does the Quran say against the satanic verses story?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TFZo7S3T_8o&amp;amp;t=1001s"&gt;Watch on YouTube at 16:41&lt;/a&gt; · &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/tfzo7s3t_8o/s/4/"&gt;Open the segment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Is cyberbullying and attacking someone's honour haram in Islam?</title>
    <link href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/13/" rel="alternate" type="text/html" />
    <id>https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/13/</id>
    <updated>2017-09-29T00:00:00Z</updated>
    <published>2017-09-29T00:00:00Z</published>
    <category term="fiqh-speech-and-everyday-conduct" label="fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct" />
    <category term="wellbeing-character-and-virtue" label="wellbeing/character-and-virtue" />
    <category term="hadith-individual-hadith-explained" label="hadith/individual-hadith-explained" />
    <summary type="text">Is cyberbullying and attacking someone's honour haram in Islam?
Harming the honour of a Muslim is graver than destroying the Kaaba, Mufti Abu Layth says citing a hadith, and bullying, cyberbullying and maligning people are haram. A crime goes to the authorities; a haram act is for God alone to judge. Mufti Abu Layth holds that harming the honour of a Muslim is graver than destroying the Kaaba, as the hadith he cites says, and that bullying, cyberbullying and maligning people's character are haram.
Answer from 29 September 2017 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors
Kind: general teaching
Recording: Propaganda against Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan - Mufti Abu Layth (at 40:31)
A more recent answer on wellbeing/character-and-virtue exists (29 September 2024): https://muftiabulayth.org/r/hmurvu2c9yq/s/5/
Watch on YouTube at 40:31: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_dmOJl-_bI&amp;t=2431s</summary>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Is cyberbullying and attacking someone's honour haram in Islam?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Harming the honour of a Muslim is graver than destroying the Kaaba, Mufti Abu Layth says citing a hadith, and bullying, cyberbullying and maligning people are haram. A crime goes to the authorities; a haram act is for God alone to judge. Mufti Abu Layth holds that harming the honour of a Muslim is graver than destroying the Kaaba, as the hadith he cites says, and that bullying, cyberbullying and maligning people's character are haram.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Answer from 29 September 2017 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kind: general teaching&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recording: Propaganda against Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan - Mufti Abu Layth (at 40:31)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A more recent answer on wellbeing/character-and-virtue exists&lt;/b&gt; (29 September 2024): &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/hmurvu2c9yq/s/5/"&gt;Spread love, and take account of the damage our words have done&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_dmOJl-_bI&amp;amp;t=2431s"&gt;Watch on YouTube at 40:31&lt;/a&gt; · &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/13/"&gt;Open the segment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Do Muslims online have the right to demand evidence about a scholar's private life?</title>
    <link href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/12/" rel="alternate" type="text/html" />
    <id>https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/12/</id>
    <updated>2017-09-29T00:00:00Z</updated>
    <published>2017-09-29T00:00:00Z</published>
    <category term="society-technology-and-media-social-media" label="society/technology-and-media/social-media" />
    <category term="fiqh-speech-and-everyday-conduct" label="fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct" />
    <category term="dialogue-the-mufti-and-the-channel" label="dialogue/the-mufti-and-the-channel" />
    <summary type="text">Do Muslims online have the right to demand evidence about a scholar's private life?
The public is not a court and has no jurisdiction to demand or weigh evidence about someone's private life, which everyone has a right to. Mufti Abu Layth says those attacking Nouman Ali Khan cannot fill his place when the next generation needs answers about the Quran. Mufti Abu Layth holds that the public is not a court and has no jurisdiction to demand or weigh evidence about a person's private life, and that everyone has a right to a personal life.
Answer from 29 September 2017 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors
Kind: general teaching
Recording: Propaganda against Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan - Mufti Abu Layth (at 36:37)
A more recent answer on dialogue/the-mufti-and-the-channel exists (18 May 2021): https://muftiabulayth.org/r/t9ei_hrzl84/s/2/
Watch on YouTube at 36:37: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_dmOJl-_bI&amp;t=2197s</summary>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Do Muslims online have the right to demand evidence about a scholar's private life?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The public is not a court and has no jurisdiction to demand or weigh evidence about someone's private life, which everyone has a right to. Mufti Abu Layth says those attacking Nouman Ali Khan cannot fill his place when the next generation needs answers about the Quran. Mufti Abu Layth holds that the public is not a court and has no jurisdiction to demand or weigh evidence about a person's private life, and that everyone has a right to a personal life.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Answer from 29 September 2017 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kind: general teaching&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recording: Propaganda against Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan - Mufti Abu Layth (at 36:37)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A more recent answer on dialogue/the-mufti-and-the-channel exists&lt;/b&gt; (18 May 2021): &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/t9ei_hrzl84/s/2/"&gt;Response to accusations over Palestine remarks and claims he is not Muslim&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_dmOJl-_bI&amp;amp;t=2197s"&gt;Watch on YouTube at 36:37&lt;/a&gt; · &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/12/"&gt;Open the segment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Why does it matter that the word 'abuse' was used about Nouman Ali Khan?</title>
    <link href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/11/" rel="alternate" type="text/html" />
    <id>https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/11/</id>
    <updated>2017-09-29T00:00:00Z</updated>
    <published>2017-09-29T00:00:00Z</published>
    <category term="fiqh-speech-and-everyday-conduct" label="fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct" />
    <category term="dialogue-views-on-contemporary-scholars" label="dialogue/views-on-contemporary-scholars" />
    <category term="society-technology-and-media-social-media" label="society/technology-and-media/social-media" />
    <summary type="text">Why does it matter that the word 'abuse' was used about Nouman Ali Khan?
Calling flirtatious messages abuse misuses a word people understand to mean molestation or rape, in Mufti Abu Layth's view, and it was used to destroy a man who made the Quran relevant in English. He calls the campaign coordinated, driven by ulterior motives, and an act of Judas.
Answer from 29 September 2017 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors
Kind: general teaching
Recording: Propaganda against Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan - Mufti Abu Layth (at 32:43)
A more recent answer on dialogue/views-on-contemporary-scholars exists (22 February 2023): https://muftiabulayth.org/r/mofs_0ugn4e/s/1/
Watch on YouTube at 32:43: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_dmOJl-_bI&amp;t=1963s</summary>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Why does it matter that the word 'abuse' was used about Nouman Ali Khan?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Calling flirtatious messages abuse misuses a word people understand to mean molestation or rape, in Mufti Abu Layth's view, and it was used to destroy a man who made the Quran relevant in English. He calls the campaign coordinated, driven by ulterior motives, and an act of Judas.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Answer from 29 September 2017 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kind: general teaching&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recording: Propaganda against Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan - Mufti Abu Layth (at 32:43)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A more recent answer on dialogue/views-on-contemporary-scholars exists&lt;/b&gt; (22 February 2023): &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/mofs_0ugn4e/s/1/"&gt;Should scholars publicly condemn a scholar said to have joined in a libation ritual?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_dmOJl-_bI&amp;amp;t=1963s"&gt;Watch on YouTube at 32:43&lt;/a&gt; · &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/11/"&gt;Open the segment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Did great scholars like Ibn Hajar have private lives that would be condemned today?</title>
    <link href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/10/" rel="alternate" type="text/html" />
    <id>https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/10/</id>
    <updated>2017-09-29T00:00:00Z</updated>
    <published>2017-09-29T00:00:00Z</published>
    <category term="history-scholars-and-imams" label="history/scholars-and-imams" />
    <category term="relationships-marriage" label="relationships/marriage" />
    <category term="fiqh-speech-and-everyday-conduct" label="fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct" />
    <summary type="text">Did great scholars like Ibn Hajar have private lives that would be condemned today?
Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani married a woman who had been his wife's slave girl without anyone warning the ummah against him, Mufti Abu Layth says, so such private conduct cannot be called abuse. Words like abuse imply real abuse and are dangerous. Mufti Abu Layth holds that conduct such as Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani's marriage to his wife's former slave girl was never treated as abuse of power or as grounds to warn the ummah against him, and that the word abuse should be kept for real abuse, not the breaking of corporate rules.
Answer from 29 September 2017 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors
Kind: general teaching
Recording: Propaganda against Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan - Mufti Abu Layth (at 30:07)
A more recent answer on history/scholars-and-imams exists (10 December 2022): https://muftiabulayth.org/r/s-vm6mgbll8/s/2/
Watch on YouTube at 30:07: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_dmOJl-_bI&amp;t=1807s</summary>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Did great scholars like Ibn Hajar have private lives that would be condemned today?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani married a woman who had been his wife's slave girl without anyone warning the ummah against him, Mufti Abu Layth says, so such private conduct cannot be called abuse. Words like abuse imply real abuse and are dangerous. Mufti Abu Layth holds that conduct such as Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani's marriage to his wife's former slave girl was never treated as abuse of power or as grounds to warn the ummah against him, and that the word abuse should be kept for real abuse, not the breaking of corporate rules.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Answer from 29 September 2017 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kind: general teaching&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recording: Propaganda against Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan - Mufti Abu Layth (at 30:07)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A more recent answer on history/scholars-and-imams exists&lt;/b&gt; (10 December 2022): &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/s-vm6mgbll8/s/2/"&gt;How did Abu Hanifa become a scholar after starting out as a merchant?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_dmOJl-_bI&amp;amp;t=1807s"&gt;Watch on YouTube at 30:07&lt;/a&gt; · &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/10/"&gt;Open the segment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Is it Islamic to name and shame someone for a sin?</title>
    <link href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/6/" rel="alternate" type="text/html" />
    <id>https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/6/</id>
    <updated>2017-09-29T00:00:00Z</updated>
    <published>2017-09-29T00:00:00Z</published>
    <category term="fiqh-speech-and-everyday-conduct" label="fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct" />
    <category term="society-technology-and-media-social-media" label="society/technology-and-media/social-media" />
    <category term="history-sirah" label="history/sirah" />
    <summary type="text">Is it Islamic to name and shame someone for a sin?
Naming and shaming a person for a sin is a modern tabloid practice with no basis in the Prophet's example, who addressed wrongdoing without naming anyone. Those acting as haram police are mostly unqualified, and Mufti Abu Layth notes they ignore rulings that apply to themselves. Mufti Abu Layth holds that publicly naming and shaming a person for a sin is a modern tabloid practice with no basis in the Prophet's example, since the Prophet addressed wrongdoing without naming anyone.
Answer from 29 September 2017 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors
Kind: general teaching
Recording: Propaganda against Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan - Mufti Abu Layth (at 15:41)
A more recent answer on history/sirah exists (9 May 2023): https://muftiabulayth.org/r/oag-f3hxcdy/s/3/
Watch on YouTube at 15:41: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_dmOJl-_bI&amp;t=941s</summary>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Is it Islamic to name and shame someone for a sin?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Naming and shaming a person for a sin is a modern tabloid practice with no basis in the Prophet's example, who addressed wrongdoing without naming anyone. Those acting as haram police are mostly unqualified, and Mufti Abu Layth notes they ignore rulings that apply to themselves. Mufti Abu Layth holds that publicly naming and shaming a person for a sin is a modern tabloid practice with no basis in the Prophet's example, since the Prophet addressed wrongdoing without naming anyone.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Answer from 29 September 2017 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kind: general teaching&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recording: Propaganda against Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan - Mufti Abu Layth (at 15:41)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A more recent answer on history/sirah exists&lt;/b&gt; (9 May 2023): &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/oag-f3hxcdy/s/3/"&gt;How did the Prophet balance gentleness and strength?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_dmOJl-_bI&amp;amp;t=941s"&gt;Watch on YouTube at 15:41&lt;/a&gt; · &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/6/"&gt;Open the segment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>If a religious figure does something wrong, should people expose him online?</title>
    <link href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/4/" rel="alternate" type="text/html" />
    <id>https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/4/</id>
    <updated>2017-09-29T00:00:00Z</updated>
    <published>2017-09-29T00:00:00Z</published>
    <category term="fiqh-public-law-and-governance" label="fiqh/public-law-and-governance" />
    <category term="fiqh-speech-and-everyday-conduct" label="fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct" />
    <category term="fiqh-legal-theory" label="fiqh/legal-theory" />
    <summary type="text">If a religious figure does something wrong, should people expose him online?
If a crime was committed it must be reported to the authorities, and vigilante justice is haram. If the act is only haram and not a crime, it is for Allah alone to judge, not for people online. Mufti Abu Layth holds that if a crime has been committed it must be reported to the authorities, that vigilante justice is haram, and that a haram act that is not a crime is for Allah alone to judge.
Answer from 29 September 2017 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors
Kind: general teaching
Recording: Propaganda against Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan - Mufti Abu Layth (at 10:30)
A more recent answer on fiqh/legal-theory exists (18 October 2025): https://muftiabulayth.org/r/onzjd7xmdhe/s/23/
Watch on YouTube at 10:30: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_dmOJl-_bI&amp;t=630s</summary>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;If a religious figure does something wrong, should people expose him online?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If a crime was committed it must be reported to the authorities, and vigilante justice is haram. If the act is only haram and not a crime, it is for Allah alone to judge, not for people online. Mufti Abu Layth holds that if a crime has been committed it must be reported to the authorities, that vigilante justice is haram, and that a haram act that is not a crime is for Allah alone to judge.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Answer from 29 September 2017 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kind: general teaching&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recording: Propaganda against Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan - Mufti Abu Layth (at 10:30)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A more recent answer on fiqh/legal-theory exists&lt;/b&gt; (18 October 2025): &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/onzjd7xmdhe/s/23/"&gt;If reason helps us understand the Quran, does the reasoning of earlier scholars matter too?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_dmOJl-_bI&amp;amp;t=630s"&gt;Watch on YouTube at 10:30&lt;/a&gt; · &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/4/"&gt;Open the segment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>What arguments were used to justify exposing Nouman Ali Khan?</title>
    <link href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/3/" rel="alternate" type="text/html" />
    <id>https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/3/</id>
    <updated>2017-09-29T00:00:00Z</updated>
    <published>2017-09-29T00:00:00Z</published>
    <category term="fiqh-legal-theory" label="fiqh/legal-theory" />
    <category term="society-technology-and-media-social-media" label="society/technology-and-media/social-media" />
    <category term="fiqh-speech-and-everyday-conduct" label="fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct" />
    <summary type="text">What arguments were used to justify exposing Nouman Ali Khan?
The campaign rested on three claims: a duty to forbid evil, greater accountability for leaders, and the idea that any relationship involving a person of status is abuse. Mufti Abu Layth presents these as the views he is about to answer.
Answer from 29 September 2017 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors
Kind: quoted view (stated in order to be discussed, not necessarily held)
Recording: Propaganda against Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan - Mufti Abu Layth (at 6:36)
A more recent answer on fiqh/legal-theory exists (18 October 2025): https://muftiabulayth.org/r/onzjd7xmdhe/s/23/
Watch on YouTube at 6:36: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_dmOJl-_bI&amp;t=396s</summary>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What arguments were used to justify exposing Nouman Ali Khan?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The campaign rested on three claims: a duty to forbid evil, greater accountability for leaders, and the idea that any relationship involving a person of status is abuse. Mufti Abu Layth presents these as the views he is about to answer.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Answer from 29 September 2017 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kind: quoted view (stated in order to be discussed, not necessarily held)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recording: Propaganda against Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan - Mufti Abu Layth (at 6:36)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A more recent answer on fiqh/legal-theory exists&lt;/b&gt; (18 October 2025): &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/onzjd7xmdhe/s/23/"&gt;If reason helps us understand the Quran, does the reasoning of earlier scholars matter too?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_dmOJl-_bI&amp;amp;t=396s"&gt;Watch on YouTube at 6:36&lt;/a&gt; · &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/3/"&gt;Open the segment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Was it wrong to publish the allegations against Nouman Ali Khan?</title>
    <link href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/2/" rel="alternate" type="text/html" />
    <id>https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/2/</id>
    <updated>2017-09-29T00:00:00Z</updated>
    <published>2017-09-29T00:00:00Z</published>
    <category term="fiqh-speech-and-everyday-conduct" label="fiqh/speech-and-everyday-conduct" />
    <category term="dialogue-views-on-contemporary-scholars" label="dialogue/views-on-contemporary-scholars" />
    <category term="society-technology-and-media-social-media" label="society/technology-and-media/social-media" />
    <summary type="text">Was it wrong to publish the allegations against Nouman Ali Khan?
Releasing ambiguous allegations of abuse against Nouman Ali Khan, later said to concern flirtatious messages, was clear-cut haram and character assassination in Mufti Abu Layth's view. He calls the handling despicable and contrary to the Prophet's message.
Answer from 29 September 2017 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors
Kind: general teaching
Recording: Propaganda against Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan - Mufti Abu Layth (at 2:39)
A more recent answer on dialogue/views-on-contemporary-scholars exists (22 February 2023): https://muftiabulayth.org/r/mofs_0ugn4e/s/1/
Watch on YouTube at 2:39: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_dmOJl-_bI&amp;t=159s</summary>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Was it wrong to publish the allegations against Nouman Ali Khan?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Releasing ambiguous allegations of abuse against Nouman Ali Khan, later said to concern flirtatious messages, was clear-cut haram and character assassination in Mufti Abu Layth's view. He calls the handling despicable and contrary to the Prophet's message.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Answer from 29 September 2017 · auto-transcribed, may contain errors&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kind: general teaching&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recording: Propaganda against Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan - Mufti Abu Layth (at 2:39)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A more recent answer on dialogue/views-on-contemporary-scholars exists&lt;/b&gt; (22 February 2023): &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/mofs_0ugn4e/s/1/"&gt;Should scholars publicly condemn a scholar said to have joined in a libation ritual?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_dmOJl-_bI&amp;amp;t=159s"&gt;Watch on YouTube at 2:39&lt;/a&gt; · &lt;a href="https://muftiabulayth.org/r/6_dmojl-_bi/s/2/"&gt;Open the segment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
  </entry>
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